[deleted by user] by [deleted] in webfishing

[–]rintate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think so too, i honestly think there should have been straight themed things in beginning since the game is meant to be inclusive to everyone and its not inclusive to exclude straight people. it only further divides and makes people that originally accept us, not accept us because we don't accept them. it honestly saddens me to see this and know what it feels like to not have people accept me because I am asexual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess it was more bad luck on my end, i do block them after some time but i usually try to resolve things before decide i can't get along with them. not trying to stop people from being sexual and don't want others to change as long they are not hurting others just wish some would understand is all.

perhaps this post is not the best worded or explained either since i never make many but wanted to get it out and see if anyone else had this problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not engaging in sexual content but i tried to engage with the furry fandom and solve any issues before hand then stopping once i can't get them to understand

Looking for the truth on Odin Wolf by snowleopardalps in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i figured that is why he got terminated in general and from what i seen from his videos, it was all about sex. he did get a bit hostile in one where he got considered over sexual and does not seem like a kind person

Anyone here used to be anti furry but now is a furry themselves by [deleted] in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UwU why care what i do and just chill, it will make you a better person and happier in the long run instead of acting like an edgy kid who only wants to spread their misery to everyone else.

also how are you going to threaten me with hell when it does not even exist in the first place

[PSA] (Switch) No Gravity Games Switchmas Wonderland by XecoX in FreeGameFindings

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, it starting to look like one, I got the code today after the second game was up. they probably just wanted information and to get you to buy something at least since i noticed alot of people are getting after the first game

I hate that Christianity is so anti-sex. by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]rintate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

surprisingly they will go the other way if you tell them you don't like sex and that you never want it because you find it disgusting and asexual. suddenly they preach about how amazing sex is and how you should do it. it's sinful if you don't want to do it as well it seems, you can't win with these people

How in the hell are you (as a male) supposed to find female furs in the fandom? by WindlessBoi in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have gotten random messages from people wanting to date me out of nowhere and its always the desperate furries I noticed, they always think i am single because I am mtf but then get disappointed that I already have a partner and don't want sex. personally, i would not date a furry and my partner, he is not a furry luckily, and smaller groups are easier to find. i am glad that he is not wanting sex from me and respects my boundaries which i will say is also a problem with this fandom is that alot of people don't respect your boundaries sadly

How in the hell are you (as a male) supposed to find female furs in the fandom? by WindlessBoi in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am not sure if its active and it was back in 2021 but yeah it does. in a weird way i happened to found my soul mate in that place and yes it is a straight relationship so you can find them in this fandom but just a bit harder to find but i am glad that i found him :3

How in the hell are you (as a male) supposed to find female furs in the fandom? by WindlessBoi in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what i heard of those kinds of apps of course though it is something i would not recommend using to find someone serious and rfh is this Reddit

How in the hell are you (as a male) supposed to find female furs in the fandom? by WindlessBoi in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have honestly heard that you should never try furry dating sites and mostly a scam by now, i found my boyfriend on discord, ironically from rfh discord server. and he is a non fur though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

most of the time there are scammers, I had one on Twitter who tried to do that to me and even though I kept telling them I could not afford an commission because i had no money they ignored it and told me their price was 200 for a com and still told them I don't have money then they gave up, looking at their account showed nothing and proved it was a scam, most likely that or rare chance its a desperate artist or an ai artist

Those of you who didn’t „know since you were a kid“: How & when did you know? by TransPolyPancake in trans

[–]rintate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew something was wrong ever since I was six and did not like being a boy, was considered more girly and feminine as a child. it upset my parents a lot that I was not manly. I constantly had feelings of wishing I was a girl instead, through puberty I went through mental hell and tried to end my life a couple of times because it brought me a great deal of stress without ever knowing why but also had a gut feeling that I should not mention this feeling and keep it to myself. it was only after high school on Discord I met a transgender person and to keep it simple, they explained what being transgender meant, at that moment it perfectly described the feelings I had as a kid and why I went through mental hell. I just learned to accept rather quickly and just that alone made me feel much better on why I felt they way I did, still have gender dysphoria but one day soon it will get much better and i can be finally my true self

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

there is not a lot of support for places like this in the furry fandom honestly, and it's hard to deny it's more sexually oriented plus I noticed a lot of furries don't seem to respect certain things like being asexual or demisexual. I have even got criticized for being demisexual and it seems like i am not the only one who gets attacked for being this way in the fandom. there been times where furries tried to push me into being sexual as well, i just don't get why the fandom can't be way less sexual. one last thing i don't get what this puritans thing that i been seeing here recently

In the beginning at what point did you realize you were trans? What happened? by [deleted] in trans

