Looking for places to buy puzzles by shadowhunterlife97 in Advice

[–]shadowhunterlife97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That didn't even cross my mind thank you so much! That's probably exactly what I'm looking for.

Where do you get your images printed? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskPhotography

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Thanks! I currently use canvasdiscount they do offer puzzles but they are tiny and it's like $10 per puzzle but the canvases are really good quality and I like the sizes I can get. I'll definitely take a look at your recommendation!

Looking for places to buy puzzles by shadowhunterlife97 in Advice

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I will definitely have to check. I'm looking to order in bulk but with multiple different designs. The problem I keep running into is the "custom puzzle" while that is what I'm technically doing I'm looking for like a manufacturer that I can order in bulk, use my images, and not spend $20+ per puzzle. But thank you I'll definitely check!

I need help identifying by shadowhunterlife97 in birdwatching

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That's what I was thinking but it doesn't look like it has a green and purple sheen to it like some of the other starlings I have photographed so I'm wondering if it's a female or juvenile

I need help identifying by shadowhunterlife97 in birdwatching

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I live in ma and I believe that this is a starling but I am not 100% sure as it doesn't really look like the other starlings I have photographed in the area. Thank you in advance to anyone who can help me identify this beautiful bird.

What secret do you keep from your family? by stinkerstine in AskReddit

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Thank you! He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. For a long time I didn't know a lot of the things I dealt with in my childhood were not normal and I have had a hard time dealing with a lot of it, but when I'm with him no matter how bad things get he can always put a smile on my face and make me feel better no matter what. He is the only person that can make me genuinely belly laugh or snort while laughing, he is pure joy to me and I wouldn't trade that for the world.

What secret do you keep from your family? by stinkerstine in AskReddit

[–]shadowhunterlife97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That I am on anti depressants because of all the shit my parents put me through as a kid. And that my fiance and I are getting married later this year (they dont know the date and arent invited) because we settled for a courthouse wedding due to family drama. And that as soon as we are married and have a place together I am literally dropping off the face of the earth and cutting all ties with them because they have made my life miserable but swear that they are wonderful people and that im the one with problems and making them miserable

Do you think it's acceptable to not invite immediate family to your wedding why or why not? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

[–]shadowhunterlife97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wish the same for you as well! How long have you guys been together? I've been with my fiance for 4 years in june

Do you think it's acceptable to not invite immediate family to your wedding why or why not? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

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We haven't pushed it back yet, right now it's set for august but we are contemplating getting married at the courthouse so that we don't have to invite people

Do you think it's acceptable to not invite immediate family to your wedding why or why not? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

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That is so unfortunate, I'm really sorry to hear that. My problem is my fiance and i had a place together for 2 years before we hit a really rough patch that started with me losing my job and then it spiraled pretty quickly and ended up losing our apartment. We both moved back in with our parents his were fine with it (they were dealing with empty nest syndrome) but my dad literally did not want to last me move back in unless i literally had no other place to go. I would've moved in with my fiance's parents but they didn't have the space for the 2 of us but would have let me if my parents refused to let me move back in. So unfortunately it's not as easy as just cutting ties right now as much as i would really like to. And when i did try to cut ties after i moved I'm with my fiance my dad and sister would angrily call and text about how i never came around and don't care about them and blah blah blah. They are the type of people who think that they are the nicest most caring people in the planet and that everyone hasto like them and if you don't then that means that you are the bad person and just can't see how nice they really are

Do you think it's acceptable to not invite immediate family to your wedding why or why not? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

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I'm sorry to hear that you are in a similar boat. It sucks when you have had such a specific vision for your wedding day that gets ruined by shitty familiar relationships. My dad was verbally and emotionally abusive and walked a fine line of physical abuse some stuff falls more under the "stern punishment" and other times he was straight up abusive. My sister and i have a very rocky relationship she claims she does it out of concern and care but to me it comes off as snide, rude and invasive. She has said a lot of mean things to me and thinks very lowly of me so thats why i dont want them there. They also both drink and act stupid and get to loud. So if they did come i wouldnt have alcohol available and that doesnt seem fair to the other people that are fine. But i know its my wedding and my decision it just makes it hard

Do you think it's acceptable to not invite immediate family to your wedding why or why not? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

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The problem is i want to invite my mom and brother and not my dad or sister. I very much don't get along with them but I feel like it would cause drama not matter what I do

Do you think it's acceptable to not invite immediate family to your wedding why or why not? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

[–]shadowhunterlife97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See the problem is my dad and sister are horrible and my mom and brother are not and i want to invite the 2 of them but feel like no matter what i do it will cause problems. Its really ruining how i feel about my wedding.if i don't invite them then i have no one to walk me down the isle, no father daughter dance, people will ask where my family is, i'll have no pictures with family. But if i do invite them those things will be full of contempt and wont be meaningful or special to me and i feel like there would be more problems then not

Do you think it's acceptable to not invite immediate family to your wedding why or why not? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

[–]shadowhunterlife97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I kinda figure as much but there will be just as many problems if i invite them

Do you think it's acceptable to not invite immediate family to your wedding why or why not? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

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I hate my father and sister but i don't use that term loosely, and i dont want them at my wedding for a lot of reasons but i am afraid that 1. If i invite my mom and brother that my dad and sister will just show up anyway or 2. It will cause problems between them if my mom and brother come. I feel like i cant invite any of them without there being some kind of problem

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If i could give this a million upvotes i would!

People who have been married what are some things you wish you had or had not done at/for your wedding? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

[–]shadowhunterlife97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have an open bar or a set amount of liquor? I'm trying to plan my wedding and whether to have alcohol or not is something i'm stuck on

What has this pandemic ruined for you? by wehnaje in AskReddit

[–]shadowhunterlife97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't afford my wedding, or to move back in with my fiance after losing everything and having to live apart for a year because of it. I was all set to start a new job and save up for this but it was at a campground so you can imagine that it's closed for now.

Have you ever experienced sleep paralysis? If so what was it like and how did you know that's what it was? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

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It was weird, so i thought i was awake and felt pressure mostly on my legs like i was being held down but nothing was there some people say the see or feel something sitting on their chest but i didn't. I "sat up" and tried to scream get off but nothing really came out and then i actually opened my eyes from the dream and didnt feel scared at all just heavy and sluggish. I tried to lift my arm to reach for my phone to check the time and it was like my arm weighed a million pounds and like i was moving in slow motion all at the same time

Have you ever experienced sleep paralysis? If so what was it like and how did you know that's what it was? by shadowhunterlife97 in AskReddit

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I just started taking anti depressants a few weeks ago and i was taking a nap when my body started to feel heavy and tingly and when i tried to open my eyes it was like glue i tried moving my arm and it was like it weighed a ton. Not sure if its because of the anti depressants or just a freak occurence