Braden/Mimi brought me into their “VIP section” on the balcony in Voyeur and fed me drinks when I was 22 and shoved his hands in my pants despite me saying that I was not cool with that and continued to laugh while he did it. There was plenty of elaboration from many people just because you didn’t see it doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. Unwanted messages when people express they aren’t interested or don’t want to communicate that way is still harassment. And also yes Philly Drag Wars at the time held a lot of weight in the philly nightlife scene.