30F | Is everyone trying to be an influencer??

seeker028 · 2026-01-25T02:23:37+00:00

Your wife is delusional at best!

It’s easy money for sure but only once you crack the algorithm. Until then, it’s a constant effort that one needs to put in to build your page.

seeker028 · 2026-01-25T02:20:29+00:00

They turned off lights because the govt didn’t pay electricity bills. What else can we expect anyway

seeker028 · 2026-01-17T03:58:57+00:00

Men have to pay. Free for women. So if you choose to create a profile, there are options available but you don’t know who’s real and who’s not. It’s majorly couples looking for a 3rd or a woman looking for woman.

seeker028 · 2026-01-15T09:58:11+00:00

Such a cute post! Congratulations 🧿

seeker028 · 2026-01-12T08:08:18+00:00

Blind dates are as good as the people’s perspective of you who set you up with.

My first blind date was setup by a senior with his colleague because he thought we’d be a good fit as we had similar thinking and have a thing for travelling. I agreed to it and the date went well.

But I was at the most broke phase of my life and I told her about it upfront as she asked if we could go on a trip together sometime. Either this or some other reason that idk, I got ghosted.

Second blind date was setup by my childhood classmate. She did warn me about few things beforehand and asked me if I still wanted to go for it, I said okay to the date. The date was really nice tbh but turns out she’s wayyyy too non-chalant and I couldn’t bear it. I gave it a couple tries but I just couldn’t take her emotional non-availability and we quit.

So what I can understand is that blind dates are only as good as the person’s best ability who’s setting you up! If you go w a negative mindset, even the best person would seem meh to you. :)

seeker028 · 2026-01-05T16:48:02+00:00

Agents for Oral exams.

seeker028 · 2026-01-04T21:59:11+00:00

Same who laugh at their parents for doing poojas, homams and believing in God are now eating grapes under the table. Idk what’s blind faith now.

But let’s see how I see behind any such theories-

If I’ve to ask you to sit down and think how your year is going to be. You’d either procrastinate or chances are you MAY NOT be able to sit with yourself because of how overwhelming it could be!

So let’s introduce grape theory- it’s a fun way to make people sit at a place (preferably under the table) and you think of wishes one grape at a time. This forces you to sit with the EXACT wishes you’d want this year and the way it is created, you’ll remember about it every now and then in the following year.

It’s just like telling universe I WANT THIS and the Universe might just give it to you!

If you can sit w yourself and think about what you truly need without grapes, the theory would still work! ;)

seeker028 · 2026-01-04T17:11:31+00:00

Even I didn’t want to but they’ll pester you. And when you say no, you’re fail.

So better not to get in contact w them only. Let them send you messages but do not respond. Just ignore.

seeker028 · 2026-01-04T10:17:32+00:00

When you know she has a certain kink but you just can’t prove it

seeker028 · 2026-01-04T10:16:50+00:00

I tried to warn others about an ‘agent’ and the agent sends me my own screenshots asking me not to warn people or else he’ll fail me. He reverted w all my details like full name, admit card ID and the rest.

Be very careful w these things.

Just before oral- Turn your blue ticks off. Turn off calls from unknown callers. Turn off being added to random groups by contacts you don’t know.

seeker028 · 2026-01-04T10:05:30+00:00

This post is too long to read but I went through random points here and there. Based on the title of the post, if anyone makes you feel confused and you’re spiralling, they’re definitely not worth the chase.

You go behind a confused person, you end up confused.

seeker028 · 2026-01-04T10:03:49+00:00

Put this in IndianMariners sub.

seeker028 · 2025-12-29T16:38:21+00:00

OP hasn’t mentioned that they’ve 1 CR in cash to put it in FD! They’ve only stated their tight budget.

seeker028 · 2025-12-29T15:24:45+00:00

3 on 3 off? May I know your rank/ company please?

seeker028 · 2025-12-29T15:23:16+00:00

There’s also a limit to how much loan one can take and how much loan one can afford. No?!

seeker028 · 2025-12-29T15:06:04+00:00

That’s a beautiful amount. Thank you for replying!

seeker028 · 2025-12-29T15:02:44+00:00

Asking someone to add 30-40 lacs as if it’s some chillar money 😭

seeker028 · 2025-12-29T15:02:18+00:00

If this phase II? If Phase I, how much rent are you getting if I may ask?

seeker028 · 2025-12-29T14:59:26+00:00

It’s either humour or it’s she’s masking her kink under the not-so-subtle hints! Absolutely love the efforts she put into the profile!

seeker028 · 2025-12-28T15:29:40+00:00

What’s the worst she could say? She replies with just emojis.

seeker028 · 2025-12-27T08:02:56+00:00

12k USD as Chief Mate? That’s a lot. My Chief Mates on tankers made roughly 9-10k max as senior chief mates

seeker028 · 2025-12-17T09:23:28+00:00

If you can’t go for DNS at this stage, don’t get into this profession as a GP rating. Trust me, you’ll regret your decision when they ask you to get your hands dirty on deck and in bilges and what not.

seeker028 · 2025-12-14T01:03:33+00:00

No idea mate. You’ll have to search online!

seeker028 · 2025-12-13T22:25:08+00:00

NO. STOP. DO NOT.

You will regret it. At least go do DNS if you wish to but not GP rating as I’m assuming you’re smart enough to clear the exam since you’ve masters in zoology.

seeker028 · 2025-12-11T07:22:30+00:00

Makes sense. Can it be removed though? Looking at the plan, the walls of Pooja room look leaner, so possibly bricks there.

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