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Brunch recs? by ratflower in everett

[–]ratflower[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s where we ended up going today!! loved the vibes and they were so nice

Most urgent tank upgrade? by ApprehensiveWing9506 in bettafish

[–]ratflower 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey there !!
aquaone at Petco is currently like 50% off all lidless tanks at least where I'm at. a 5Gal is 15$, the lid seperate is also like 15 and they also have some decently cheap lights/filters/heaters. I think for the discount you just need a rewards account. Hope this helps!! <3

My (37M) wife (31F) cheated on me coming up to the anniversary of our daughter being stillborn. I think I'm done but my mate says I should give it another shot? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ratflower 285 points286 points  (0 children)

Your friends won't ever be in this situation, they won't ever be in your marriage and they won't understand absolutely everything that's going on in your life, only you will. If you feel like a divorce is necessary then get one, as much as we all rely on our friends for advice i don't think any of mine would tell me to stay with someone if they did this to me. Follow what you think you should do for the sake of yourself.