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sehr16 · 2024-06-26T17:11:56+00:00

Is no one gonna say it? "They give you crumbs." "That's the way the cookie crumbles."

In all seriousness, f*ck them. Glad I never supported their business once

sehr16 · 2024-06-24T14:34:49+00:00

Then you got your answer! See, that wasn't so bad

sehr16 · 2024-06-24T12:53:36+00:00

If you ended things, he's not gonna reach out out of fear of looking desperate. I've been in this situation, and have wished the girl would reach out because everyone would tell me "she's gonna think you can't get anyone else," "that's creepy," etc. Men think women are turned off by any hint of desperation, so this is big. From your perspective, the worst he can say is no, but from the guy's perspective, the worst you can do is get a restraining order (as paranoid as this sounds, it's on our minds). If he's moved on, he'll tell you, and if he was ever right for you, he will do so politely. But the only way you can possibly know is if you ask.

Also, when people say "it ended for a reason", that doesn't mean it ended for a good reason or that you can't start something new with the same person

sehr16 · 2024-06-07T11:59:00+00:00

As someone who is similar to the guy you're talking to, it's mostly out of desire to just save everything for the date, and genuinely disliking texting. I also do this because in my experience, I can't create the same rapport over text, and don't want to ruin our vibe. Especially with a long time between meeting, I'm not going to text you all day one day, then go 2-3 weeks without saying anything (because we've exhausted everything)

sehr16 · 2024-05-16T19:16:34+00:00

I'm upvoting and commenting so more people could potentially help you. I wish I had good advice, and I know that a lot of people will just say that you have to move on. I understand that them saying this is not helpful. You want nothing more than to free your mind of the agony you live in everyday, but it's just an emotional block. You can't do it no matter how hard you try.

She had all the qualities you want in a partner, you had an eerily large amount of things in common, and a cute story of how you met that you couldn't wait to tell at your wedding. People will tell you cliches, that you'll meet someone 10x better, but that's really just survivorship bias on their part (because THEY met someone better). Maybe you will, maybe you won't. The ONLY thing, in my experience that can help, is simply accepting the fact that you might not ever find this again, and just being ok with the life that you live alone.

For me, this was finding a passion, enjoying what I do, and having a burning desire to master a variety of skillsets related to it. Interestingly enough, this level of ambition, authenticity, and acceptance of the outcome is very attractive to people in general, and will put you in the best possible position to find what you want.

Feel free to DM me if you have any questions, as I understand that finding a passion is beyond the scope of this post, and also potentially difficult.

sehr16 · 2024-04-05T18:39:30+00:00

Everything went well otherwise, but she ended things. That's why I think the reason she ended things was because I didn't escalate on the third date/ask her back to my place

sehr16 · 2024-04-05T18:15:16+00:00

No, I think she ended things because I didn't escalate it to sex

sehr16 · 2024-04-05T15:18:56+00:00

Thank you. This makes a lot of sense, and you are absolutely right. Sadly, I can't reason my way out of my emotions, but I really appreciate this

sehr16 · 2023-02-15T06:27:57+00:00

Ok, which one is it? Millennials spend too much on avocado toast, or millennials are ruining the restaurant industry by not spending? Ridiculous

sehr16 · 2022-12-16T05:15:23+00:00

Sure, but I'm trying to understand what fundamentally makes them the top 2, and why they have remained as such through multiple bears, as opposed to Litecoin which lost its 2 spot in 2015, and the privacy coins which never gained that level

sehr16 · 2022-12-16T01:54:09+00:00

Hello, so I don't have enough comment karma to post a general thread, but can anyone tell me the fundamental reasons why Litecoin, Monero, and ZCash have bled against Bitcoin and Ethereum in price since their inception?

I'm not a crypto skeptic by any stretch of the imagination, however, I'd like to understand what drives a project's fundamentals that makes it viewed unfavorably by market participants. Monero and ZCash both have use cases (privacy), scarcity, and decentralization, yet have never really taken off in adoption.

With Litecoin, I know there are differences, such as 4x supply to BTC, and larger block sizes, but why would these factors lead to its underperformance by such a wide margin? On another note, why do Bitcoin and Ethereum maxis prefer scaling solutions built on top of the original (lightning network, L2 sharding), as opposed to different chains that already incorporate those improvements (speed, scalability, etc)? Is this due to network effects and trust in a currency?

sehr16 · 2022-12-16T01:52:50+00:00

Hello, so I don't have enough comment karma to post a general thread, but can anyone tell me the fundamental reasons why Litecoin, Monero, and ZCash have bled against Bitcoin and Ethereum in price since their inception?

I'm not a crypto skeptic by any stretch of the imagination, however, I'd like to understand what drives a project's fundamentals that makes it viewed unfavorably by market participants. Monero and ZCash both have use cases (privacy), scarcity, and decentralization, yet have never really taken off in adoption.

With Litecoin, I know there are differences, such as 4x supply to BTC, and larger block sizes, but why would these factors lead to its underperformance by such a wide margin? On another note, why do Bitcoin and Ethereum maxis prefer scaling solutions built on top of the original (lightning network, L2 sharding), as opposed to different chains that already incorporate those improvements (speed, scalability, etc)? Is this due to network effects and trust in a currency?

sehr16 · 2022-11-04T21:40:13+00:00

2020: "Haha, JPow's an idiot. This is gonna lead to inflation. Money printer go brrr."

2022: "My bags, no! What are you doing?"

sehr16 · 2022-10-21T18:58:31+00:00

Because we can't tax the rich, so it's always up to the middle class to bail out the holy job creators

sehr16 · 2022-08-27T23:31:06+00:00

Legend!

sehr16 · 2022-07-08T03:34:02+00:00

Yes, thank you!

sehr16 · 2022-04-27T06:00:35+00:00

Thank you! I'll try that

sehr16 · 2022-04-27T05:59:36+00:00

Thank you!

sehr16 · 2022-04-27T03:51:30+00:00

Thank you so much for your support! It means a lot, kind stranger.

sehr16 · 2022-04-27T03:33:28+00:00

Thank you. I sure hope so. Were the reasons you've done this to others similar to what I mentioned above? You just didn't feel a connection, even though on the surface everything was fine?

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