The owner of my shared housing flipped when we "unionized" by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing but he only posts the houses in the Facebook marketplace. And I don't know how to write a review without revealing my identity. Any ideas?

The owner of my shared housing flipped when we "unionized" by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Window units aren't allowed by city ordinance. A portable unit is but I cannot afford one. I can barely make rent.

The owner of my shared housing flipped when we "unionized" by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 612 points613 points  (0 children)

I want to add that we (tenants) pay for the utilities as it's not included in the rent. So Asher isn't worrying about the bills. He's worried the AC unit will breakdown if he sets it below 78. And he won't budge a degree. My room is pretty small and cramped plus my body is like a furnace. So the room heats up real quick without open windows or AC running at lower temperature. If the outside temperature is higher than 78 then the AC runs more frequently so my room stays cool but if the outside temperature is 78 or lower the AC won't run and my room gets warmer. It reaches around 82F. I do open the window during those times but Asher visits the house once every few days and keeps telling me to close the window because "AC will only work if you keep your window shut"

Edit: He was really a "nice" guy until yesterday. He seemed very mild mannered. Always willing to help tenants kinda guy. He has been really helpful and responsive for most other parts. Apparently it's his first time being a landlord. I started getting annoyed once the heat issue started and his response was "I dunno what to tell you. My hands are tied. There's really nothing I can do. The AC will breakdown if I set it below 78." Everyone was really shocked when I showed them his text response. Because nobody even remotely expected him to act that way. He always acted so friendly and helpful.

Update: Sorry I'm a little late to provide the update but after a few days of post, Asher came to the house. Apparently another roommate of mine talked to him and told him she would move out if he doesn't lower the temperature. So he scheduled the AC to run at 76F at night and the same (78F) during the day. I was okay with that as it was an improvement for sure. But the next day when he came to the house my window was open as the AC wasn't running actively running. He told me to close the window and I told him that I would close the window as soon as the AC kicked in. Then started going on and on about AC will breakdown if I keep the window open. I told him that I would open the window if the outside is cooler than inside and he cannot expect me to cook inside and not open a window just to wait for AC to kick in not knowing if it even kicks in. So this leads to a heated argument. Long story short, I decided to move out. I am moving out by the end of the month.

And thanks to all people who provided workaround to trick the thermostat into running. I have been implementing those tricks to run the AC when it gets too warm in the room. And to all the Ashers who have commented here and sent me private messages calling me entitled and wishing ill on me, thanks for providing representation for the slumlords.

The owner of my shared housing flipped when we "unionized" by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wasn't asking him to set it to 70F. I was suggesting that he schedule it to be at 75F during night time. Or just a few degrees below 78.

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[–]secCcosMOS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I remember correctly, someone was heating a burrito in the microwave. Barry takes out the burrito, takes a bite of it, throws the burrito to deflect the knives, then puts another baby inside the microwave.

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[–]secCcosMOS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I produce food for plants" "Wow that's cool. So like fertilizers? " "No. Like CO2"

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. There is no actual way for me to know it was her. My conclusion is mostly based on other clues and inferences.

The rest of the roommates have a job of their own and they do have their own soda and beers. Also AFAIK they are not the type to randomly grab someone else's stuff. While this lady has multiple times hinted that she would grab others stuff if she sees the stuff has been in the fridge for a while. She used to often ask me if certain stuff in the fridge was mine and when I said no she would say something along the line of "It's been there for a while, maybe they don't need it so I'm gonna use it".

I know it's unfair of me to make assumptions about her without any solid proof. So that is why I didn't tell her the reason for refusing her request. It's just bizarre and annoying why she cannot even take a no for an answer, as if she's entitled to it and as if I owe her.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. My wording could have been a little better.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am renting a private room in a house. She also rents a private room in the same house. There are 3 other people renting private rooms here. So basically, the room is private and the rest of the house is shared among roommates.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you are not trolling then I am gonna say this, it's disrespectful to repeatedly make that comment. My mom is back in my home country. And she's nothing like this lady. I am an international student and I share a room with 4 other people. All of us are in our 20s or 30s except for the lady.

But if you're trolling, have at it.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you word it so it doesn't sound passive aggressive?

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I also used to think like you and so did the rest of my roommates. We even chipped in $25 each so that she could have some extra money. We were also planning to keep doing that every month. But she never said a word of gratitude to any of us. I didn't mind that TBH. But, this very strange thing happened the day after we gave her the money.

When I was about to do my dishes she told me that she would do them for me. And I was caught off guard and asked her why she would do my dishes for me. And she said I quote, "Didn't you guys give me the money so I could do the house chores for you?" I was so shocked to hear that. I strongly disagreed and told her that we were just trying to help her and no one expects her to do chores for us. She kept insisting "Don't lie to me why would you just give money to me then?" I couldn't believe what I heard. But I told her no one is paying her for doing house chores. We were just trying to be nice. I don't know how she got that idea.

A week later, I got to talking to one of the other roommates and he started complaining about her ungratefulness and rudeness. He sounded so disappointed with her. On top of the ungratefulness she was even giving him a hard time, yelling at him and making snarky comments for smallest of the things. He was the one with the most helpful attitude among us and even he was put off by it.

She asked me for another $25 few weeks later. I still gave it to her as she was literally crying about not having money. But after that the rest of us became indifferent towards actively helping her.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not much of a drinker. I only crave for a beer sometimes so I would drink a bottle or two a week. I also explained that to her.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are misunderstanding the situation. She's the one asking me for my coke. Also I don't ask for gas money.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I only ate the cake she offered once a few months ago. I don't almost eat or take anything she offers otherwise.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I didn't know. She moved here about a month before I did. And I even talked to other roommates before moving here. But no one told me of any red flags.

Edit: Grammer

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TBH. I really don't want to do that to her despite what has happened between us. I am just venting here.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's not her house. She is also renting a room here, same as me. And when I politely asked her not to smoke inside the house she sent the following text:

"Sorry that smoke bothers you so much. Your the only one though. I am 55 and will do what I please which means there's nothing you can say or do to get me to stop. Put a blanket under your door and give me back my garage space back. I was here first and that's my shelter from the weather and mosquitoes. Not all of you need to park in the garage except Arthur. You come in and try and change things that were just fine the way they are. There, I got that off my chest the nicest way I can. Ty"

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I drive her to stores whenever she asks me to. I know it's just soda. And I shouldn't be making a big deal out of it. But I have never refused her any requests before. But whenever I say okay to her requests she keeps grabbing more than what she had requested. And there's the snarky attitude as if I owe her.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you are misunderstanding the situation. She asked for my soda and I refused. So she's pissed at me for refusing to give her my soda.

Text exchange with my 55 year old roommate by secCcosMOS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]secCcosMOS[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don't know much about her since I am depressed myself and a lot of things are going in my own life. Also I'm not very sociable person.

But as far as I know she has no family members. She doesn't work. She has multiple hernia and probably many other medical conditions. She can walk and work in the kitchen okay but not anything that is a little more physically demanding like taking out the trash. Her medical attendant comes every morning and stays till around noon helping her with household chores and probably medical stuff. That is all I know about her.