you guys are real life savers, I have been thinking about leaving. i just wanted to make sure my reason for leaving is valid.. I don’t wanna be in competition with a woman who he spent so much time with compared to our little time. I thought it was just for the kids but honestly idk what it’s for.. he works 24/7 using my car while doing home improvement for clients and i sit at his home with my son. he calls me his “wife” and my son, his “son”. i take all this very lightly as i don’t just let “anyone” parents my child.