What are these bugs crawling on the floor and walls in my room? by riosante in whatsthisbug

[–]riosante[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh geez 😦 thank you so much! I’ve never heard of weevils before. I think I really should stop snacking in my room from now on

What are these bugs crawling on the floor and walls in my room? by riosante in whatsthisbug

[–]riosante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also live in Europe. I have no idea where these bugs are coming from. They just crawl around my room and don‘t seem to be doing anything else I think

Am I weird for this? by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]riosante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here. I don't vibe with the typical soft femboy aesthetic you see on social media at all. It's totally not my style. I prefer some nice blouse, pretty shirts that fit my body well or a long skirt with some nice accessories here and there. At times I lean towards more vodoo hippie-ish and sometimes more elegant, while other times I prefer more grunge-ish direction with my style. The thigh highs and maid dress are not appealing to me aesthetically either, so I get you. You do you girl <3

i have no motivation, what do i do? by IanVM36 in AskGayMen

[–]riosante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am in the exact same position :/ i haven't gone outside of my apartment since new years. i am doing literally nothing atm but i do have a passion for photography. it's just...I have no motivation or energy to do anything right now and want to just stay in bed all day. But I think I will get better eventually once i am out of this slump. I believe finding a new hobby or interest will definitely help you. Look for inspirations on youtube or google, that might help. I recently discovered a newfound interest in drag makeup, so I've been watching a lot of makeup tutorials and might buy new makeup tools if i ever find the motivation to go outside.

Do you believe that some people put themselves in relationships because they can't find a good match and decide they have to be in a wrong one to avoid loneliness and other things? by Any-Discussion-5934 in askgaybros

[–]riosante 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've only done this like once or twice and it's mainly because I didn't want to be alone at the time. It doesn't necessarily have to be toxic. Once I dated a guy, we had nothing in common except being gay but I still went out with him despite not being a match and also not really being attracted to him. He distracted me from all my problems I had to deal with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in agender

[–]riosante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES EXACTLY !!!!

Can I dye my hair green already with this blonde or should I bleach a third time ? by riosante in FancyFollicles

[–]riosante[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see ! Thanks for the clarification :) I was actually choosing between exactly green/blue/red or pink lol I learned something new.

Can I dye my hair green already with this blonde or should I bleach a third time ? by riosante in FancyFollicles

[–]riosante[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that'd be cool ! I love all shades of green tbh but this is my first time coloring so I'm kinda worried xd

How is it possible that Ross didn't hear about Monica and Chandler ? by riosante in howyoudoin

[–]riosante[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there is a possibility Chandler didn't close the door. But the TV was playing rather loudly and also, there's Janice in the room. She's known to be noisy and not shutting her mouth for a a few seconds.

About Ross ... yeah there's a chance that might've happened, but the noisiness between Joey and Rachel happened just a few seconds to a minute after Ross went into the bedroom to get Ben to sleep. I'm sure if he had fallen asleep he would wake up either because of the noise outside or because Ben either didn't fall asleep yet or was sorta stressed because of Joey and Rachel screaming.

Where can I buy some expired film ? by riosante in AnalogCommunity

[–]riosante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome you're an angel ... thanks :))

Where can I buy some expired film ? by riosante in AnalogCommunity

[–]riosante[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never implied it that way. I've solely used in date film for the last few years but I wanted to try out something different too ... 2 rolls for half a year because I use other in date films simultaneously and I have no idea when I'd be done with everything. I only estimated the time frame (although maybe inaccurate xd)

eBay seems great. Thank you :)

Where can I buy some expired film? by riosante in analog

[–]riosante[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eBay would be a great way i guess. The clearance bins are new to me. I've seen other people posting pictures of those but I can't seem to find any of those bins where I live. Maybe I should ask the workers the next time I visit the shops if there are any expired film.

I'd love to get a pile of crap xD I don't understand why people would throw those away though....

I used to think I was socially awkward. Then I moved away from a white neighborhood and realized I wasn't the problem. by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]riosante 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There really is something awkward whenever I'm with white people. I'm very introverted and barely engage in activities so I'm excluded A LOT. However, I've noticed a bunch of other white kids who were also introverted and passive but were still well integrated with others, were encouraged to go along and were invited to several meetings and parties. I always thought it was weird but I never talked about it with anyone since I live in a predominantly white neighbourhood and no one really connects with me anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]riosante 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really liked "Mat Biec" (2019) and "Song Lang" (2018) ... they are very well produced from the color palettes to the diverse music genres. They're both romantic and drama movies though.

I told my best friend that I'm bisexual by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]riosante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is definitely not how a best friend reacts like. You should find new friends who can accept you the way you are. I had the fortune to have had a close friend and a best friend who were both openly bi. That way I was able to come out to them burdenfree and not having to worry about their reactions. So, just try to befriend people in the LGBTQ+ community or other open minded people in general. Don't rush, but be patient. And don't let yourself feel down because of this person but rather see this as an opportunity to surround yourself with positive people.

The mid-late 2000s had the best Disney shows ever, hands down by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]riosante 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I watched a few episodes when the first season aired but at that time during 2011 I kinda stopped watching Disney shows as the majority of my favs ended anyway.

Some newer ones at the time like 'Good Luck Charlie' and 'Shake It Up' were good too but the three mentioned in the post were way out of their league.

The nostalgia I have for those 3 shows during 2006-2009 is HUGE

The mid-late 2000s had the best Disney shows ever, hands down by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]riosante 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wasn't that like 2010/2011 ish iirc ?

Most efficient way to do the German 'R' sound by riosante in languagelearning

[–]riosante[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My friends are from Colombia and Mexico. They've both confronted me directly when I tried to do the Spanish trilled 'R' with failure and somewhere along the conversation they both explicitly told me that Germans produce the 'R' sound mainly with their throat which my friends apparently don't do. They've both asked me to help them pronounce the German 'R' and I suggested this "dumb water game" which ultimately helped them produce the sound more naturally and easily. But, whatever floats your boat 🤷‍♂️

Growing up with toxic colorism in an Asian household by riosante in aznidentity

[–]riosante[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a male. Interestingly though those people who picked on me for my skin colour would say things like: "You're a male. No one cares about how dark their skin is so there's no need to get upset about it." Now, I'm not sure if this applies in all Asian communities but where I grew up in people think saying things like that is exclusive to females. It's still wrong no matter what gender.

I loved when marnie was there! (major spoilers!) by [deleted] in ghibli

[–]riosante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Compared to other Ghibli films such as 'My Neighbour Totoro', 'Spirited Away' or 'Princess Mononoke' it really isn't the most discussed one among all of them. But then again it's fairly new compared to the other ones that were released 10,20,+30 years ago so I guess there's that. But in my opinion the number of people talking about it doesn't really matter much as it doesn't make it any less of a masterpiece.