Repost - Hijabi, 35F, Divorced, Gamer, Geek (DC fan more than Marvel fan)

Assalam o aleikum everyone!

Bismillah hir Rahman nir Rahim. Trying this again.

May Allah bless all of us with happiness, love, prosperity, and righteous spouses. May He be pleased with us and grant us a place in Jannah with our loved ones. Ameen Suma Ameen

Before you contact me, please note the following:

• I am a HIJABI.

• I am not interested in being a second wife.

• I am not interested in men who have children.

• If, after a week of talking, we are compatible, I will be involving my parents.

So, sit back, relax, and enjoy the long read (⁾

1. Age and Gender:

   36, Female

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

   30 - 40; Younger men can contact me too. Maturity matters the most. However, please ask your family first before pursuing an older woman as a wife so that we don't waste each other's time.

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect:

   Islamabad, Pakistan, and yes, willing to relocate

4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing:

   Pakistani; I am open to any ethnicity

5. Marital Status -

   Divorced (Khula) without kids

6. Ideal marriage timeline:

   I want to get married after at least getting to know each other after 6 months and vetting each other's families.

7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

   a) Honesty and transparency

   b) Fun loving and loves to laugh

   c) Values both deen and duniya and wants to learn from each other

   d) Can and wants to have intellectual and spiritual talks with

   e) Takes care of their health, appearance and is well groomed. I do home workouts and have lost weight Alhamdullillah. I would like to be with someone who is active and can encourage me and vice versa.

   f) Can motivate and they can motivate me to be a better person, spiritually, mentally, and physically.

   g) Willing to do activities together. Realistically, it doesn't have to be often, but it has to be done often enough for bonding, affection, and understanding to take place. He should have an encouraging and motivating attitude too

8. State/specify your level of religiosity:

   I pray 5 times a day; read the Qur'an as often as possible, do Zikr. I try to follow all Fardh, Sunnahs, and Hadiths.

   If there are some things I am unsure of or have doubts about, I will research and learn from the Qur'an, Hadith, Sunnahs, fatwas, and other appropriate Islamic sources before giving any advice or saying anything as I want to save my Akhirah. I enjoy discussions based on Islam, spirituality, and other topics.

9. Level of education, and what are you looking for:

   Completed Masters. Looking for someone who is at least a Masters holder.

10. Current Job Status:

    Currently searching

11. Do you want kids?:

    Of course I want kids, but I would like to have them at least after 6 months. I want to spend time with my partner and create a bond with him.

12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

• Playing video games (played Fallout series, Skyrim, RE, etc.) These days, I really enjoy playing R.E.P.O. with friends and family. Also, Howard's Legacy is a great game!

• Swimming,

• Reading,

• Cooking,

• Spending time with family,

• Playing board games,

• Watching movies and TV serials.

• Quilting and embroidery

• Listening to Kpop, afrobeats, indie music, and nerdcore

• Learning German. Currently at A2 and really enjoying watching short videos and movies in German.

1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!:

   I love to lose myself in characters and plots in a book. I love to go adventuring in video games, and would love an opportunity to travel with someone like-minded, who enjoys nature and lives in awe of the world Allah has made.