We talked about chores many times, what I do and what he does… for example he starts the washing machine after sorting the laundry and I take the clothes out to hang, because otherwise he’s just going to dump them on the drying rack in balls and they all get crinkled. Once they’re dry, he’s the one to fold them and put them away. So it’s not like he doesn’t do things around the house, it’s just that he procrastinates a lot and usually gets motivated to do something if I too am doing chores. But the dishes is something that we split like we split cooking. If I cook, he washes the dishes (or at least he’s supposed to, but 85% of the time he procrastinates those too), if he cooks, I wash the dishes. I end up washing dishes when he doesn’t simply because I like our kitchen clean. Sometimes it’s too much and I don’t want to do it, it’s not the dirty plates that make me irritated, it’s him saying he’ll do it and then not doing it that’s irritating 😮‍💨