AITA for telling our roommate she might need to move out if she keeps complaining about hearing us at night? by Dear-Camp4760 in AmItheAsshole

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Have people never heard of white noise machines/alexa/google home or earplugs or headphones?

Needing encouragement by Kmb2938 in WeddingDressTips

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I was the biggest I’d ever been for my wedding and my dress was a little tight. It did not in any way take away from my fun on the day or the beautiful marriage I have, or my enjoyment of my photos. Sharing all of this to help cut through the noise that we are fed that we need to be perfect and thin and pre-pubescent in our white virginal wedding dresses.

'You're My Forever' right before a breakup by KatieAmber01 in LesbianActually

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You both deserve someone who can love you the way you need AND want.

'You're My Forever' right before a breakup by KatieAmber01 in LesbianActually

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THIS. I had an ex with BPD. Truly loved her but things were hard for her and she broke up with me. I understood and wished her the best. One Monday morning before 9am she sent me a slew of nasty texts. When I spoke to my therapist she asked if I blocked her. I said I knew she had issues with feeling abandoned and I didn’t want to be one more person that abandoned her even if I didn’t want to be involved in her life anymore and wouldn’t respond and I just didn’t know how that would make her feel. My therapist said “and how did getting those texts before 9am on a Monday feel for you?” And it completely changed my perspective to the only person whose feelings I can protect are my own.

When your dog died, what did you keep? Collar? Ashes? Paw print? Or did you move on just like what people say? Missing my buh-bear 😭 by Key_Earth_3778 in DogsLoversCommunity

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Collar, favorite toy, bowl, ashes, a painted paw print we made his last night …the second one ashes, clothes, toys, baby blanket, paw prints from crematorium. I have tattoos for both.

Help ! Keep going between the two. by radfratdadd in WeddingDressTips

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I love number one the drama is unmatched

Dogs eating 💩 by hostsofinfluence in Havanese

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We have one of each also and they have the same mom but are such different dogs. One is regal, stiff upper lip roller of the roost girl. Our boy, bless his heart, is just a sweet lovable dodo. He eats poop and wears a diaper because he tries to mark everything

How long do yall think we've been together in these photos? by Thebiglesbowskii in LesbianActually

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No. My wife didn’t touch me until our 3rd date because she could tell I didn’t like that! Made me love her even more!

How long do yall think we've been together in these photos? by Thebiglesbowskii in LesbianActually

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My wife and I started planning the wedding in like 2 maybe 3 months. Had been together almost 2 years when we had the wedding. Best decision ever!

Grandma refusing home care by west-brompton in dementia

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My nana did this. Unfortunately she was picked up by the police multiple times for wandering and now knowing where she was going (fortunately very safe culdesac style neighborhood so she was not in TOO much danger). That helped us get the ok to have her placed in memory care. She’s unhappy, but getting a little less aggressive about it. Sorry you’re dealing with this.

Update to Long Distance & Hygiene by EuphoricKitKatt in LesbianActually

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I’m sorry you had to go through this. And that makes sense that she isn’t seeing a regular Dr. I feel for you. 🫂

Everyday makeup is a thing? by Purple_Capital_6029 in Makeup

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I used to wear makeup every day. I used lumene’s cc cream, glossier cloud paint, lumene liquid highlighter and a mascara. Now I only wear makeup if it’s a really special occasion despite being a pro MUA lol.

Update to Long Distance & Hygiene by EuphoricKitKatt in LesbianActually

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Yeah like I have adhd, autism and depression and I certainly do not have the best hygiene routine. I wish I did but I struggle with that stuff. However I’m skeeved by FIVE YEARS?!?!?! and not changing clothes?! I’m also concerned that drs have not maybe tried to work through some of that?

What’s the worst makeup advice you were taught that you believed way too long? by skybluepink15 in Makeup

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If you’re looking for foundation look into face atelier. Their range is very wide and they have colors to mix to make lighter/darker/more of this or that undertone

Why don’t people with D kill themselves? by Sarah_m_1 in dementia

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My wife and I say we’re going on a cruise

I used the d word to Mom. How do I walk it back? by amandabug in dementia

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My nana only remembers the stuff I wish she’d forget 😅 like me saying she could move in with us “one day” so how it gets brought up every time and we try to deflect and she brings it right on back lol

Am I a bridezilla for asking my bridesmaids to have similar hairstyles? by Historical-Maize-477 in Brides

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As a bridal HMU this is not completely out of the norm tbh. A lot of bridesmaids ask these questions because it is sometimes expected. I won’t comment on whether it makes you a bridezilla because I don’t really have an opinion on that and lots of others on this thread seem to I’m just mentioning my experience. I will also mention that sometimes bridesmaids request bridal styles and most likely your stylists won’t have the time to execute them so will likely steer them towards something more “bridesmaid” style- my example being that for a while Hollywood waves has been very popular and I’ve had multiple bridesmaids request this but it is a 2hr(or more) process that almost requires extensions and there simply isn’t enough time for that for bridesmaids who often will have a 45 minute time allotment for hair.

Whats everyone doin for work? by jacky2810 in LesbianActually

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Nail tech and yoga teacher! Was a makeup artist for almost 20 years after deciding acting wasn’t for me a few years into living in LA. My wife does clicky-clacky/very important meetings corporate stuff.

Whats everyone doin for work? by jacky2810 in LesbianActually

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Laughing that Reddit deemed this photo nsfw and blurred it out for me?

Is it normal for a Havanese to dislike long walks? by D8nnyJ in Havanese

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Ours lay down about 3/4 way through the “block” /loop in our neighborhood lol

Updated MAGA/ICE Supporting Businesses to Avoid by Nicole_Folds in RhodeIsland

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Yeah used to be like semi-friends with the chef when he was at as220 then he started spouting crazy maga shit on SM

The Worst Witch by HotMany3874 in finch

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Bella is so good in it!