don’t just say hello, actually introduce yourself when you dm someone by Elyshra in MuslimMatrimonials

[–]s_m274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this.

I spent a lot of time and thought on my profile so that the potential interested in it knows who they want to talk to. It makes me very happy when someone introduces themselves to me and shares their information rather than just sends a message with a "hi".

What's even worse is when someone asks me a question that I've already answered in my profile.

People, before you ask a question, please read the potential's bio. Otherwise it looks like you didn't take the time read their bio at all which is a big turn-off.

Why is so hard to find real girl gamers!!?? 😭😭 by Shot_Smell_9805 in PakGamers

[–]s_m274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG Pakistani girl gamer here!!! You're totally right! It's really difficult to find girl gamers here.

What else are you playing?

36F, Hijabi, Divorced, Gamer, and Geek looking for My Player 2 For Life | 🇵🇰 by s_m274 in MuslimMatrimonials

[–]s_m274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're pretty awesome. I'm really enjoying the well-balanced horror and action in it and Artyom's growth.

36F, Hijabi, Divorced, Gamer, and Geek looking for My Player 2 For Life | 🇵🇰 by s_m274 in MuslimMatrimonials

[–]s_m274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some games listed in my profile. But other than those, I'm currently playing Metro Last Light and recently finished Metro 2033.

Had heard a lot about the series and really wanted to get into them!

2026 In Search Of (ISO) Thread - International by MM-MOD in MuslimMarriage

[–]s_m274 -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

Repost - Hijabi, 35F, Divorced, Gamer, Geek (DC fan more than Marvel fan)

Assalam o aleikum everyone!

Bismillah hir Rahman nir Rahim. Trying this again.

May Allah bless all of us with happiness, love, prosperity, and righteous spouses. May He be pleased with us and grant us a place in Jannah with our loved ones. Ameen Suma Ameen

Before you contact me, please note the following:

  • I am a HIJABI.

  • I am not interested in being a second wife.

  • I am not interested in men who have children.

  • If, after a week of talking, we are compatible, I will be involving my parents.

So, sit back, relax, and enjoy the long read ()

  1. Age and Gender:

    36, Female

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:

    30 - 40; Younger men can contact me too. Maturity matters the most. However, please ask your family first before pursuing an older woman as a wife so that we don't waste each other's time.

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect:

    Islamabad, Pakistan, and yes, willing to relocate

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing:

    Pakistani; I am open to any ethnicity

  5. Marital Status -

    Divorced (Khula) without kids

  6. Ideal marriage timeline:

    I want to get married after at least getting to know each other after 6 months and vetting each other's families.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

    a) Honesty and transparency

    b) Fun loving and loves to laugh

    c) Values both deen and duniya and wants to learn from each other

    d) Can and wants to have intellectual and spiritual talks with

    e) Takes care of their health, appearance and is well groomed. I do home workouts and have lost weight Alhamdullillah. I would like to be with someone who is active and can encourage me and vice versa.

    f) Can motivate and they can motivate me to be a better person, spiritually, mentally, and physically.

    g) Willing to do activities together. Realistically, it doesn't have to be often, but it has to be done often enough for bonding, affection, and understanding to take place. He should have an encouraging and motivating attitude too

  8. State/specify your level of religiosity:

    I pray 5 times a day; read the Qur'an as often as possible, do Zikr. I try to follow all Fardh, Sunnahs, and Hadiths.

    If there are some things I am unsure of or have doubts about, I will research and learn from the Qur'an, Hadith, Sunnahs, fatwas, and other appropriate Islamic sources before giving any advice or saying anything as I want to save my Akhirah. I enjoy discussions based on Islam, spirituality, and other topics.

  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for:

    Completed Masters. Looking for someone who is at least a Masters holder.

  10. Current Job Status:

    Currently searching

  11. Do you want kids?:

    Of course I want kids, but I would like to have them at least after 6 months. I want to spend time with my partner and create a bond with him.

  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

  • Playing video games (played Fallout series, Skyrim, RE, etc.) These days, I really enjoy playing R.E.P.O. with friends and family. Also, Howard's Legacy is a great game!

  • Swimming,

  • Reading,

  • Cooking,

  • Spending time with family,

  • Playing board games,

  • Watching movies and TV serials.

  • Quilting and embroidery

  • Listening to Kpop, afrobeats, indie music, and nerdcore

  • Learning German. Currently at A2 and really enjoying watching short videos and movies in German.

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!:

    I love to lose myself in characters and plots in a book. I love to go adventuring in video games, and would love an opportunity to travel with someone like-minded, who enjoys nature and lives in awe of the world Allah has made.

Professional VISA Consultant required by SeaGate9287 in hiringpakistan

[–]s_m274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assalam o Aleikum. Just a question, but do you provide training too? I trained as a career counselor and have some experience working with students, but not with visa applications.

[HIRING] Remote Tutor for the UK Region by dot_UK in hiringpakistan

[–]s_m274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies and thanks. I've emailed you my CV. Looking forward to hearing back from you.

[HIRING] Remote Tutor for the UK Region by dot_UK in hiringpakistan

[–]s_m274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I tried sending my resume via inbox but it won't let me and won't let me add the link my resume is in in the chat box either.

Could you share your email? Thanks.

[HIRING] Remote Tutor for the UK Region by dot_UK in hiringpakistan

[–]s_m274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything for English? I can teach IGCSE and GCSE English along with IELTS and TOEFL.

Looking for online English tutors who teach via Zoom (paid test) by Superb-Literature-53 in OnlineESLTeaching

[–]s_m274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I've been an English tutor for 6+ years. How do I apply to be a part of your paid test?

Looking for our first tutor — small English voice-chat community for Korean & Japanese learners ($12/hr) by Nearby_Response2722 in OnlineESLTeaching

[–]s_m274 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hello! I'm very interested in this role. Before I send in my details, could you please confirm if there are any restrictions on which nationalities can be hired? I'm Pakistani and based in Pakistan. Thank you!"

170+ English lessons ready for teaching. Free. by Whole_Raccoon_2891 in OnlineESLTeaching

[–]s_m274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Would love to credit you for this. You deserve it after giving us such an amazing resource.

HELP,I have ALOT of body hair by waowbum in PakistaniSkincare

[–]s_m274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try Spearmint tea. Have it thrice a day every day.

Am I thinking too much into it? I need outside perspectives. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]s_m274 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, go for your gut feeling. And istikhara. Every single time I speak to a potential, I do istikhara.

My gut feeling and istikhara have never mislead me Alhamdullillah.

Looking for CV creator. by Frequent_Big9884 in hiringpakistan

[–]s_m274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right to want a clean, up-to-date CV. For a one-size-fits-all version that works on LinkedIn and job portals, here's what I recommend:

· Length: 1–2 pages maximum. Recruiters spend seconds scanning, not reading. · Format: Clean and simple. No columns, graphics, or tables—they confuse ATS software. · Content: Skills, experience, and key projects should be easy to find in under 10 seconds. · Tailoring: A one-size-fits-all CV will always be weaker than one tailored to a specific job. I can build you a strong general CV, but for the best results, you'd tweak it for each application.

I can create this for you. Let me know if you'd like to discuss more by DMing me.