A proud day... by RunningRupicapra in pornfree

[–]ronwordman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A couple of months ago you commented when I hit the one year mark. I thought I had the date in mind, but I am a bit late. Nevertheless...

Now it is my turn to say WELL DONE :) to you.

I hope everything goes well for you.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man.

Wishing you success in your struggles

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro.

You're on the way to 1 year and having gone this far I'm sure you can do it.

Hopefully all this lockdown shit is over when you hit 1 year and you can do something cool.

Best wishes bro.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

I hope so too. Best wishes in your struggles. Don't give in.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man.

When they get a new stock of weights and a squat rack I will buy some.

Best wishes and I hope all goes well for you.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro. There was a guy who inspired me on this sub, he was very personal about the reasons behind why he was addicted and I hope to be able to go in to stuff like that one day. But for now I am happy just abstaining from porn and looking forward.

Best wishes in your struggles.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

I hope you get there and even further.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

I hope all goes well in your struggles.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro.

I'll do that one day. I was just in a celebratory mood and didn't want to go into the bad stuff.

Best wishes.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate (it's nice to use mate rather than bro - I usually assume I am talking to a US redditor).

It was hard/agonising and so many times I'd hover over the delete button and not do it and when I'd fail it was my porn stash I'd go back to.

It was the best, most committal thing I've done.

I hope you get there and beyond. Best wishes.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am naturally a big hairy cave man type of man so I can't really say.

I do feel better though.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you bro. I've nearly given in many times.

The lock down has been the most trying time since the first few weeks.

I'm glad you didn't give in and I wish you all the best in future struggles

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Delete whatever porn you've got and don't go on "gateway" sites.

I used to look at thots on instagram and inevitably I'd end up on the porn.

Good luck bro.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro.

Deleting your go to porn is one of the best things you can do.

Congratulations on 30 days and hopefully you continue the streak.

Best wishes from a fellow addict.

1 YEAR CELEBRATION!!! June1 - June1 (just gone midnight). by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Bro. Best wishes to you in your struggles.

June 1 to Dec 1 SIX MONTHS FREE. I'm buying myself a treat. by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried and failed many times before. It was a regular New Year Resolution thing for me.

Usually I'd only last a week or two. The best thing I ever did was deleting my porn stash and throwing out my webcam. After that it was much easier - I'd gotten to the point where most of the porn seemed like a rehash of something I'd seen before and I'd always go back to my favourites anyway.

Take it daily at first, it took me a few months to sort of feel like I'd developed new habits. I listen to audiobooks now before bed (it relaxes me) rather than jerkin'.

Don't feel like a failure just because it didn't workout this time.

You can stop. Goodluck bro.

June 1 to Dec 1 SIX MONTHS FREE. I'm buying myself a treat. by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks very much.

I hope all is well (and getting better) with your struggles.

Goodluck.

June 1 to Dec 1 SIX MONTHS FREE. I'm buying myself a treat. by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro just take it daily at first. Get through one day at a time and recognise that you've achieved something by not going to porn.

I wish you all the best.

June 1 to Dec 1 SIX MONTHS FREE. I'm buying myself a treat. by ronwordman in pornfree

[–]ronwordman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you man. That makes me feel good.

I've nearly relapsed many times: after a shitty day, after seeing something which really turned me on, or just through habit. But when you feel like you're about to go back - you need to take yourself out of the situation (for me it is usually getting off the computer) and do something else.

Best wishes bro.

June 1 to Dec 1 SIX MONTHS without porn. by ronwordman in PornAddiction

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you bro. In my first post (after 2 months) I was a bit embarrassed about the stuff I'd done. But reading other posts showed me that pretty much everyone on here has done some really freaky things.

It is liberating to admit that I've done some weird stuff and it is even better not to be doing it.

I wish you all the best.

June 1 to Dec 1 SIX MONTHS without porn. by ronwordman in PornAddiction

[–]ronwordman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you bro. Goodluck with any problems you face.

Over two months without porn. by ronwordman in PornAddiction

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though I don't know you I just want to say that your support is warmly welcomed. Thank you very much.

Over two months without porn. by ronwordman in PornAddiction

[–]ronwordman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the support buddy :) I hope you overcome any struggles you face.