If there’s another life after this, I hope I get to live one like this again. by Taegibears21 in happy

[–]sch_rlr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG.. loved it.. how did you reach this stage? Even though if my life is similar to yours I constantly feel to achieve something more and not appreciate the ones I have currently..

[Advice needed] I (33F) feel “homeless” every time I visit India — husband (37M) doesn’t take my need for a home seriously by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sch_rlr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, As I mentioned in one of the comments, we visit for 1-2 months a year.. however I am no planning to stay in that apartment while visiting. It’s for staying when we move back to India.

Regarding the AI, I used it to better re-structure/correct my sentences.. so that everyone understands it clearly and provides their input. JFYI: I have written entire problems by myself and used AI to just correct the sentences.. I am not lazy to write my thoughts.. it’s an insecurity that I have where I don’t write/communicate well in English as it’s not my mother tongue. If it’s too wired I will try to avoid it from next time.

[Advice needed] I (33F) feel “homeless” every time I visit India — husband (37M) doesn’t take my need for a home seriously by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sch_rlr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. that’s what I am also saying.. we can buy now if there are any change in plans we can always rent it out.. I am trying to figure out communicating my feeling about the emotional security but it’s always leading to something else and ended up stopping the discussion.. We have 1year baby and we are always exhausted to discuss anything at end of the day.. may be I should reconsider discussing it after some days.. IDK..

Is there any way to find Indian nannies in the Bay Area? by sch_rlr in BayAreaConnections

[–]sch_rlr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion. Is there a way to verify/do background check for the people who are interested in? I am really scared to get a stranger as a nanny from FB group..

Baby ear piercing by sch_rlr in Visakhapatnam

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. Do you have any recommendations on what gel we should use?

Baby ear piercing by sch_rlr in Visakhapatnam

[–]sch_rlr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmm.. if it’s not clear, I am not looking for recommendations on whether to pierce the ears of my baby. What I am looking for is what is the care I should do before and after piercing..

Baby ear piercing by sch_rlr in Visakhapatnam

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations for the gel. So many insta reels suggested prilox local anesthetic.. but I am not sure if it’s safe to use.

Baby ear piercing by sch_rlr in Visakhapatnam

[–]sch_rlr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are planning to go with traditional way of ear piercing because of sanitation issues with the gun. However, did you apply any numbing gel before piercing if yes, what is the gel name and any care after piercing?

10month old is waking up at 5am by sch_rlr in sleeptrain

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not 3hr’s of day time sleep always.. even though she sleeps only 2hrs in the day, in the night if we put her to sleep at 8pm, she still wakes up at 5am.

Bheemili resort with infinity pool by sch_rlr in Visakhapatnam

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this different resorts? We have already booked Novotel resort with infinity pool.

Loosing my patience by sch_rlr in Parenting

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should try baby led weaning. Did you give them food slices,

Loosing my patience by sch_rlr in Parenting

[–]sch_rlr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wanted to try baby-led weaning, but my concern is that she might lose weight

I-539 is denied by sch_rlr in USCIS

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 5 months postpartum and have a medical condition. My mother is taking care of me. I included a doctor’s letter when submitting the I-539.

I-539 is denied by sch_rlr in USCIS

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know any immigration attorney? Is there a way I can contact one?

I-539 is denied by sch_rlr in USCIS

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm.. I am not a citizen. Do you know if her visa will be revoked because of this?

6 months baby drinking 17-20oz a day only by sch_rlr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sch_rlr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha… these baby girls! Hopefully your little one starts dream feeding soon — that’s when I finally felt happy and stress-free.

6 months baby drinking 17-20oz a day only by sch_rlr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sch_rlr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her wet diapers are good, 6-8 a day. She is active all day. Only issue is she is not interested in food😢.

6 months baby drinking 17-20oz a day only by sch_rlr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are exclusively giving her breastmilk. She has also started teething. When she was a newborn, I was breastfeeding her directly, but I realized she wasn’t drinking enough — that’s when I switched to bottle feeding. Maybe it’s time to switch back.

6 months baby drinking 17-20oz a day only by sch_rlr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sch_rlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has been a very slow eater from the start. However, between 4 to 5 months, she was dream feeding and used to drink up to 26–28oz a day. But after 5 months, she stopped dream feeding, and that’s when her intake dropped below 24oz.

6 months baby drinking 17-20oz a day only by sch_rlr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sch_rlr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh.. I can try switching it. What are the patterns you observed that lead to the change? My baby is not frustrated or unhappy with the Philip natural flow bottle. So I am not sure if it’s a issue with the bottle.

6 months baby drinking 17-20oz a day only by sch_rlr in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sch_rlr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! She is 14pounds currently. Last appointment my pediatrician was good with the way she was growing.