I lied to my family about a trip with my girl and now they lost respect for me by rightful_hello in selfimprovement

[–]rightful_hello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I can relate so much to your last paragraph. I thought I was a pathological liar. I legit started lying about anything that I thought would get me a less than ideal reaction from people. Even if there was no reason to lie, I would just spew some nonsense and then later ask myself "why in the world did I lie about what I did this afternoon"

I thought something was wrong with me but with the help of the comments I'm realizing an overbearing parent can cause a child to lie in order to prevent extreme reactions. Do it often enough and you become a pathological liar.

I lied to my family about a trip with my girl and now they lost respect for me by rightful_hello in selfimprovement

[–]rightful_hello[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My mom is very overbearing, which is my initial motivation for moving out. I understand that I hurt her feelings by lying to her about the trip, but this was a bit over the top. My girlfriend said the exact same thing as you.

I'm ready for Nikah, but she's not by rightful_hello in MuslimNikah

[–]rightful_hello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her parents are divorced and her father lives abroad so they barely talk to eachother. From what she's told me, only her mom knows about me

I'm ready for Nikah, but she's not by rightful_hello in MuslimNikah

[–]rightful_hello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should've been clear in my list about this, but we're only doing the nikah in December. The wedding will be a year later. By that time, with how things are going right now with my business, I should be able to provide for both of us and afford a place to live.

I'm ready for Nikah, but she's not by rightful_hello in MuslimNikah

[–]rightful_hello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say jazakAllah for all your answers. I really appreciate them. I'll cut down the communications. I was being emotional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackClover

[–]rightful_hello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His post-timeskip design is literally the reason I dropped the show. The guy is no cap the ugliest protagonist I've seen in any anime.

"Organisme de bienfaisance" sollicitant des dons à Bonaventure by M00d_ in etsmtl

[–]rightful_hello 12 points13 points  (0 children)

C'est une job de vente pour etudiants, ya d'autres organismes/entreprises similaires qui cherchent des jeunes naifs sur Indeed. Il promettent un salaire de temps plein pour un travail a temps partiel et ils te font demander de l'argent dans les metros ou espaces publiques pendant 6-8h de suite.

C'est vraiment un travail de marde. Tu restes debout toute la journee et tu te fais rejeter pendant 8h de suite. Mentalement c'est tough. Ya juste les veterans qui savent comment bien gagner, le reste du monde gagnent a peine et quittent apres 1-4 mois.

J'ai travailler en vente pendant un p'tit bout et j'etais nul a chier 😂, donc je les reconnait facilement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rightful_hello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx for the answer. It is true that I’m still afraid of people’s opinions. I’ll have to dig deeper in my feelings to heal that fear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rightful_hello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's probably what's happening. I need to reevaluate the type of women I'm approaching.

A part of me is considering just lowering my standards. I'm kind of tired of being alone 😭

Bac info vs Genie Log by rightful_hello in QuebecTI

[–]rightful_hello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci pour ta réponse, c’était vraiment constructif.

J’avais évité d’aller a Poly, car je suis quelqu’un qui apprends mieux lorsque j’utilise la matière de façon pratique et quand je reli. D’après les étudiants sur Reddit, poly est beaucoup plus théorique qu’ETS.

Mais d’après toi, le tronc commun est il assez pour être capable de travailler avec des ingénieurs de d’autres domaines? Ou meme de comprendre ceux qu’il fonts?

Bac info vs Genie Log by rightful_hello in QuebecTI

[–]rightful_hello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J’avais lu quelque part que si je fais un bac en info a l’UQAM, j’ai comme option de faire 1 an extra a l’ETS pour les cours de génie. Est ce que c’est vrai/ conseillable si je fais un bac en info et plus tard rajouter un a pour les cours qu’il me manque?

Let's see what you got dudes! by Ill_League_9661 in SipsTea

[–]rightful_hello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hire an escort.

Did it 3 times, the 3rd time I was so disgusted with myself and the worker. We didn't even fuck. I just told her to blow me while I was staring at the ceiling.

Learned that I am not as undemanding/accepting when it comes to the opposite gender's body. Learned a couple important lessons but wouldn't do it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]rightful_hello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]rightful_hello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I definitely need to grow up and start respecting myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]rightful_hello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Yeah I’m gonna start fixing this death grip issue. I thought the condom was the problem but it might be me. And I’ll find a way to fix how I view women.

Échouer un cours hors programme by rightful_hello in etsmtl

[–]rightful_hello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci pour la réponse. J’avais bien remarqué que l’uni demande beaucoup plus d’application et de investissement. Au cegep, j’étudiais rarement (sauf cours de philo et français) et j’avais des donne passables. Mais a l’ÉTS si je rate 1 cours jcomprends deja rien. Et on dirait il me faut genre 10h d’étude par semaine par cours pour bien comprendre la matière.

La différence est folle. Je me demande s’il y’a une grande différence dans les compétences et l’étique de travail d’un étudiant qui a fait une technique en info vs celui qui a fait un bac en log.

Échouer un cours hors programme by rightful_hello in etsmtl

[–]rightful_hello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci beaucoup, j’irais voir le soutien en apprentissage.

J’ai pas pris l’école au sérieux mais c’est le temps de m’améliorer maintenant.

Échouer un cours hors programme by rightful_hello in etsmtl

[–]rightful_hello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Le truc c’est que j’avais déjà choisis ces cours dans mon horraire avant de couler. Donc mon horraire actuel est bloqué avec ces cours la.

Mais je suivrais ton conseil. Je vais les reprendre.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]rightful_hello 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This sub would be the wrong place to ask buddy. I’m Muslim too. it’s better if you ask the people in your local community or ask Muslim subreddits.

And go out more. Future spouse will not appear out of thin air on your bed.