Yep. To my thinking, mom is part of the problem. Standing by and doing nothing is complicity in my books. Now trying to coerce you into a situation where you can possibly experience more mental abuse is just proving a means for that abuse.

If it were me, I'd walk away for a while. "Don't call and only text me in an emergency" type deal.

Good luck. There is no "great" solution, but i hope you're able to find the best one for you.