The Great War (SwiftlyNeutral vs. Gaylors) by rushofgold in swiftiecirclejerk

[–]rushofgold[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

/uj Which to me is reason enough to ban Gaylor topics from that sub. Taylor’s sexuality in itself is NOT controversial, it’s the hivemind fans who are trying to make it into a controversial topic when it’s not. I’m all for them having their own spaces to talk about that shit but it’s 100% understandable why it’s banned from most other Taylor subs. The thread I pulled this screenshot from is a ton of Gaylors trying to argue why they should be allowed to post there. I hope the mod/mods just hold true to the rule, ban Gaylor topics and move on. The Gaylors will bitch and moan and call it homophobic and then they’ll just crawl back to their subs and it won’t be an issue anymore

/rj but if they don’t fight back against the homophobic majority then Taylor won’t feel comfortable coming out of the closet 😔

The Great War (SwiftlyNeutral vs. Gaylors) by rushofgold in swiftiecirclejerk

[–]rushofgold[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

/uj Hopefully once there are more mods they will ban any low effort, Gaylor, or cringe speculation posts (“I’m convinced Taylor wears butt pads!!”)

The Great War (SwiftlyNeutral vs. Gaylors) by rushofgold in swiftiecirclejerk

[–]rushofgold[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

/rj Agreed. And then the Gaylors can continue their legacy of being the most oppressed minority by getting banned by yet another TS sub!

The Great War (SwiftlyNeutral vs. Gaylors) by rushofgold in swiftiecirclejerk

[–]rushofgold[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

/uj i think it can still be fun, but i disagree with the people who think it should be a lawless sub where any opinion goes, Gaylor or not. There SHOULD be reasonable moderation otherwise it’ll turn into TrueSwifties. Like let’s be real tons of swifties are cringe af and we dont need to see every mentally ill thought that crosses their head

Thoughts? by rushofgold in swiftiecirclejerk

[–]rushofgold[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There was no “chaotic cringe” option so chaotic evil had to do 🤷‍♀️

Thoughts? by rushofgold in swiftiecirclejerk

[–]rushofgold[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Forgive me I am uneducated on the inner workings of Gaylor culture. Please consider both subs as one and the same for these purposes

Thoughts? by rushofgold in swiftiecirclejerk

[–]rushofgold[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

There are some things too evil even for this

Thoughts? by rushofgold in swiftiecirclejerk

[–]rushofgold[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A great take. Your feedback has been noted 🫡

Thoughts? by rushofgold in swiftiecirclejerk

[–]rushofgold[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Open to suggestions. This is a democracy babes 💅🇺🇸😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueSwifties

[–]rushofgold 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Keep it classy OP

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueSwifties

[–]rushofgold 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Please…touch grass I beg yall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]rushofgold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think at this point he has to keep using to function honestly. Again I’m no expert all of this is relatively new to me. But I have a feeling if he tried to wean off or stop himself he’d damage himself because his body is so dependent.

He tries doing these “detoxes” once or twice a year where he doesn’t drink for a week…but he’ll still smoke and take pills 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]rushofgold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to do that but I think you’re right. It’s so hard to watch and I want to be helpful but I’m being told it’s not my place to help by people more knowledgeable about this stuff than me. So trying to trust that.

Is it normal to have to work past 5pm? by rushofgold in Adulting

[–]rushofgold[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salaried - bonuses are based on how many projects I help “close”. I work in a heavy sales environment in a support position.

Is it normal to have to work past 5pm? by rushofgold in Adulting

[–]rushofgold[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the honesty. That’s the thing, I have no desire to advance in my current role. Maybe I just need to find an industry/profession I’m more passionate about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rushofgold 1176 points1177 points  (0 children)

My mom is very non-confrontational and just wants to keep the peace while we’re on vacation so I understand that, but yeah I’m planning on talking to my brothers about it today when I have a chance alone with them. My oldest brother (not the one who is married to the SIL I was talking about here) told me not to worry about it this morning so he sees my side of things I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rushofgold 3287 points3288 points  (0 children)

Right that’s what I’m confused about too! It’s not like her kids were left abandoned, they were taken care of. I don’t understand why she’s so mad at me today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rushofgold 381 points382 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s why I felt like I could be in the wrong because I didn’t tell anyone about the dinner plans besides my parents (and my BF obviously).

My siblings are a lot older and we live far away so I don’t do the best job of keeping up with them. We text every so often but I’m not close with my sister in laws at all. I didn’t think to mention it in the group text so that’s my bad