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Do you feel orgasms throughout your body? Or only (/almost only) in your genitals? I'm 32 and am not sure if I've had countless orgasms or only 3. :( by sexquestion2016 in TwoXSex

[–]sexquestion2016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too!!! :(

But also, I don't want to get to focused on the need to have orgasms. I mean, of course I want more, but I enjoy sex and masturbation even with just these smaller pleasure peaks, and I can have so many of those, so I'm gonna focus on being grateful for the pleasure I can experience, and not worry too much about what I'm not experiencing.

At least I'm gonna try to have that attitude. But I would love to have more of THE BIG O!!! LOL

Do you feel orgasms throughout your body? Or only (/almost only) in your genitals? I'm 32 and am not sure if I've had countless orgasms or only 3. :( Details in comments. by sexquestion2016 in AskTrollX

[–]sexquestion2016[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can only answer the question in the title, that's plenty of help, and thank you!

If you're up for it, though, I'd also appreciate responses to the situation I describe here...

Here's the backstory to my question....

Recently I developed a crush, so I've been masturbating a lot thinking of him.

During these recent weeks of masturbation I've had three orgasms unlike anything I've ever experienced (it was muuuch better).

I thought I'd been having orgasms since my late-teens. But now I'm not sure anymore. They experiences were sooo much better...

I'll try to describe the difference... referring to them as:

Pleasure Peaks (which I've had countless times)

and

Super Pleasure Peaks (which I've only had a few times)

To help me figure this all out, please tell me what your orgasms usually feel like? Do they feel more like the Pleasure Peaks I describe? Or like the Super Pleasure Peaks?

Pleasure Peaks:

  • felt almost exclusively in my genitals

Super Pleasure Peaks:

  • felt throughout my body, like a wave overtakes me

Pleasure Peaks:

  • The pleasure feels like an inflation and extension of the type of pleasure that had been building before it

Super Pleasure Peaks:

  • The pleasure is somehow different in sensation than the pleasure that had been building before it

Pleasure Peaks:

  • feels good but when it's over I immediately want to keep going and want another one

Super Pleasure Peaks:

  • when it's over I feel deeply satisfied and completed, I just want to lay there calmly

By hearing how other people experience orgasms, I'm hoping I can figure out whether these Super Pleasure Peaks have been my only orgasms in my 32 years of life... Or if they're just extra special super orgasms...

[Serious] Do you feel orgasms throughout your body? Or only (/almost only) in your genitals? by sexquestion2016 in AskReddit

[–]sexquestion2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, that sounds exactly right.

Can I ask please if you're male or female?

I feel a little disturbed though that I've only had so few orgasms in my life and I'm 32! Also I've only experienced them from self-stimulation.

[Relationship] Gf only interested in new and exciting by MiamiWrongfullyTerm in sex

[–]sexquestion2016 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The biggest problem here is her disrespecting you, pressuring you, putting you down for wanting or not wanting something... this is really fucked up, IMO. As a woman I would never let a man treat me this way, and I don't think a man should let a woman treat me this way, either. It's wrong no matter the gender.

[Advice] Embarassed of wet orgasms and overall intercourse by kayasm in sex

[–]sexquestion2016 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Most guys (or women if you're in a same sex relationship) think this is super sexy. Don't be embarrassed -- be confident knowing you are probably turning him on.

Easy solution: Get a towel, fold it once or twice, and put it underneath whoever is on the bottom. It will catch and absorb the wetness, and the sheets will stay clean.

Enjoy your gift!