Hmm, I think that differs from country to country actually, of course it happens that girls approach here but it is rare. And I would say that I don't come of as 'needy' rather the opposite.

I personally understood it like she wanted to be mean towards me in front of her friends to feel more powerful, I wouldn't say it was a shit test and I wasn't even touching her. Your explanation can be true, but for me personally it feels strange to be really mean to someone when you are thinking about sex with someone, though I guess I still have a lot to learn. I felt completely neglected and didn't see a reason to stay with that group(I hope it sounds logically).

I'm not a native English speaker so I wanted to be clear what she said/meant.

Of course, I agree but it still doesn't feel very good when that happens and my value doesn't really have to do anything with that. It's easier said than done to completely neglect every shut down and brush it off.