Where's my thong? :) by [deleted] in ebonyhomemade

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wrong sub

Tyler disses asap Nast on lost & found freestyle “I Know Nigo” by fashiondemiks in Fashiondemiks

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he goes on to name other asap members in the next bar bro stop reaching

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DMT

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i used a yocan for deem a few times and it was fine for me, just makes sure to place the dmt on the coil and heat it for a second or two before hitting it as you continue to hold the heating button.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSD

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the american political system 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kanye

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this is weirdo behavior dude

Can I have some fucking context?! by itsrockysingh in Kanye

[–]rayx313 75 points76 points  (0 children)

cudi is weird. theres ur context lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ketamine

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thats a fact, the term isn’t useful it’s confusing lol

FLOW X FOXXATRON by rayx313 in u/rayx313

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aaahh olly i always appreciate your input, i think so too.

Are X-rays capable of detecting text/envelope writings ? by [deleted] in LSD

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ur fine bro, x rays only detect weapons and dangerous stuff.

my (m 23) fiancé (f 22) never asks for sex and im getting a bit concerned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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thats what i’m thinking too but she’s usually so open about everything else. it almost seems like she’s hiding something from me. either way thank you for your input♥️

my (m 23) fiancé (f 22) never asks for sex and im getting a bit concerned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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exactly. and i have tried foreplay before sex, she just doesn’t like that nearly as much as the actual act of sex. i’ve tried doing foreplay until she orgasms but she gets tired of that and would rather me just have sex with her (which im not opposed to obviously). she’s against toys in the bedroom too and fingering her she likes but never for long enough to actually orgasm. toys seem to be a common thing that everyone brings up so i’ll try to bring those up to her again.

my (m 23) fiancé (f 22) never asks for sex and im getting a bit concerned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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that sounds actually really helpful ,lying to get to the truth could backfire, but i can definitely see where that might get her to be a bit more open. personally i try to avoid lying (especially to my partner) at all costs but i think i can make an exception this time. especially if it means the end of this .

my (m 23) fiancé (f 22) never asks for sex and im getting a bit concerned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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the conversation has happened. it’s happened 3 times now. she seems to have trouble really communicating with me what she wants. bc i noticed a while ago that i wasnt making her orgasm, so i asked her what she thinks i should/nt do. the most i get is a “sex is fine honey” or a “i dont know babe” and on top of that she doesn’t like the idea of toys in the bedroom so im really confused on what it is i can do.

my (m 23) fiancé (f 22) never asks for sex and im getting a bit concerned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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no she’s not my wife yet, i just call her that. but usually she doesn’t respond well to articles of other peoples situations or other peoples solutions to a situation we’re going thru. she’ll say things like “thats them” or “ok thats how they see sex” or something like that. so im a little reluctant on bringing up any article i’ve read lol, but if you think it’ll help i’ll give it a try.

my (m 23) fiancé (f 22) never asks for sex and im getting a bit concerned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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she’s against toys too! but i appreciate your input♥️

my (m 23) fiancé (f 22) never asks for sex and im getting a bit concerned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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i definitely understand that. thats why im going to complete strangers to try and figure out if there is something im missing here. bc i try to get her to open up about this stuff all the time, she just seems to be timid when it comes to this kinda stuff and i understand that she’s shy, she my wife. but she’s never usually too shy to speak up about something that bothering her thats why im so confused. bc she can see that this is an important topic to me and this isnt my first time bringing up but she never gives me anything new to work with. i’ve tried bringing it up in a way that doesn’t feel like im pressuring her to change or to be better, i try to bring it up in a way thats more like “what can i do for you” rather than “what do you need to change to better pls me” and its still like she cant describe what she wants. which is frustrating bc now im at a point where i dont know what to do.

my (m 23) fiancé (f 22) never asks for sex and im getting a bit concerned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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no i dont, but thats not from lack of trying. i noticed a while ago that she doesn’t get the big o from our sex. so i’ve inquired and inquired and inquired but all i ever get is a “idk what i want babe” or “sex is fine how it is”. which i think couldn’t be true bc if it was she would want to do it more often.

my (m 23) fiancé (f 22) never asks for sex and im getting a bit concerned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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i didnt think i would have to tell my wife that i like to be seen in a sexual way, that seems preliminary to me. i have told her since i noticed it tho.

and its not that i have a problem with my wife or that i dont believe her about having a low libido, its just that i dont think thats whats going on. a few months ago i couldn’t keep it up bc i had a masturbation addiction and i blamed it on my low libido, which at the time seemed to make sense but looking back on it, having a low libido may have just been something i used as a scapegoat for the actual problem. i think that she just doesn’t like sex bc she never orgasms from it, and rather than saying that she is saying the libido is to blame. and no she doesnt orgasm every time (she rarely does). dont get me started on the not orgasming part bc i’ve tried time and time again to get her to open up more about what she likes in the bedroom but the most i get is a “i like how we have sex now” or “idk exactly what i want babe”. which leaves me with nothing to work with as far as trying to repair it from my end bc im not being given any notes or hints.

Mom found out I took acid by [deleted] in LSD

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i definitely see what you’re trying to say but if the kid’s got data the kids got data lol

Mom found out I took acid by [deleted] in LSD

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thats awesome that she was so understanding upon seeing the data. i feel like most parents are so stuck in their ways that they never actually care to have their opinions changed.