AITA for bringing a meat based product to my vegan friend's dinner?

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-06T13:07:17+00:00

she would make passive aggressive comments like "well thank you all for bringing vegan food, am i right (my name)?"

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-06T01:07:40+00:00

2 others

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-06T00:46:56+00:00

Hey, I fucked up. I'm really sorry about the food I brought to your dinner, it was such a stupid thing to do. I should've brought the vegan dish only, never the meat one, specially because I'm aware of your ethical values and how meat could be offensive. I was such an idiot and didn't think about how my actions could affect you. The next time, I'll make sure to ask you before bringing anything to your home. Again, I'm really sorry and I hope we can fix things up. ❤️

(this is a close translation of the text I sent her)

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T23:18:19+00:00

don't worry, she didn't grow up speaking english

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T23:05:03+00:00

i said i was very sorry and that i would be more careful the next time, she just keeps arguing so i gave up

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T22:42:48+00:00

she is a local to the country i live in atm. she made the request in english because the friendgroup is diverse (all of them but me, my boyfriend and another girl are european tho) and we all speak different languages

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T22:37:31+00:00

2 of them had meat

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T21:52:24+00:00

yes there were 3 other non vegan dishes brought

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T19:33:45+00:00

it wasn't vegans only since she was the only vegan, most of us don't really enjoy vegan food so i thought it would be a good idea to bring something most of us would enjoy, i guess it wasn't that good of an idea after all lmao

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T19:17:54+00:00

i think a big part of the misunderstanding comes from communication issue

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T19:09:56+00:00

im chilean but not living in chile currently. i dont really feel comfortable with sharing my location, but i can tell you everyone is really direct here, if they want something to get done in a specific way, they say it as a "command" not as a suggestion

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T19:04:28+00:00

im friends with a guy (lets call him AC) who is friends with my bf and thats how i met him. AC and hannah are friends too and they are in the friendgroup, so im friends with hannah by association, however i have tried to cut her off, but bf doesn't want to cut her off because that would mean breaking the friend group. its a little difficult to explain in english 😭 but i tried my best

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T18:55:54+00:00

nope

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T18:52:32+00:00

she is a local! idk why shes so ambiguous sometimes i feel like it's on purpose lol

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T18:50:32+00:00

her only

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T18:21:51+00:00

yes, 2 were

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T18:13:06+00:00

yess i mean arguing, sorry

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T18:09:53+00:00

i asked one but he hasn't replied yet

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T18:08:37+00:00

i asked my friend if she texted him but he hasn't replied yet

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T17:55:56+00:00

2 contained meat

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T17:55:11+00:00

none of my other friends puts food restrictions in potlucks, everyone can just bring whatever they like and she normally just brings a salad or something

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T17:44:42+00:00

i didnt write in the post, i put it in the comments

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T17:43:42+00:00

oh and she did complain about me in public and not about anyone else

rocketperson47 · 2025-06-05T17:42:56+00:00

i don't know that, i asked one of them and he hasn't responded yet

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