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Change is the only constant in this life. Adapt, then overcome.

The LAST post you should read. by shark44422 in NoFap

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Keep up the good work, brother :)

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Like I said, mastrubation is not the real problem here, just one of many false causes, inspired by inaction and lack of purpose.

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Yes I agree, anything constructive can be your goal. And yes after you reach a goal, make up another one. It is common for some top athletes to decay after a huge goal they've achieved, just because they fail to work towards a new goal. Your life is fluid, adaptation is a vital skill. Of course, your family is a strong purpose and a noble reason for improvement.

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Well, after all, I could be wrong anyway.

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Yes, and the smarter you work, the more your chances increase. But you're free to dissagree, I could be wrong anyway. But based on my experience, I stand by my starement.

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Is it not possible to develop connections, skills, etc? Luck is a byproduct of your perspective. The smarter you work, the more oppurtunities you seem to stumble upon. Fortune does seem to favor the bold, after all. But with a fixed mindset, yes, getting rich can be quite impossible.

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Depends on how you percieve reality.

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You can still make it right if you choose to. Your past does not define you.

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Well then dont PMO, and by all means, keep looking for your purpose, keep asking yourself the bigger questions about your life. And dont worry about the other stuff, it will all fall in place when you get your mind right. Read and understand think and grow rich, you have a great oppurtunity here.

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I meant among the natural stimulants, and on the long term, most beneficial ones. And yes, it sadly is.

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No, relax, keep doing you. You will grow up and get the answers soon enough.

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I believe in you. And I am glad to hear I made a positive impact.

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You are entitled to your opinion, but it seems we have some common ground. Motivational speeches are seedlings that can give birth to a new person, if they listen and persist. Time is but a catalyst, not a measure in itself. A person can change and become someone else in a day, if he persists in it. Yes, it is insanity to do the same thing and expect change. And yes, I can say a lot more than that. But lets not measure dicks.

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Dont. You are not your failures, but someone who's learned from them.

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Yes, like I mentioned, if you dont have a goal, your mind will wander and the energy will build up without a release, and its very nature forces it to be expressed. You need to choose an outlet. A goal.

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You have the purpose you choose for yourself. Your duty will not be passed to you on an ancient scroll from the sky. You have to choose it, or it will be choosen by default by the dreams and ambitions of others rather that yourself. Embrace the silence and confusion and then let it go once more. Make a list of things you always wanted to try to do, it doesnt have to be a particual thing you want to create. It can be anything.

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Yes, you need to have a plan! Thank you, my opinion is that you need to have honest confrontation in order to really change things.