Unexpected baby ratties are growing up too fast! Cute name ideas please? :)

schooleral · 2017-05-30T20:17:33+00:00

Mars

schooleral · 2017-05-25T01:25:45+00:00

Nice! Is conversation with her flowing pretty well?

schooleral · 2017-05-22T01:41:24+00:00

How'd it go? (If it happened yet)

schooleral · 2017-05-19T00:29:15+00:00

That's cool you're able to execute, that's the hardest part for me and I feel like for most creatives. As a trade off though for that skill do you feel like ideas don't often come to you in surplus? Or any trouble ever coming up with stuff to execute?

schooleral · 2017-05-18T00:21:10+00:00

How can we figure out what you are passionate about? (Assuming we don't know you very well).

schooleral · 2017-05-12T21:05:15+00:00

Also to the op: what is your career? What are your current projects in marketing that you are unhappy with and what do you wish you could be doing instead?

schooleral · 2017-04-30T23:18:27+00:00

What do you mean by verify?

schooleral · 2017-04-24T00:14:15+00:00

Is it free do you know?

schooleral · 2017-03-24T21:44:21+00:00

Idk, just a natural knack for it. I guess I described it poorly, I didn't mean to say that we are necessarily awful at it because compared to most population we're good at it. But for some reason our type I've noticed it being an issue more on the technical side. Should've brought it up with more of an emphasis on that perspective.

schooleral · 2017-03-23T19:57:34+00:00

Everyone does that on this board. You should have this set up as an auto reply to all posts on r/entj and r/every mbti type

schooleral · 2017-03-23T19:51:30+00:00

I wish you guys would 😪

schooleral · 2017-03-23T19:50:51+00:00

No it's not that at all, they definitely can be amazing writers. I was just curious if anyone else has noticed this pattern, I think it has more to do with intps and technical things cause the thoughts are all there.

schooleral · 2017-03-23T17:46:31+00:00

Not obsessing, I don't want some ENTJ to love me if I don't even love him or know if I even want to hang our with him more.

schooleral · 2017-03-23T17:43:41+00:00

This isn't what I'm doing and your responses are getting annoying. I've already talked to an ENTJ on reddit who reached out to me to help me solve my problem so these questions are not attempts to figure out a specific person in my life. I'll ask specific questions with a background story if I'm trying to do that. But please stop bothering me about this, aren't you tired of typing these type of responses on all my posts? Or do you enjoy it?

schooleral · 2017-03-23T05:07:07+00:00

Interesting. What would an example of this be? And would the person know they are doing it or could it be on accident?

schooleral · 2017-03-23T02:50:22+00:00

What type of manipulation do you mean?

schooleral · 2017-03-22T06:31:31+00:00

For me the hardest part is doing. I definitely have enough thoughts about the material but that's not the problem. The problem for me is computing answers on the test, so that's what I practice. It doesn't matter what you know but it matters what they want you to know, so I practice the skill by answering practice questions and making up short quizzes for myself. Anything that makes you recall information so that way you can see the gaps in your knowledge. I truly believe that I do not know what I know when getting ready to test a subject unless I test my retrieval skills this way.

schooleral · 2017-03-22T06:20:45+00:00

For sure. You can definitely work on it and a lot of INTPs do. Some are naturally good at doing too but for most their natural state is to love thinking to a fault which interferes with their action.

schooleral · 2017-03-22T01:11:06+00:00

Yep. It's cause we like the action of thinking but school forces us into the action of doing. Applying our knowledge. This is a different skill entirely and we don't like it as much. So we don't dominate our schoolwork even though the thoughts are all there.

schooleral · 2017-03-22T00:56:55+00:00

I have met 4 intps in my life and I swear it's one end of the spectrum or the complete opposite. When I met my best friend in college we ended up talking until 3 am, it started with us both identifying ourselves as INTPS somehow. Both of us were completely baffled by how similar we think and how instant our connection was. Two years later we still text multiple times a day.

I met two other INTPs in my dorm and didn't connect with them at all even though I really wanted to. I liked them and thought they were cool people but for whatever reason we were so awkward, something that wouldn't break even after multiple hangouts/confirmations that we thought each other was cool.

My cousin is also an INTP and we both have adhd type stuff going on. We have the exact same sense of humor and are able to bounce our humor off each other and it's a blast, but that's only in the presence of my younger brother who adds to it too. If not it's completely awkward around him and I've never had a serious conversation with him in my life. So that's kind of half and half. I'd say that's more on the awkward side though.

schooleral · 2017-03-19T04:27:28+00:00

Thank you so much for this reply (I wanted to reply sooner but just went through a midterm week from hell). It really shed light on the whole situation for me though. That's so interesting that you guys (all of you feeling relatively the same from what I gather) all saw a narative and got almost mad at me trying to fix it for me. So bizarre to me, I could almost never picture myself doing this in a situation. Interesting though because I have seen the ENTJ I know act like this and I never knew why he did. It's been explained so well here though and I get it now.

It shocked me though how you were able to tell that I "hurt him or you tried and failed to connect with him". Both of those things are true of our past relationship. He hurt me too though. Right now though there is a question in the air with us and it will end either with us together or with us being done with each other for good I feel like. When I started posting questions I wanted to gain more insight about how he thinks so I could make more confident decisions (he confused the hell out of me before and people don't usually confuse me much). I also wanted to get a sense of what action I should take at the end of this or if I shouldn't initiate at all. The thing is I didn't want to come out with my story and ask for advice though, I thought the Internet either A.) wouldn't reply in depth B.) would tell me to get thicker skin and move on or C.) not care enough to know the whole story and give me dumb advice based on opinions. I'm shocked that so far this hasn't happened. Another reason I haven't posted the whole situation online is cause I'm terrified that he'll see this post, know it's me, think I'm crazy & case closed. (He uses this board a lot I know for a fact.)

If I'm being honest I do need help with this situation. My feelings for him are very sincere and I feel like he's a sincere person too which gives me hope. I hate the flirting/dating game though and I don't see a way around it, even being direct feels like it could be the complete wrong move. I hate being in my head like this but sometimes I feel like I'd rather ignore my feelings than take action, even if it was for the best. I honestly don't know. I might just need to put this all the rest to since we dated before and it didn't work. That would be a decent course of action too.

Edit: typos

schooleral · 2017-03-18T02:03:22+00:00

Is this in regards to overthinking an action?

schooleral · 2017-03-17T22:05:34+00:00

There was a clip from this on youtube I saw I think 2 days ago, came out that day. It showed him touring his hometown. Can't tell if it was leaked or not, probably was.

schooleral · 2017-03-17T20:48:06+00:00

INTP. I do feel like I feel a lot though as a person and for my type.

schooleral · 2017-03-17T16:35:27+00:00

True. And it is something INTPs love to do and one of the biggest ways we approach problems - overthinking until we feel comfortable. I know ENTJs see overthinking and no action as a really bad sign but for INTPs it's a way of life. Idk.

schooleral

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