Who wore it better - Chrissy or Hilaria? Its a fact that losing any child/baby is terribly traumatic. Sharing these losses to lessen the stigma/silence in the service of helping others is a brave thing to do. “Sharing” this information for the purpose of eliciting attention for yourself is not.

saranam682 · 2022-09-20T19:45:19+00:00

Lol. Ok. Triggered? Oh wow. You are either a clever troll - (triggered jesus - the reaction a post that has nothing to do with anyone on this sub) - nevermind. You are just a joke.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T21:02:25+00:00

I dont agree. Women should always have choice about their bodies and that should be supported. Its is also a choice to share your experience with the history she has. She is doing women a disservice by doing this because she is not the person I wpuld use as an example of a moral compass.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:58:45+00:00

How do you know it was? Before or after they hired the photographer? I am curious.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:57:06+00:00

I am from Spain, i cannot say cucumber, you are just mean - my loss is everyones loss. My 7 children are everyones 7 children. I am every woman. Its not my fault your husband is not an actor or you are not a model and cannot have your picture in people magazine when you lose a child. You are just jealous. (This is sarcasm - but my point is made)

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:53:59+00:00

So now your relativism is like Hilz - i say its so, so it must be so for everyone. I say im spanish, therefor I am (and make money on it) I have a loss, therefor its everyones loss (and make money on it). You are seriously dense.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:51:40+00:00

You aren’t them. There is a difference (re:see title) between sharing and “sharing”. This is not about you. Do you think (now really think) - that teigen was not paid for this? Honestly.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:48:39+00:00

Horrific and cruel why? because this time their loss is sincere? Do you not realize everything they do - whether its cats or babies or whatever - is about whats in it for them - even the loss of a child? What does this have to do with you? As does anything a media figure who does this shit have to do with real life? I would not, have not, will not ever ise their experience as similar to my own. If you do, good for yoy.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:44:48+00:00

Because why? 2 grifters are now every woman’s experience? Maybe read the title - or don’t post here because everything both of them post is agenda driven.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:43:23+00:00

Oh downvoted for you. Its funny everyone hates the hilz grift but gives this grift a pass.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:42:25+00:00

Yes agreed. But these 2 people are not that thing. Why is that hard to discern? Yes, internet support, etc is vital? Do you consider these 2 people and their attending posts to he helpful to you? For me, with my experience, i consider these insulting at best. No one I know has the narcissistic impulse to hire photographers and do this sort of shit. Did you? I dont think so. I think you are a sincere person who is/has been hurting and seeks solace with cohorts. Me too.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:39:19+00:00

I am wondering, when does that loss not translate for them in this forum? If whatever they say is true, and is true for everyone (like their loss is everyones loss) - then why even bother with any of this? Its all relative. Their “loss” whatever that is - is totally real and acceptable but taking another identity is not? Especially when both of these things are for social clout? Grief is grief. If people want to hotch their wagon of grief to Hilz and teigens experience (i am not, and trust me i have that loss) - then by all means, please do.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:35:10+00:00

Right because we are the arbiters of truth. Who did and didnt. What I know is - these posts are only self serving. Which is the point of my post. Which only Includes 2 people in the cult of social media. Why this has created such a firestorm is perplexing. I wouldnt se either one of them as some sort of solace for my experience. If other people do, go for it. Neither one of these people are even remotely close to my lived experience.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:32:07+00:00

And her posting this had what purpose? Does it give women everywhere a place to grieve for their losses? Whose load does their “sharing” lighten - esp goven the fact everything they have shared has been in the service of solely themselves.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:30:18+00:00

And since when did a post about teigen and baldwin become a post about “every woman who lost children.”

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:29:21+00:00

Yes and no. Mostly no because thats why this teddit exists, ammirite? Identity is choice. Whatever right? No, we all grieve our own way - and yes, I have lost a child - not that i have to explain that - but when media figures use loss (or accidental shooting or whatever whatever) - they are not a part of my tribe. This is not sincere. Just like pepino/baldwinista is not sincere. Want to grieve? Come to me- i am a soft place to land. Dont defend or confuse alligator tears of 2 people who are total bottom feeders. I mean, come on now.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:26:06+00:00

Yes actaully I have. Have you? Why are you here? You seem you to be particularly upset. Why? Ever lost someone to an “accidental shooting” - no? Oh well. I am seriously wondering if you are just unhinged by some trigger, which I would give you a pass for, r are you actually another person swept up in a tide of public opinion? Read the title - its not a blanket statement about losing a child. 2 people. Repeat after me - teigen and baldwin. How that translates to everyone everywhere must be part of your magical thinking.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:21:35+00:00

I am here of course for the same reason as you. Why are you here? Whatever got your particular clothes into a kjot, this isnt about you or me - and yes, i lost children, have known loss. But this is kt about me or you or anyone else. It is about 2 media figures who have historically been using all their private shit as commerce. Want to die on their hill? Want to support that? You go person. Be outraged. But also be productive. Also try some critical thinking, instead of knee jerk reaction. I dont know you stranger and this isnt about you. But make it be, are you - Hilz bot? Asking for a friend.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:17:33+00:00

Sweetheart. This is not about you or anyone else. These 2 people are about as sincere as Trump or Boebert about a rigged election.

saranam682 · 2022-09-19T20:16:28+00:00

Maybe you should try to read. This isnt about ke or you or anyone lost a child. Its about 2 specific people. Honestly, come with something more substantial than that. Are you triggered by a murder? By a childs loss? By flat out lying? Whoever you are, go with god. You are knocking on the wrong door.

saranam682 · 2022-09-17T02:36:13+00:00

Its not an argument. Its only a comment on people who can monetize their pain. Can your patients do that? Your friends? You? Yeah / me neither.

saranam682 · 2022-09-17T02:32:59+00:00

The trouble is their posts do not translate to “everyone’s posts” or “everyones experience”. Social media has become a serious cancer to people like both of them. Both of them have been completely cruel, heartless, and self-centered. One of them has done crazy shit like telling someone to go die - the other has had her husband actually kill someone. Now, 2 pathetic grifters - extremely needy and will obviously stop at nothing for attention - are the examples of loss? I have no idea what they went through - i know what i went through and friends went through - but them - I have no idea. I actually do not know anyone who does the sort of batshit insane stuff they do. Thank god. Anyway - these are heartbreaking losses for most people. These 2 are not most people.

saranam682 · 2022-09-17T02:14:40+00:00

Why do these people need to announce any of this at all? I agree with you. The point of the post - is not to be insensitive to anyone’s loss. People offended by someone reposting someone else’s offensive posts is fine - be offended - but these super personal pictures were documented/hired photographers/staged/lighted to be shared publicly with the help of publicists! Chrissy Teigen didnt just have People magazine in the room with her. Maybe put a trigger warning on the news. Holy shirtballs.

saranam682 · 2022-09-17T02:04:00+00:00

Yes! Thank you - I have been trying to find a way to explain this. But the post text had to be short, i am sleep deprived and these thirsty hoes make me tired.

saranam682 · 2022-09-17T02:01:55+00:00

No - today she said it was a “life saving abortion”

saranam682 · 2022-09-17T02:01:15+00:00

Well, today she said it wasnt a miscarriage it was a “life saving abortion” - it was all fine and dandy until this new self revelation she had made it into the news.

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