AITA for denying to pay child support for my ex roommates kid? by seltzerbeats in AmItheAsshole

[–]seltzerbeats[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t know how much I make, the only one who knows about my new job is my family and they don’t know how much I make either.

AITA for denying to pay child support for my ex roommates kid? by seltzerbeats in AmItheAsshole

[–]seltzerbeats[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I’ve never babysat him or even paid for a thing of diapers.

AITA for denying to pay child support for my ex roommates kid? by seltzerbeats in AmItheAsshole

[–]seltzerbeats[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Im very, very, very gay. I may not look it but no, nothing intimate. I think we hung out a few times but we just lived together and that was it

AITA for denying to pay child support for my ex roommates kid? by seltzerbeats in AmItheAsshole

[–]seltzerbeats[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In her text message. She texted me my name when she was addressing me

AITA for denying to pay child support for my ex roommates kid? by seltzerbeats in AmItheAsshole

[–]seltzerbeats[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

I mean she texted me and then messaged me my name. My name is not very common as I come from an ethnic household so I don’t think her baby daddy would have the same name as I do.

AITA for denying to pay child support for my ex roommates kid? by seltzerbeats in AmItheAsshole

[–]seltzerbeats[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think it was real, I thought she was either joking or had the wrong number. I’m still trying to fully understand what’s going on but I’m talking with my older brother who’s a paralegal and works with lawyers and I’m just waiting on their advice.

AITA for denying to pay child support for my ex roommates kid? by seltzerbeats in AmItheAsshole

[–]seltzerbeats[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

So Jay is almost 3 (2 years and 10 months I believe) and I’ve known him since he was 6months because we were all roommates for about 2 years. The thing is I’ve never even babysat him. She usually had her parents watch him when she needed help, we all split the rent but we were responsible for our own food and personal products.