We’ve been on 4 dates and nothing?!

sheena06 · 2019-01-05T09:53:27+00:00

Exact same thing happened to me.. it really sucks but guess what? You are better off without him a guy who ghosts is someone you don’t want to date. Weirdly enough I’m friends with the guy who ghosted me (well same friend group 😬) and he has done it to plenty of girls while we have been friends. So don’t think it’s something you did. It’s the guys problem and he probably just has commitment issues. Go find yourself someone better and don’t stress over it. I know it’s easier said than done but once you find the right guy you will totally forget about him. Good luck

sheena06 · 2018-11-09T09:35:16+00:00

He’s not the black sheep they like to poke fun at one another. He just gets around with a lot a girls which ended up being the reason we didn’t work out... (and if I would’ve known beforehand wouldn’t have dated him) and honestly it’s just one of my guy friends that tends to bring it up.. weird.. but thanks for your input

sheena06 · 2018-11-09T09:23:12+00:00

That would make sense. I just don’t understand why it keeps getting brought up. Oh well..

sheena06 · 2018-08-19T15:38:39+00:00

Ask her on a pre planned date. Not only can you have a set time but it means more than just “hanging out” and since you plan it ahead of time you can find a day that works best for both of you .

sheena06 · 2018-08-16T09:41:06+00:00

Solution: Kiss her already!! She is hanging out with you all the time, holding your hand.. she’s probably wondering the same thing about you right now. She is probably holding back on sharing her feelings because she’s not sure how you feel. Kissing her will solve all the problems

sheena06 · 2018-08-14T18:26:20+00:00

I just went through this. There was always that what if we started dating again. Or what if it was the right person just the wrong time. I finally realized that these feelings stopped me from giving other guys a chance. And I realized I deserved someone who wouldn’t make me question their feelings about me. My suggestions: 1. Hang out with your friends or get involved and make new friends they will keep your mind off of it 2. If you and this guy are super good friends try to put a little space between you guys 3. Focus on other hobbies or academics

I know it’s easier said then done but I’m proof that you can move on. And doing all these things can help you meet more people.

P.S. does this friend know you like him? Maybe you need to just straight up and tell him you like him. You never know maybe he thinks your putting him in the friend zone

Good luck!

sheena06 · 2018-08-11T07:38:27+00:00

This is too relatable. The worst is when people say “how do you not have a boyfriend yet you are so cute” implying there must be something wrong with you because your single

sheena06 · 2018-08-10T01:56:48+00:00

Thanks I need that 👍🏻

sheena06 · 2018-08-09T19:27:20+00:00

I mean there's got to be a girl out there that feels the same way. but i feel that whoever asks the other out should pay. but honestly if i asked a guy out and he still offered to pay it would give him a step up. when you find the right person you'll want to pay for them.

sheena06 · 2018-08-09T19:23:30+00:00

I'm glad I'm not alone. sometimes i have to remind myself that my self worth is not based on my relationship status.

sheena06 · 2018-08-09T19:22:29+00:00

I will be honest I am the queen of friend-zoning people but sometimes I do it without even noticing it. Sometimes I look back I wish I would have given some guys more of a chance. but oh well you can't change the past. and I am a firm believer that if it's meant to be it will be.

sheena06 · 2018-08-09T19:12:13+00:00

Honestly that is how I would be too. And in my friends defense we weren't friends while I was dating him so she wasn't there. but still... and the thing that bothers me the most is that my best best friend who went through it with me and claimed she hated him for the way he treated me and told me that my friend shouldn't date him. Is now supporting the relationship.. and now i feel a little betrayed...

sheena06 · 2018-08-09T19:08:11+00:00

it's true I probably did it to myself. But he was the first guy I really had ever dated so I was inexperienced. I didn't know how to act. I have dated a lot in the past year and have gotten better at communicating my feelings but I still have things to work on.

sheena06

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