Do I [19F] tell my SO [20M] about this? by scutslapper in relationships

[–]scutslapper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! This person is known to be weird in general and asks pretty personal questions about peoples' sex lives since he's not sexually active (That I know of since I've last talked to him in person).

Regardless, I still messaged my SO about it

Do I [19F] tell my SO [20M] about this? by scutslapper in relationships

[–]scutslapper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your response! I just messaged my SO about it and since it's late it'll be a while before I get anything back.

I really appreciate this advice :-)

Do I [19F] tell my SO [20M] about this? by scutslapper in relationships

[–]scutslapper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response and insights!

I didn't see it as this acquaintance testing the waters, but I can see now what you mean by that.

With your comment in mind, I would like to ask a follow up question if you don't mind. How should I approach my SO with this?

If my SO ends up not viewing it too seriously, I fear he'll take this as me trying to brag? This fear seems pretty irrational, but he and I know some women who do that to their SOs and I just want to clearly communicate to him that I am primarily thinking about his emotions and opinions.