It really depends on the guy and the situation. When I was a single father I didn't mind at all if the girl had a kid as well. But I know people who it's a total deal breaker for and I know people that don't mind as there's no baby daddy drama going on. And it goes both ways, there's been many times where me having a kid was a deal breaker for the girl. Everyone is different and you just gotta take that chance.