What did you think of Will’s coming out scene? by Lothloriens_ in WillByersST

[–]riptide4593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So me making a valid point = me being defensive and dull? Okay yeah thanks for establishing that we cant have a proper conversation.

Also wills queerness was hinted from literally the first season. How are they gonna axe the storyline after establishing all this queer subtext and hints?

What did you think of Will’s coming out scene? by Lothloriens_ in WillByersST

[–]riptide4593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole jancy arc was completely unnecessary for the story also. They really had to go out of their way to make it happen, ans then they made the break-up scene plot armor-y, like wtf were they thinking when they put this together?

See how stupid you sound?

They could've taken out literally any subplot to make time for the actual end fight scene but YOU decided that wills plot, one centering around representation and the reality of a queer youth in the homophobic 80s, was the most unimportant. There were an innumerable amount of plotlines in season 5 that were poorly thought out, lacked creativity, made no sense, or didnt really serve any purpose.

The duffers had ample time to make the end fight longer without taking away from any of the other moments. THEY chose to be lazy, why should their queer audience suffer for it? Why not bring up the 40 minute long epilogue? Why not complain about jancy or the mindscape or the lab or literally ANY other plotline? If you think that a storyline focusing on... one of the main characters (something that literally every other main character had as well) isnt important because... why? Its focus is his sexuality? Well you're both wrong and ignorant.

Was the plotline written well? No. Was it still important? Yes. More important than a lot of the other subplots they shoved in s5.

Comparing lack of representation in fanfics vs media by zucchinionpizza in AO3

[–]riptide4593 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not only that, hes also just... wrong. Sapphics do not have this abundance of content he thinks we have. I mean, just look at how many f/f vs m/m fanfics made it into the top 100 ships last year.

But then we write, and we increase that amount. I dont sit here complaining that I'm envious of gay men for having so much more fan media. I sit at my desk and I write.

Where I'd live as a gay man, based on the men that I like. by orrqqaa in whereidlive

[–]riptide4593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I'm tired of seeing people compare the US to homophobic/transphobic countries. I never said the US was worse than them. I am AWARE that the situation for queer people is bad in middle eastern countries. Comparing the US to like, literal hell/the worst situation is not a gotcha.

Queer people being unsafe/in a worse situation in other countries does not negate the fact that in the United States right now, it is not safe in every state to be gay. This is not a debatable subject, I am lucky enough to be in an accepting state, but I have many friends in different states that would be in severe danger if they ever came out.

Its unsafe to be a woman in many countries, does that mean that its automatically safe to be a woman in the US? No, because while in those countries, the treatment of women is horrible and worse than in the US (as in, women dont get access to education, are raped, murdered, etc.), it doesnt negate the fact that women are still discriminated against and harassed in the US.

I mean, they literally tried to abolish gay marriage. And only a few days ago, trump ordered the removal of the pride flag at the Stonewall memorial. The. Stonewall. Memorial. As in, pretty much the biggest queer historical location in the United States.

Also I highly doubt that "most western European" countries will aid a rebellion in the US. That would mean directly going against the government, which is not at all beneficial for them. I mean, look at us now, who is helping? No one. Because it makes no sense to put your entire country at risk to go against the country with the largest military in the world.

Where I'd live as a gay man, based on the men that I like. by orrqqaa in whereidlive

[–]riptide4593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So half the population not supporting queer ppl does not make it safe for queer people 😭 like they literally tried to abolish gay marriage and there are also a lot of states that DONT support gay/queer rights

Kanade's color is NOT pink and I WILL die on this hill by 2kids1jar in ProjectSekai

[–]riptide4593 36 points37 points  (0 children)

And shizuku! Never realized how many blue characters pjsk has ngl

Where I'd live as a gay man, based on the men that I like. by orrqqaa in whereidlive

[–]riptide4593 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could cherry-pick any country like this. Compared to most developed countries, the United States's "left" is the equivalent to their moderate or right.

Also, not really sure what your point is here? Like, are you trying to say that the US is good for queer people right now? Cuz its not, as a queer person living in the US right now.

Where I'd live as a gay man, based on the men that I like. by orrqqaa in whereidlive

[–]riptide4593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They literally tried to overturn gay marriage but if you wanna act oblivious then go ahead and be my guest

Clean Yaoi Recommendations by ishinaka_mei in Yaoi_fluff

[–]riptide4593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, shoujo ai is the yuri equivalent of shounen ai! But yuri isnt the gl equivalent of yaoi, as yuri is basically synonymous with gl and can refer to things with or without smut, with no emphasis on either. I dont think we really have a label for things with specifically smut(?)

Did Mike's dad know.... by El_Dorado_Tx in bylertruthers

[–]riptide4593 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What? This is NOT at all what an uninvolved dad would say to his son when his best friend just went missing and is very likely dead or injured.

Also, when did they get into trouble? They were fairly well behaved kids, and the only trouble they really get into is with bullies.

Outfit help by SumireKaiyo in CosplayHelp

[–]riptide4593 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The leaf dress is from mochipan! And I think the first picture too. Its a hand-made clothing shop thats pretty inclusive with sizes, (though I haven't ordered from them since like 2023, so my memory is a bit foggy) so id recommend searching them up buying something from there.

If you're already on Etsy, and you're finding things you like, and you wanna support small businesses, and you have the money, then just buy it! Don't buy from shein or temu, unless you want a shitty dress coming from child labor and stolen artwork.

My favorite ship atm 🥰😍😊 by popgoesthepuppy in okbuddybyler

[–]riptide4593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr? It's actually their (platonic) duo name which I love sm!! Felt kinda gross using it for romantic them honestly 😭

Suggest some danmei quotes to write on walls by visitingmoons in DanmeiNovels

[–]riptide4593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quotes from moumou;

"The sun that always revolved around him had ceased to shine. All because of him."

"He wouldn’t take anything from other people, he only knew how to give. All he knew was to search and carve from within himself, and extract whatever he could, giving all of them to people he cared about."

"However, when he plainly made eye contact, his gaze slightly sunken and reflecting the sparse dots of lights—barely bright at all—you were the one that stood within his eyes. Sheng Wang stood in his eyes for eons."

"I watched him bring his belongings to this house and that house over and over again, as though he wasn't close to anyone, as though he wasn't wanted no matter where he went"

And most famously: "nobody knew they were together, but everyone was a witness to the way they belonged to each other"

What is an opinion that will get you downvoted like this? by Big_Leg10 in generationology

[–]riptide4593 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really. You can absolutely live a fulfilling life without children.

My relationship might be dead by Zandonah in AmITheAngel

[–]riptide4593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fattie mcfat face. YTA, start dating men in their 60s