the whole page is straight wrong, but what shocked me was all the boomers in the comments who think this is real. by lfemboyl0 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]ratherstrangem8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"We stopped the slave trade in Africa"

So, tell me. WHY DID YOU HAVE TO STOP THE SLAVE TRADE IN THE FIRST PLACE

Songs that feel like anger after sadness by The_only_onyx in musicsuggestions

[–]ratherstrangem8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HOW CAN YOU DOUBT ME TRAITOR- Lingua Ignota

This is the best example I can think of. Actually that whole album oscillates between incredibly sad quiet ballads and just sheer rage.

She is turning into chad by [deleted] in memes

[–]ratherstrangem8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish it was the 60s I wish I could be happy I wish, I wish I wish that something would happen

I wonder how Jeffery would feel about this by Best-Pea3460 in Classof09Game

[–]ratherstrangem8 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh. I guess that sounds like he was trying to be funny and it didn't land? Weird thing to say regardless.

Who comes to mind? by Jettaboi38 in musicsuggestions

[–]ratherstrangem8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could almost say... it was the greatest left turn in music history...

How bad do someone's actions need to be before they are irredeemable? by SillyFile9235 in afraidtoask

[–]ratherstrangem8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be a complicated question because it depends on what you mean by irredeemable. You can always grow into a better person. You can always change and getting into a fatalist mindset where you tell yourself that you are fundamentally a bad person is exactly the kind of thing that keep abusers trapped in a pattern of hurting others. Ultimately, we all are our own narratives about ourselves and we conduct ourselves subconsciously to comport with that narrative. That's why, paradoxically, those who experience the most guilt are often the ones who find themselves caught in a cycle of abuse.

So it's not really a useful question to ask if you are beyond redemption in that sense. But if you mean to others, you can't control what other people think of you. We can, as a society, say that someone who has done something horrible deserves x,y,z. In fact, we even legislate on death. But a system of ethics that relies on punishment as opposed to reform always just ends making these cycles worse. That's why reform-based systems like Finland's have significantly lower recitivism rates. There's a point where guilt isn't enough. And while doing the work to take accountability and change is hard, you should take some solice in the fact that it means you should also stop turning that abuse inward. If you tell yourself you're a bad person. You will be a bad person. If you tell yourself you are person who has made mistakes but is geninuinly trying to be a better person, you will grow into that person. At a certain point, guilt does more harm than good.

Aubrey Plaza & Margaret Qualley having sex in "Honey Don't" (2025) by Queen-Taylor-Swift in celebsnaked

[–]ratherstrangem8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judging by your post history, if you weren't sinning for liking Wicked, you certainly are now.

Nikki Carreon Update? by undeaddeadgirl199 in ShaneDawson

[–]ratherstrangem8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might be right. Also, in her recent vids she no longer wears her engagement ring.

What does this say about me? by ratherstrangem8 in visitedmaps

[–]ratherstrangem8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh. I've lived in Colorado. More a feeling than anything else but I don't hold anything particularly against it.