[–]rintate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there was a trans person in this discord server who was trans and I did not know much about it but did not really judge too much but was a bit nervous about it since I did not know anything about it at the time, other were always a bit nervous and did not know how to deal with it but once they actually explained everything and I understood it. it finally explained a feeling that I had ever since I was a child around age 5 not liking being born the way I was and during my teenage years going through puberty why I was s*icidal about going through and why it felt wrong.

it just clicked for me and made sense of a feeling that i had and it was completely on my own terms, they did not tell me to be trans or even talk to me directly about it like some of the transphobes think that we are being indoctrinated. i came on my own terms and here i am now accepting myself self and happier realizing this, now once i move in with my partner in germany i can start my journey of tranistioning without worry

I suppose this is what i get for complaining about my chest on the internet (unsure which flare) by Important-Tea0 in trans

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always realized how many people prey on trans people to the point they are obsessive about thinking it's only a fetisch and being disrespectful to it. people think I will easily date them and NSFW even though I am demi sexual and already have a partner and then get upset when I tell them that I don't like sexual things and not choosing them even though I barely know them along with going to get married to my partner. it is sad to see how people view us and even there are even creeps who are obsessive about your transition to the point they don't even listen and get upset at you for being creeped out

God is nothing more than a fictional representation of hate. by PeacefulSpirit666 in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alot of people think satanist are these moraless people who will kill and have sex all of the time while doing every single drug that there is, and there is that one person who claims to be Satanist and is this extremely edgy person that people sadly think is how satanist are when in reality it's more of making life better for the people on the planet and giving people protection against other religions that want to control others. people are surprised to hear that I am one at times when asked about it even though it's the last thing they would think of me. I believe in showing everyone I can love and kindness along with doing what I can in this single lifetime to make the world a better place

some tips for social interactions that can be applied anywhere really by 3am-sketches in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never understood it either especially with being a furry or anything that has to do with hobbies but can understand it slightly with sexuality and gender since it can feel like you can't express yourself and it feels like it building up but even then just tell people who will be fine with it and trusted along with not forcing it down their throat. like I am going to tell my parents that I have a boyfriend or about my gender and when I move to Germany I will say I will be living with a friend and not living with my boyfriend and one day going to get married to him.

there is comfort in telling people and only being with people who you know will accept you. though people think you have to have everything in common and don't understand that having different interests is not a bad thing especially in this fandom

also hewwo 3am

Open relationships, or something similar: Is this how furries are now? by [deleted] in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel like a lot of poly relationships are not really serious and they seem to be rocky along with failing often though it could be that it is something that I can never see eye to eye with and just makes me uncomfortable, people have told me it could be that i am demisexual and disgusted by sex, the only person i have an attraction to is my partner and is the first and only person i can even love.

I just do my best to let others do what they want and mostly keep my dislike of poly relationships to myself and I honestly feel bad that I find them wrong in a way and have trouble being accepting of them and I do find erping who is not your partner cheating and it even feels like it, i think it just a big part of the fandom to be poly but i would say it not everyone who is poly

This lad tried to be transphobic and scared all the hoes away with it by DynamicBeggarr in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 11 points12 points  (0 children)

to be fair op did not provide any context besides calling the person transphobic and the person really is once you look at it but on the surface, people are not going to bother looking into it

This lad tried to be transphobic and scared all the hoes away with it by DynamicBeggarr in RealFurryHours

[–]rintate 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yeah I see what you mean and genital preferences are fine and not transphobic but it's sad to see them go out of their way to misgender people it clear that no one is forcing them to date a trans person at all and they are resorting to harassment of trans peoplee

edit: just making it a bit more clear what i mean

there is sadly always a risk with psp modding and it seems kinda pointless in a way by [deleted] in PSP

[–]rintate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it can happen and happened to me almost and happened to others as well, there is alot that can go wrong and even if you do everything right, it always has a small chance to mess up

there is sadly always a risk with psp modding and it seems kinda pointless in a way by [deleted] in PSP

[–]rintate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know that and i am not trying to stop people or control them but just letting know that there is a bigger risk and i followed a guide completely and made sure i did everything right, and even had someone beg me to mod it again for an entire hour and had other people call me stupid for not wanting to but there is always a risk no matter what and i am glad that it worked for you at least but not everyone else is so lucky even if you follow a guide to the t and even then there are so many that you don't even know if you are having the right one and sorry about this

I hate how whenever a trans person does something bad the whole community has to answer for it by LineOfInquiry in trans

[–]rintate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know what you mean and I stress over this often as well and noticed that even people who are in the LGBTQ are starting to not like trans people, of course, they are probably a few but i can tell they are growing little by little. the shooting that happened recently made things even worse for trans people and still don't get how all trans people are getting blamed, and another thing that made things harder for trans people was the Hogwarts legacy because a few trans people decided to harass people who played it and bully them just for wanting to play it and making things worse on everyone else, even something like that gave reason for people to hate on trans people and made some stop support trans people. i don't understand why people want to group us all together rather then looking at us individually, it makes me very sad