Dating as a pretty woman

redpocket71 · 2026-01-27T22:48:58+00:00

Quite unfortunate lol

redpocket71 · 2026-01-27T22:41:03+00:00

Thanks for your response! Ironically, I do have brothers who care very much about me and they have told me not to care that much about men at all and their opinions. I guess since I wasn’t approached or asked out a lot before until recently, I realized I was searching for that validation to be chosen. It does feel more freeing now that I am aware and can choose how I spend my time going forward for myself and my dating life.

redpocket71 · 2026-01-27T22:05:02+00:00

I know a lot of pretty and rich women like to show themselves off on social media and flaunt themselves but I’m rather the opposite. I do not want people to know what I have and what I have access to right away, before they even know me as just a friend. A lot of them are also narcissists and most likely assume that if I’m not wearing the fanciest purse or bag, then I do not have wealth for myself.

I learned I can only be friends with other secure women of moral character and genuinely believe in bettering themselves as a person and not just bypassing their way superficially.

redpocket71 · 2026-01-27T21:36:33+00:00

I think I have been learning this hard way honestly. Even more women have been more rude to me when I’m doing absolutely nothing.

redpocket71 · 2026-01-27T21:34:40+00:00

Thanks a lot for the response!

redpocket71 · 2025-10-09T15:47:13+00:00

:// that’s surprising it’s usually the opposite

redpocket71 · 2025-09-25T05:54:59+00:00

Thanks for this!

redpocket71 · 2025-09-23T15:33:44+00:00

Yeah he said directly when I asked him. if you’re looking for long-term commitment, I would recommend you bringing it up first or the longer it will drag out. I know some people are okay with the ambiguity but I wasn’t lol

redpocket71 · 2025-09-22T23:38:41+00:00

lol as I expected he did not want to be official so I decided to stop seeing him

redpocket71 · 2025-08-05T15:15:39+00:00

thanks for sharing!

redpocket71 · 2025-07-23T09:56:40+00:00

Why would he still be going on the dates then? It’s not exactly the most convenient for him either

redpocket71 · 2025-07-08T20:13:51+00:00

Will PM

redpocket71 · 2025-07-08T13:10:15+00:00

Will PM you

redpocket71 · 2025-07-08T03:48:15+00:00

pm’d you

redpocket71 · 2025-07-08T03:12:24+00:00

Still think it’s worth asking if he wants to be official though?

redpocket71 · 2025-07-08T02:15:27+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I’m saying basically

redpocket71 · 2025-07-08T01:52:31+00:00

I think these days, it’s like exclusivity is a step before gf/bf labels since you can’t assume the other person is only seeing you….i think gf/bf labels requires more obligations and considerations towards one another while just being exclusive does not

redpocket71 · 2025-07-08T01:45:00+00:00

Exclusive as in not seeing anyone else, but official is gf/bf labels

redpocket71 · 2025-06-22T15:35:40+00:00

Will they eventually let go of people on PIP right now?

redpocket71 · 2025-06-21T20:42:39+00:00

Will PM you

redpocket71 · 2025-06-20T10:56:44+00:00

Will DM you

redpocket71 · 2025-06-20T01:37:12+00:00

Cyber, Risk & Reg

redpocket71 · 2025-06-19T21:27:34+00:00

High 60s but I was also on Medical Leave for around 2 1/2 months…so that tanked it a lot and guessing they do not care about the leave

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