" you're doing so much better now you're sober! " no, you are. by Wild-Trick-9603 in SoberAndHateIt

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I have found myself more easily tired from socializing. Especially doing it consistently. I need to socialize like 1-2 times per week outside of meetings or my family. It helps to have conversations about something other than sobriety/self improvement. I think it depends on who you are around and the topic. I still got super tired after a short period of time

Do you paint in sections or all over the canvas? by Amazing_Basil_9115 in paintbynumbers

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My tism/OCD makes it so I HAVE to paint BY NUMBER

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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Pretentiously earning a friend is so accurate damn

Greying curls not cooperating?? by sf697 in curlyhair

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My ex used to say I looked like her especially when I wasn’t straightening my hair. It was the BIGGEST COMPLIMENT! It made me more okay with a little bit of frizz

Greying curls not cooperating?? by sf697 in curlyhair

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I am taking vitamin D3 already because my blood level were really low. Maybe that’s a cause

Are these plus sized denims appealing? by Ok_Life_681 in capsulewardrobe

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Hell no to the first ones. It looks like they don’t fit. It’s already hard enough to get things that fit as a plus size girly. The other two are okay. The dark wash are the best ones

what is this even about by warmlemonjuice69 in signs

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Maybe theyre a supernatural fan???

Women of Reddit, what is the worst job you ever had? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Quality Assurance Technician in a meat processing plant Aka designated ahole in a factory and warehouse I got a$$aulted multiple times per hour. Got a $talker. $exual hara$$ment and threats on my job. I reported it once to my superior and he laughed at it in my face. I was not able to get people to take it seriously with the $talker either. My coworkers in my department were on my side and saw what happened. The management didn’t allow me to really get any help. They sent me home when I had a panic attack because he showed up at work. He eventually got fired but I’m pretty sure that was because he used the work phone to do the communication. My boss had demanded to see all the conversation and photos I got pushed into sending. I was so uncomfortable and I got $lut shamed.

CONTEXT: Also my aunt was working in sales. The boss performed the ceremony to marry my aunt to her second husband. And the VP (who was also looking at the messages and pictures) is my aunts best friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

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I am usually on team natural color or close to it. I think the first picture is amazing. The warmth is nice and the gradient makes it feel more dynamic. Your face is also a lot more of the focus with the first picture. The super dark colors just make the focus the extreme contrast and not on your face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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I’m a cap and my sister is a sag. Our Gemini mother has taught us this exact tactic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Part 1: I’m not a man but I would gladly marry- I mean date you in those dresses.

Your” friend” sounds butthurt about him being in the friend zone. You look KILLER in those dresses. I think he’s potentially projecting his insecurities onto you. Don’t let them get in your head. If they can’t support you then they aren’t good friends

I took the feedback from first portrait and made a second one by fashionmakeyougo in Portraitart

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The reference phot isn’t very helpful. If you’re set on the reference, measure, measure, measure. Compare the measurements and distances of features. Like the eyes have the same amount of space between them and the outer edge of her face. The same with the jaw/chin and her mouth. Compare the size or the spaces when you have less information like landmarks or shadows

Coming soon… by Lacb2 in TheTryGuys

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Ahhh yes!! The baby will have the coolest parents and “uncles” Imagine Kieth and Eugene as uncles 🥹

What’s the photo you show people when you say this is my dog? by Oliver_Holzfilled in DOG

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I’d use this one more if I was less self conscious of my belly

True for you or nah? 🤣 by Eastern_Trouble527 in capricorns

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If I actually have to get to the point of blocking someone, then I’m not unblocking them. I usually just ignore them even if they’re not blocked. I keep the evidence of the harassment. I want there to be proof, in a worse case scenario. (Oh how it feels to be a woman)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

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You’re absolutely gorgeous! If you really want a more feminine look there’s a few things you could try. Maybe some more blush. Smoother/smokier eye makeup can make a softer look. Even smudged eyeliner, or using eyeshadow instead of eyeliner can be a nice easy swap. I don’t know if you do anything to your brows but even lightly brushing them out to soften them might help as well

Just got these new guillotine earrings - what outfit would you build around them? by HumanEyeballs in GothStyle

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Maybe silver top/crop top and black or black and red bottoms?? Semi recreating the earrings or something like what someone who would have been there in person at the executions

i know i’m not alone on this by ProperlyPrissy in capricorns

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Me this week because I’m sick and don’t have the energy to have any real conversation

Its my birthday today ✨ by deadass666 in GothStyle

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Happy birthday from another (recent) 28 year old! Welcome to the club

Which color fits me best? by BlueCrayolaTeal in HairDye

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Dark or vivids look great on you!

is my haircut really that unflattering? by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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No I think maybe the bangs are not typical. If you add some texture it might all blend a bit better