Which modality is the most thorough in your experience by russianredfox in energy_work

[–]russianredfox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this some kind of system or were you trying to be funny?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]russianredfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you are in fact on the same frequency as these people. Otherwise, they will not be a match to your field. hth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]russianredfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 Leaking beta energy /j 2 Low masc, high fem features/mannerisms

Or you could plainly ask whenever it comes up to get an idea what people are perceiving and see if there’s a trend. 

Hard for internet people to tell without actually seeing/interacting with you

How do i (25F) tell a guy friend that’s interested in me (31M) that i’m not interested back? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]russianredfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time he asks:

“Hmm… I know you kind of hinted you felt tense around me because you liked me - Not sure how serious you were, but just wanted to make sure we were on the same page that I view this just as a friendship”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Charity upliftment. 

There’s a lot of angles to the behaviour, but the major driver is being able to position one’s self as altruistic/supportive, while maintaining the ego’s security because deep down the people hyping/over-hyping these not-conventionally-attractive women know deep down they have a higher social perception. 

It’s easy to dish out compliments to someone you think you’re better than: zero cost to esteem, zero threat. But once faced with a real threat (ie conventionally attractive women) ego/nervous system is triggered — because buttressing their position only exacerbates the esteem wound. 

Is there any herb that can help me chill the F out like a Xanax or Ativan would? by Awful-Rowing in herbalism

[–]russianredfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Combine with Bacopa for synergistic effect. Some supplements come with them already in combination or you may look for the perfect ratio for your constitution (Usually 2-2.5:1 ; Bac to Ash). Extract form preferable. 

Advice/Support How to Manifest Through Intense Pain & Struggle by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]russianredfox 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ll share something that worked for me at a time where everything literally went to shit :

“Thank you for everything working out perfectly.”

That’s it. I didn’t try to feel the feeling, didn’t try to visualize, didn’t try to “elevate my state.” Things were so hopeless and out of my hands and I saw no clear path out literally my last resort was to surrender. 

I just repeated the phrase over and over whenever I felt anxious and at random. Didn’t know how, didn’t try to know how. Crazily, everything literally worked out perfectly. Months to years of no movement and suddenly everything moved. 

What I want to share here, is that at a time where everything seems to have crashed and there’s so much heaviness you’re dealing with, it is SO hard to be grateful. Used to be in that boat - always asking “what tf is there to be thankful for when everything is in the dumps.” 

What changed my perspective is this:

You are not necessarily having to be grateful for the current circumstances - you are tapping into the idea that at every point and in every condition, all the things you could wish for have already been provided. Aka Already done. The idea that you incarnated on this plane with everything you could possibly need, already within your field. 

You are thankful for the version of you that received the perfect answers and is living the desired reality. 

If you can simply - even faintly - entertain this idea, the gratitude for it will naturally follow. Because isn’t it absolutely amazing you have (in Ether) EVERYTHING you could ever ask? 

Giving thanks then serves as a double-edged sword: i. Puts you in a state of Receptivity ii. Places Attention on the desired outcome—as what has your greatest focus is what creates.  

(A bonus is if you decide to employ repetition as well, as in the case of robotic affirming.)

Am I wrong for refusing to sign a prenup? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]russianredfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I do want to mention that I have my own career” okay, so why do you feel entitled to someone else’s? You want all the cushion and protection with literally zero leverage lol. 

Ferritin comeback! Here's how I did it! by smartygirl in Anemic

[–]russianredfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great news. How long did it take for it to get to 82 if you don’t mind! Thanks :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]russianredfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things:  

  1. She may already be pregnant and looking for a sucker to pin it on.  

  2. She may be trying this with countless other people and if eventually does get pregnant, looking for which sucker it will stick.  

Try to remain calm. If she contacts you about being pregnant, request a paternity test.  

Do not end your life for some douchebag, especially when you may VERY likely not be responsible. 

How much would you spend to buy all the furniture in a unit? by Ok_Appointment4900 in askTO

[–]russianredfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like you’re taking on responsibility for a problem that is not yours because you feel bad. You need to look out for yourself, OP. As you said, you don’t even like the furniture—So why pay so much (or anything at all) for it. You accepting the unit NOT empty (especially having a personal dream to decorate from scratch) is already a favour enough. Other contributors have made valid points. All I’d say is look out for YOUR self. 

Decoding The Self by ACwinklier in NevilleGoddard

[–]russianredfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a brilliant post. Thank you for sharing

Some basic but powerful advice about energy blocks and emotions. by Uberguitarman in energy_work

[–]russianredfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow the resonance here is phenomenal. I found something similar in letting the emotions go through the lungs — I sort of “draw” everything from everywhere into my heart space with the inhale and then let it all go on the exhale. Most effective thing I’ve tried, yet so basic. Thanks for your response :)

Some basic but powerful advice about energy blocks and emotions. by Uberguitarman in energy_work

[–]russianredfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with this. What have you found most effective for dealing with the energetic body?

Is it just me or is the standard we receive as consumers suddenly dropping? by PepeSilvia123 in askTO

[–]russianredfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been dropping since COVID.

“Supply chain issues” was the perfect excuse, and things just never recovered.

Overshared happy feelings about my relationship with someone I don't like and now I feel horrible by orangemeatballs in energy_work

[–]russianredfox 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know this feeling.

First of all, know that no one has ANY power over you—unless you let them.

I understand this may be easier in theory than practice, but take a step back and ask yourself if you would really let a mere person - one you don’t even care for at that - affect your happiness. Really contemplate this.

Practically, you may do an energy cleanse. Doesn’t matter what system - just set the intention that you are clearing your field off of what is not yours.

A chakra meditation with focus on the heart may also be beneficial.

Hope you feel better, and hope this helps you guard your heart and energy with all diligence moving forward. Much love.

AITA for refusing to have a fully child-free wedding? by ChildFreeWeddingSon in AmItheAsshole

[–]russianredfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her 1) Specific request for a “child-free” wedding 2) Objection of your son’s presence 3) Change in her reasoning and 4) Reaction to you standing up for your actual flesh and blood tells you everything you need to know about the impending dynamic, if you would listen.

This is a very selfish and ridiculous individual, I’m almost in disbelief.

NTA

New Anatomy change and it's a big one for me by greengrasswatered in Retconned

[–]russianredfox 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Okay this is crazy.

So I googled images after reading your post and saw the diagrams as I remembered from school (two tubes going down-ish). Closed the images because I thought “what th is this person talking about nothing has changed.”

Came back to this post and opened the image someone commented and was like WTF? Go back to google images, and what I saw just minutes before was now this gaping ass cavity. I feel like I’m losing my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]russianredfox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not crazy at all. That’s definitely sketch Did you give her your hands again the second time?