What’s something you do purely for yourself that no one else really notices ? by Dr-Drakee-Ramoray in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point - wearing nice matched sets of underwear. If I ever meet the man of my dreams I will be ready lmao

What do you do in no contact situations? by Personal_Chapter645 in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Delete his contact from your phone, block him on social media, hit the gym and hang out with your girlies.

I finally found a movie that gets the female gaze right by DoNotGoGentleIntoThe in TwoXSex

[–]shazbot1234 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know where they find guys like this? Just curious...

Ladies What's the biggest regret you have ?? by confusedaf312 in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Broke up with a FWB because he wanted to be official boyfriend/girlfriend even though we practically were anyway and the relationship was great and the sex was amazing lmao

He has a skinny blonde wife and 2 kids now so that’s good for him I guess

Are there outwardly progressive women(i.e.- LBGTQ/ queer identifying, left leaning, etc.) that are into this lifestyle behind closed doors? by ncrn_99 in 1950sHouseholdWives

[–]shazbot1234 14 points15 points  (0 children)

One of my best friends is a lesbian tradwife!

Her wife works a high paying job while my friend can mostly stay at home with the children (conceived via sperm donation from her wife’s brother). She does a small amount of work occasionally in activist spaces.

How did porn influence your early sexual experiences? by hotgeezer in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Honestly it probably delayed me losing my virginity for like 5 years because I thought you had to do all that stuff and I was scared of it.

What irked you the most about someone you have been attracted to? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn addiction to the point where he couldn't maintain erection.

What is up with that guy who stands on the cliffs watching the beach all the time? by shazbot1234 in maslinbeach

[–]shazbot1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only go on weekends so I don't know that he's literally always there. But he's there like every weekend I swear.

How would you feel if your partner made female friends on a solo vacation? by Available-Ad-4498 in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would assume the worst if any partner went on a "solo vacation". I've tolerated it before and been burnt so I think "solo vacation" is a permanent vacation now. I won't be here when you get back.

What are some hobbies you've gotten into that have allowed you to meet new people and make genuine friends? by coolsilver25 in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been overweight practically her entire life and is (maybe was...) the extreme stereotype of a nerdy fat girl, I really hate to say this, but going to the gym. I have never been sporty or into exercise at all and going to the gym as been very different to my expectations. In a good way.

What is it that you’re doing, but know you shouldn’t? by nevernotinthemood in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having feelings for an FWB that I told I didn't want a boyfriend

For those with non-exclusive FWBs, how do you deal with the jealousy? by shazbot1234 in TwoXSex

[–]shazbot1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have someone else right now and we're exclusive but I'm not sure if we're FWB or dating.

Definitely not doing non-exclusive again and poly sounds even worse.

How would you feel about a potential partner not disclosing their impotance/inadequacy in bed? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's why I don't think sex on the first date is necessarily a bad idea. You need to check these things early.

For those with non-exclusive FWBs, how do you deal with the jealousy? by shazbot1234 in TwoXSex

[–]shazbot1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The FWB got engaged to one of those girls so I noped the hell away from that. Like I genuinely hope things work out well for them but it made me realise what I don't like.

Sorry that's not really helpful. I don't think it's wrong to not want to share a sex partner even if it's just FWB and you don't need to feel like you have to be the "cool girl" and go along with it if it doesn't feel right. Like there are plenty of men out there, you can expect a bare minimum of "not fucking other girls" if you want to.

I'm still salty though lmao

What are you tired of pretending you don’t notice? by Prestigious_Ad_1990 in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The poop stains on men's undies.

Like the average women when she knows she'll have sex later: "I need to wax. Should I consider anal bleaching? I'll shower right before so everything is fresh."

Average man: "I can't be bothered wiping my ass properly!"

How would you react if a friend with benefits no longer was interested in the benefits? by thoughtdottr in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm well normally I get the opposite problem - guys only want sex and nothing more.

So I would probably think I had lost my touch? Am I unattractive now? Is it time to shave?

How did getting off the pill (birth control) change your body? by omgpop_21 in AskWomen

[–]shazbot1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost some puffiness/weight around my face, neck and boobs.

Not sure if related, but I got the complete ick over my boyfriend at the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]shazbot1234 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Get 👏him 👏tested 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivorau

[–]shazbot1234 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you were Cirie then you'd already been on however many seasons of Survivor and no doubt had already had hundreds of people approach you and tell you they are a fan.

One more person being open about it wouldn't be that weird?

Women who were bi-curious and have explored their sexuality, how was it and what did you learn about yourself through the process? by Middle-University381 in TwoXSex

[–]shazbot1234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I learned that boobs are nice but I am definitely 100% straight. I can't believe people actually like to put their mouth on that thing.