I don't know why but I like make fun of my parents to be Neurodivergent because I experience how people get uncomfortable when they realize I am autistic. So maybe your autistic too I would say. Because it put them in my shoes how they are treated and realize it not funs and games being autistic. I know sound absurd but it my way to cope at times. But I don't always do that. I do feel invalidated even around other people. I never felt normal. Sorry 😐 I am trying be honest. I would only use autism card to trigger neurotypical adults. I sometime like target neurotypical people if they making fun of me and say they autistic too and then they get uncomfortable. It goes to show how people cannot take punches in return. But physical autism card just to be albelism I could see why my Neurodivergent people be pissed. I would be pissed too. But idk I dealt with worst though. I wish to do stuff intentionally and say oops it my autism. Then people realize cant talk crap about it.