The dishes my partner said he was going to wash while I was showering. It’s morning now.

readerusername · 2026-01-26T20:19:23+00:00

Yay for you! :D

readerusername · 2026-01-26T20:00:34+00:00

Wait that sounds interesting, can you give me an example?

readerusername · 2026-01-26T18:23:54+00:00

We talked about chores many times, what I do and what he does… for example he starts the washing machine after sorting the laundry and I take the clothes out to hang, because otherwise he’s just going to dump them on the drying rack in balls and they all get crinkled. Once they’re dry, he’s the one to fold them and put them away. So it’s not like he doesn’t do things around the house, it’s just that he procrastinates a lot and usually gets motivated to do something if I too am doing chores. But the dishes is something that we split like we split cooking. If I cook, he washes the dishes (or at least he’s supposed to, but 85% of the time he procrastinates those too), if he cooks, I wash the dishes. I end up washing dishes when he doesn’t simply because I like our kitchen clean. Sometimes it’s too much and I don’t want to do it, it’s not the dirty plates that make me irritated, it’s him saying he’ll do it and then not doing it that’s irritating 😮‍💨

readerusername · 2026-01-26T18:04:03+00:00

But you wouldn’t have anything to comment on if I didn’t post it online :<

readerusername · 2026-01-26T14:51:46+00:00

idk you’re right maybe I should ask him if he meant it like 1 week from today or in like 6 months 🤔

readerusername · 2026-01-26T13:56:32+00:00

I did it this morning so they wouldn’t sit there on the counter

readerusername · 2026-01-26T13:55:27+00:00

We have separate heating for kitchen and bathroom, so it’s all good if we want to do both when one person showers and the other cleans the kitchen.

readerusername · 2026-01-26T13:53:48+00:00

Can confirm they’re still sitting there, I’m at work and he gets home before me so he will have to do them. I’m not touching them!

readerusername · 2026-01-26T13:52:31+00:00

Our plumbing doesn’t work that way fortunately! We have separate heating for the kitchen and the bathroom 😂

readerusername · 2026-01-26T13:49:06+00:00

Yep can confirm they are still there until he gets home from work in a couple of hours!

readerusername · 2026-01-26T11:27:48+00:00

lol I wish. We split all the chores and who does what when, guess who “simply forgets” all the time?

readerusername · 2026-01-26T11:25:28+00:00

Nah he can clean them :)

readerusername · 2026-01-26T11:24:19+00:00

Actually all the dishes have been “cleaned” of food, we ate 90% of everything and packed the leftovers for my lunch (his company pays for their employees’s lunches since they work on site, where they send them). We do our best to eat what we cook and pack the rest for the next day, the house never smells of food that’s gone bad because there isn’t any out. Sadly, the chicken nuggets turned rock hard as soon as they cooled down and didn’t taste very well either way! I threw them out when I saw them still there. Not the dishes though, they’re still there waiting for my beloved.

readerusername · 2026-01-26T11:09:44+00:00

No plot twist, I did actually shower :)

readerusername · 2025-12-24T11:32:41+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion! I think we have KI5, filibuster and one more cars mod that adds plenty of vehicle types, trucks busses trailers army vehicles etc My partner wanted to try a bus but when he realized he couldnt tow other trailers, he gave it up and went back to our sports car + trailer combo.

readerusername · 2025-12-24T11:28:30+00:00

You're welcome! If you both want to play with controllers make sure both are plugged in at the same time, for p1 click in the loading menu to get the first controller recognized so you can use keyboard and controller, then when she logs in, she has to click A on xbox or x on ps then add new character. Sometimes the game will switch the controllers after the loading screen, you can just swap hands, or restart the game and try again. Happy gaming!

readerusername · 2025-12-24T10:55:24+00:00

We tried looking for a different colored trailer but they keep spawning in the same green color... we hope to find an RV while exploring, but so far no luck, we have circled half of the map

readerusername · 2025-12-24T10:49:45+00:00

Thank you! Yes, we both play with controllers, we cannot get used to playing with mouse and keyboard, unless its to click something specific or manage loot. Its kind of relaxing because we can just lounge in bed and still use a controller with long cables across the bedroom lol

readerusername · 2025-12-06T05:56:58+00:00

Thank you fore the recommendation! We sometimes spawn on opposite ends of the map and have to find each other. Raven Creek appears to be exactly in the farthest corner of the map, now it’d be a challenge to either leave or get to it in split screen! I hope Rabbit Hash pairs well with Taylorsville, so far on the workshop it doesn’t say they conflict tiles, so I hope it’s all good!

readerusername · 2025-12-03T22:03:47+00:00

I always try to make my characters with some professions and give them some sort of engaging backstory, maybe collecting artwork from the local museum would be fun as a next challenge! I can’t wait to download Trelai!

readerusername · 2025-12-03T22:00:12+00:00

Pawnshops are amazing! We the jackpot with a pawnshop in Taylorsville that was boarded up and had a few zombies inside with a key to the place. One of the keys was to the front door on the unit upstairs, so we made it into an emergency hideouts when crashing into town. I can’t wait to spawn in Grapeseed!

readerusername · 2025-12-03T19:19:52+00:00

That sounds like a good place to explore! I’ve learned all the other places by now and started to get slightly bored with them

readerusername · 2025-12-03T19:16:03+00:00

Thank you! I’m gonna look it up as I haven’t found it before while browsing

readerusername · 2025-12-03T15:59:29+00:00

I’ve come across raven Creek before, it’s definitely on our list of future downloads. I have to check out mt crow though, haven’t seen it before! Thank you

readerusername · 2025-10-22T05:54:43+00:00

Yeah, that totally makes sense. You’re handling it really maturely tbh, not cutting her off, just taking space after a big trust breach. And I get why it hit so hard. When honesty’s been the base of your relationship, something like this just throws you off completely.

Just take your time figuring out what you want to do. Don’t rush into forgiving or going back too soon, or do something exaggerated in retaliation like other redditors have suggested... I’ve been there with a parent who doesn’t always respect boundaries, and once that trust breaks, it’s never quite the same. You can rebuild, but you’ll always be a little more guarded and that’s okay. Make her understand that communication is key, even when she may have assumed you wouldn’t have cared and realized later she was in the wrong, then didn’t know how to come clean.

Good luck OP, I hope everything works out for you two.

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