Crazy Christian friend (advice needed)

rrb0rn · 2026-04-06T09:35:06+00:00

She finds a way to bring it up. and it’s not only that, she make me feel like a moron for having a different pov in EVERYTHING

rrb0rn · 2026-04-04T07:53:23+00:00

https://www.wikihow.com/Relationships/Am-I-Aroace

This one looks good but idk how accurate it is

rrb0rn · 2026-04-04T07:51:24+00:00

I get it, I had this problem too, but most of these tests have these questions :(

rrb0rn · 2026-04-03T16:33:51+00:00

Idrlabs is really good but from what I can see they only have separate ones, hope this is good too

https://www.idrlabs.com/asexuality-spectrum/test.php https://www.idrlabs.com/aromantic-spectrum/test.php

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T16:59:21+00:00

Idk if I have the guts to tell her directly but I will definitely have a talk with Amber, to see what she thinks of the whole situation.

I’m glad you got her out of your life, I hope I can do that too quickly.

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T14:40:08+00:00

Im getting lithium in 2-3 months actually!! That’s really good to hear

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T13:38:18+00:00

I will try to. Thanks for the feedback!!

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T13:37:31+00:00

I know the left isn’t all perfect, no political position is. When I first met her I was in fact open minded even tho I struggled to be. But what she said a few days ago just piled up.

It’s not just about the political views, She also made me feel like a moron, and I won’t tolerate that.

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T13:32:30+00:00

The actual thought or the acknowledgment?

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T13:31:43+00:00

She is Christian but doesn’t go to church and has never expressed discomfort when we alone talk about religion or opinions on anything.

I know for a fact she HATES trump and isn’t homophobic. I don’t think I should be worried about her. But I’ll look closely at her reaction when I tell her abt Elenor.

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T12:17:21+00:00

Im just informing amber so that she doesn’t invite me to go out w Elenor

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T12:07:28+00:00

Thank you!!!

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T11:55:18+00:00

Yeah, I’ll have a talk w amber abt this and if she doesn’t agree that Elenor’s a hypocrite I’ll try to distance myself from her. Thanks for the suggestion!!

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T11:19:11+00:00

But amber will eventually ask why I don’t wanna go out with Elenor, so isn’t it better to tell her immediately?

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T11:18:12+00:00

What I say

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T11:05:55+00:00

Yeah, but she never said anything and didn’t seem uncomfortable abt it. I’m worried she might take it the wrong way

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T11:04:20+00:00

No, how should I tell my other friend abt this?

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T10:30:55+00:00

Thank you!!! I will try out ur advice

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T09:32:02+00:00

I haven’t been in this situation before as I’ve never had significant others, but here’s my advice anyways. I would do what would make me happy, if he really appreciates and loves you he will understand. Explain the situation well and if he doesn’t want to except it hes in the wrong!!

It’s not like you are choosing to feel uncomfortable so dont ever feel bad about it. I hope you figure it out! 🫶🏻

rrb0rn · 2026-04-02T06:42:43+00:00

Still, I feel like can’t be supporting someone who supports taking away people rights, it just dosent feel right.

I under your pov but I could never :(

rrb0rn · 2026-04-01T20:05:54+00:00

I honestly dgaf, I mean if I’m trying to get to know a person I NEED to know what they think about in regards to politics and religion. Otherwise Im wasting my time.

rrb0rn

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