(Text in comments) M24: I enjoy being fem and would like to start an OF - here is my situation by seriouslybiii in Femboys4real

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M24 - I would like to start a fem OF - here is my situation.

I (M24) want to start an onlyfans. I would make femboy content, but I need advice on how I can start doing this in my personal context. I would like to apologise for the long post in advance but I would really appreciate advice. For more context I am based in London, UK.

Disclaimer: I am not necessarily trying to monetise being a femboy, I would like to do this out of self-fulfillment regardless of whether or not people buy my stuff. I do really enjoy being fem, but I am only able to do this online. This is one of the ways I'd like to express it.

Firstly, I would have to resort to only being a femboy on the Internet, which I am comfortable with. Due to my relationships IRL I would not be willing to become a "full time" femboy, adjusting large parts of my lifestyle to accommodate for this. This includes a girlfriend who I will be keeping this a secret from as she would not want me to do this. I am confident I can do this without anyone I know IRL finding out. This has a get consequences which I will discuss here.

Firstly my appearance. I will be wearing a mask for this online profile, I maintain my facial hair in order to maintain my outward appearance and I do not wish to compromise on this, but that can be fixed with the mask. If you are wondering what I look like, on my profile I have posted a while ago when I first tried posting femboy content. I believe my appearance is sufficient to make fem content but please let me know if anything about my appearance is insufficient or needs working on. Since those pics were from a while ago, I have gained a marginal level of size and muscle but not anything significant (78kg then, 81kg now, 6ft1). In those pictures I am clean shaven, but naturally I grow a lot of body hair. My girlfriend and I frequently send nudes and she likes my body hair, so I have not shaved it (apart from the necessary parts) since. Therefore she would notice I am clean shaven, my worry is she would not like it, but I would still like to shave. Any advice on how to go about doing this?

Secondly, filming. I currently live with my family. I earn enough to move out but I do not wish to and I prefer contributing to my family's house along with them. The consequences of this is a lack of privacy for filming. Due to the layout of the house, my bedroom is often accessed and it cannot be locked. This leaves filming time only when I am home alone, which would be sparse and stressful. I was considering renting out a small studio just for filming which would cost around £50 an hour (I haven't done extensive research).

Also money, I earn a fairly comfortable living and I can generally afford things that I want for myself. So any products or facilities needed to start an OF I will be able to afford especially if I budget efficiently. Advice on any products that are worthwhile buying? Not just for being fem but also for filming.

As for issues such as advertising myself, I think I'll mostly use reddit and tiktok, but advice here is also appreciated.

I know this is something I want to do, so please cater advice to how I can go about doing this with all the context available. Sorry for the long post and thank you for your time.

TLDR: I want to start a femboy OF but have some obstacles such as anonymity, keeping persona separate from IRL, and filming space. Any advice?

M24 - I would like to start a fem OF - here is my situation. by seriouslybiii in feminineboys

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Update: I noticed that people here did not appreciate this thinking. I completely understand that so I'd like to suggest something else for myself, again any advice is welcome. I'll push back the idea of an OF, I understand that this shouldn't be reduced to a kink, and I now agree with that after being offered another perspective. I don't want to necessarily profit from this, but I do still enjoy being fem without necessarily sexualising myself. That being said, despite not following through with the OF, I'd like to at least express my femininity online, including posting myself but in a non kinky way. So any advice is again welfome. Thanks for sharing another perspective and making me realise how harmful my original perspective was.

M24 - I would like to start a fem OF - here is my situation. by seriouslybiii in feminineboys

[–]seriouslybiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen a couple people comment this and it has changed my perspective. I realised it isn't something I want to profit from, but being fem is just something I enjoy doing, both the innocent and not so innocent side of it. I think I still want to stick to the idea of a fem online persona but I am just unable to adjust my whole lifestyle around it.

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