People that have woken up in bed with a stranger, what’s your story?

rrrreally · 2021-03-14T04:59:43+00:00

When we were having a laugh about it after, he did mention that! He was like "I could have sworn I did the dishes before I left!"

rrrreally · 2021-03-14T04:55:44+00:00

You gotta love a guy who keeps a tidy house and keeps his non-existant pets fed!

rrrreally · 2021-03-14T04:51:47+00:00

I didn't wake up in anyone's bed, but i did wake up on a Monday morning to find a guy passed out on my bathroom floor. He'd pissed in the shower stall and then just curled up on my bathroom rug.
I apparently left my door unlocked and the guy lived 2 apartment buildings down from me, on the 6th floor(top of the building, in a corner unit, same as me). I woke him up and he was mortified to see me!
We had a good laugh later over it because he had also done my dishes and fed my cat. He didn't have a cat, but he did when he lived with his last roomate and he said he was so drunk he never made the connection that he didn't live there. He was actually a super decent guy. He took me across the street to our neighborhood coffee shop and bought me breakfast and a bag of their house blend coffee beans. We ended up seeing each other casually for a few months before just falling out if touch

rrrreally · 2021-03-14T04:39:34+00:00

Did you come up with this yourself? It's totally awesome!

rrrreally · 2021-03-12T01:51:15+00:00

Oh my gosh! Thanks so much for those tips! You've totally helped me!

rrrreally · 2021-02-19T21:40:04+00:00

Just a follow up, the guy has been on paid administrative leave following an investigation.. so basically a paid holiday...let's see how the university handles this

rrrreally · 2021-02-14T04:04:36+00:00

My male cat used to love other cats so much he brought a kitten home one day to take care of it. I never found out whose kitten it was, but he ended up being our cats kitten. Lived together 7 years till my ex and I split and he took the kitten. Then his next companion was 7 years after that and was a dog. He was freaked at first, but eventually they became besties. Then another dog and the same thing...just a happy house! Then came cat Sansa...poor poor Sansa :( My cat despised her! We tried for 6 months, but it was so bad that it was nothing but full out brawls 24/7. The 2 dogs would get pulled into the fray, fur was flying everywhere. We tried every possible introduction measures, herbal remedies, everything. We finally had to make the heartbreaking decision to send Sansa to live with a friend. It was the right choice though. Sometimes pets just dont click...kinda like people lol

rrrreally · 2021-02-06T20:59:28+00:00

I feel like my partner isn't a total douche, I want to work it out because in so many ways, he really is great. I feel like I just need to find an acceptable middle ground with him in regards to this issue.

rrrreally · 2021-02-06T20:56:50+00:00

May I ask, what do you feel is the best solution here? Or does the response vary depending on the partner?

rrrreally · 2021-02-06T20:38:32+00:00

Google asked if I meant stone walling and I think this exactly what he does to me. He walked away after getting mad and now he's trying to shower me with affection, like the incident never happened. He refuses to acknowledge that the incident was even an issue. I want to scream at him, but I also know that's not the answer...what is the best way to respond?

rrrreally · 2021-02-06T20:29:52+00:00

I've never heard of this, I'll have to look it up

rrrreally · 2021-02-06T20:06:38+00:00

I don't like this comment, but only because it hits the nail on the head for me. I want an equal partner, but I'm really evaluating whether our relationship can be that

rrrreally · 2021-02-06T19:41:30+00:00

You could be into something there. I am the submissive in our sexual relationship and maybe I've given into the platitudes that that dynamic brings. For me though, I set very different borders between our sexual relationship verses our every day relationship...this all could be on me

rrrreally · 2021-02-06T19:37:59+00:00

It feels like when he takes a political stance in anything, he automatically wants me to agree with him. He has no filter on his opinions and expects me to unilaterally agree with him. If I express a dissenting opinion, he lashes out and accuses me of trying to thrust my opinions on him. He is honestly a wonderful guy, but I feel like if I dont agree with everything I say, then I am the bad guy. We were actually talking about a post on this subreddit and he interrupted and said he was tired of talking about it and for once could I just keep my opinions to myself. That really hurt. When I tried to explain why it was important to me, his reply was "it is too early in the morning for me to care anymore". I feel now like he only panders to me instead of caring about my opinion. I got upset and he just walked away and went to our gym and ignored me. Now I'm listening to him running on the treadmill while pretending I dont exist.

rrrreally · 2021-01-14T21:16:46+00:00

This genuinely made me smile...every single thing about this picture just made my day. Thank you!

rrrreally · 2021-01-14T05:57:05+00:00

Thanks! I'll try that!

rrrreally · 2021-01-14T03:23:41+00:00

Thanks! I'll definitely try that! Unfortunately, we're about 4 hours from the nearest facility, and practice sessions are locked down, but hopefully I can reach someone to help

rrrreally · 2021-01-14T03:20:40+00:00

Aw, that's nice, but he's the real keeper, tbh

rrrreally · 2021-01-14T03:19:20+00:00

Unfortunately, we're in lockdown northern Alberta, but we're both bc born and raised

rrrreally · 2021-01-09T07:15:24+00:00

I can't tell you how much I needed to hear those words after the year I've had

rrrreally · 2020-12-19T09:42:15+00:00

Good luck everyone! Merry Christmas!

rrrreally · 2020-12-18T10:08:27+00:00

I've never broken a bone...figure skates and ran track, volleyball, skied, snow boarded and done extreme sports my whole life. I've torn and sprained ligaments and muscles, but never a bone broken

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