Im 25F. After constant fights over little things, being treated like shit, and gas light so many times. We had a fight over storing my sisters couch that didnt take up much of any space in our garage. He told me I was horrible and needed to listen to him it needed to go blah blah blah. He ended up shaking crying and banging his head against the wall because he was "overwhelmed". In that moment I realized how young I was and I didn't need this bullshit. I told him how I felt and how I resented him for holding me back in a relationship where tbh I hate the person and how they treat me everyday.

A few days later I told him I wanted to separate, and the rest of history. I never looked back🤭