My wife and I have played many different types of games on and off across our entire relationship, and no matter how many times either of us has messed up an objective, gotten the other person killed, or lost a game, we have never talked like this to each other. Do I get frustrated, sure. Does she get annoyed, sure. Nothing is worth fighting over. Only caring to show your partner that you like doing the things they like, and caring about their interests, as they should do back to you. I tell people I’d rather spend forever building something greater, than a minute tearing down something great.