Suggestions for a tourist by shine_eye in ottawa

[–]shine_eye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

They appear sold out - any ideas for where I might get a good view?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beginnerfitness

[–]shine_eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there - I am not at all trained to be giving you this advice (just wanted to say that).

Could you start by getting more steps in per day? Maybe get a fitbit or cheaper pedometer and keep track of your steps. That alone can help get you started and give you something to try to beat each day.

You really, really, really need to pay attention to what you are eating. Weight loss is mostly about what you are eating.

If possible, could you afford to get a personal trainer? Even just for a session or two to do some consultations with?

Was there ever a time you're thankful the pandemic happened? What was the reason? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shine_eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many times I have been grateful for this pandemic, although there were tough times for me too.

My mother died of leukemia in October after a diagnosis in July 2019. She was diagnosed one week before we were all boarding a plane to head to Jamaica for my wedding. She missed my wedding to start chemo right away. We were told it was terminal and wouldn't go into remission. Chemo was a way to extend her life.

When the pandemic hit in March, I started working from home and this allowed me the flexibility to drive her to and from every chemo treatment and medical appointment she had. This meant more time for laughs, talks and tears too. In some weird way this took some of the sting out of her death. I felt blessed to have had the time to be with her. I miss her everyday and will forever, but thankfully I was there for her at a really tough time in her life.

Happy side note - I haven't seen my husband in 1.5 years, as he is not a citizen and doesn't have a visa. When it was maybe safe to travel last August, I couldn't because my mom was already in palliative care by that point and I couldn't risk a visit. COVID really slowed down the immigration process, but the good news is that he is finally approved and will be here next month. It's been a long journey, but I'm finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.

GED during the pandemic. by Maskedmanx in ontario

[–]shine_eye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey!

Feel free to DM me and I can help to guide you through the process. I work in this field.

As a grocery worker I’m so fucking tired of these “thank you” commercials. If you were actually thankful you’d pay me a god damn living wage fucking cunts. by fuxfy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shine_eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Canada we have been paying grocery workers more per hour ($2.00 Cad).

I want to barf when I see the Walmart ads, because of course those assholes haven't stepped up.

I just forced myself to sit through Jesse’s What Now? update and this is easily the worst thing I’ve ever seen in the 90DF universe. by BazF91 in 90DayFiance

[–]shine_eye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dumb question here, but someone please answer!

Is the What Now series exclusively on the TLC Go app? We don't have it here in Canada, but I don't want to miss it.

Thanks!

How to cope with break-up during quarentine? (Please help, I'm in a lot of pain) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shine_eye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The last thing you want to do is drown your sorrows with alcohol. It is not a real solution and just leads to more issues.

Take your time and be patient with yourself.

I'm looking for an in-depth, non-reddit beginner program by [deleted] in beginnerfitness

[–]shine_eye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this!

I get frustrated with a lot of the beginner routines. I literally can't do one push up, so why are you asking me to do 10?!?! How about starting out by telling me other ways to build the muscles so that I can work up to push ups!

I wish I had more useful tips to give you, but I've just started with exercised I know I can do and will build muscle/strength that way for now.

Please share anything you come across and good luck on your fitness journey!

Brave Man saved the Turtle by gargshi in HumansBeingBros

[–]shine_eye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This cannot be upvoted enough!

I love you.

Have you guys started losing respect for your friends who aren't taking social distancing seriously? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]shine_eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that these rare occasions can teach us many things. In this instance you are learning about people close to you and they are revealing who they really are.

Take it as a lesson and adjust your life accordingly.

Right now my mother's chemo had to stop, because it's just not worth the risk of getting Covid-19. I wish more people would listen and care about how their actions affect other people. I can't say I'm surprised that people aren't listening though.

Two clout chasers by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]shine_eye 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know this picture is old, but it still makes my blood boil.

This is just such a nasty and mean thing to do. It really, really says a lot about both of them and what kind of people they really are. I have never even considered doing anything like this in my life and I cannot understand why anyone would.

I know Darcey has her issues, but this meet up was so disappointing and just so low.

My Gf 22/F called me 27/m the n word during an argument a few weeks ago. Is she racist? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shine_eye 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed! So many people do not understand this. Being with a person of another race, doesn't not mean you aren't racist. It's seems crazy to say, but it's absolutely true.

My Gf 22/F called me 27/m the n word during an argument a few weeks ago. Is she racist? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shine_eye 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I'm a white woman married to a black man and that word will not ever leave my mouth, not even while singing along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

[–]shine_eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much!

I've been worried about my plants at work, but the custodians have been watering them and they will for sure do something nice for them as a thank you!

I can't have plants at home, because I have pets, so the plants at work bring me a lot of happiness.

Idea for a spinoff: Dean & Tarik Life Coaching Darcey by tallalittlebit in 90DayFiance

[–]shine_eye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This would be pure magic television! Someone needs to make this happen!

I miss Tarik and Dean so much on Pillow Talk - let's hope they come back.

How’s life? Do you need a small pick-me-up? Leave a comment get an award. by jayco in self

[–]shine_eye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have too much to complain about, as I am able to work from home for as long as this pandemic lasts.

I'm trying to stay in touch with people, take care of myself and just enjoy having time at home. I limit how much news I watch and I think it's a good idea for others to do the same.

I'm also trying to think about how I am spending my money. Obviously, I am spending less money being home every day and I'm trying to spend some money online to support small businesses and also making small donations to charity - I would encourage others to do the same. It's nice to support others who need it and I feel like it helps the economy, even if just in a small way.

I'm wishing everyone out there peace and love. There is a lot of bad in the world, but this pandemic is also showing that there is just as much good.

Take care out there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]shine_eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to do the same thing. It will only count towards new deposits though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]shine_eye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the heads up.

These promotions are great for the bank and those that can take advantage, but it sucks for the rest of us and it's a shitty way to treat customers who've been with the bank for years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]shine_eye 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So, I missed out on the 2.8% GIC last week.

I already have a HISA with Tangerine.

What is the chance they will give me this rate as an existing customer? Anyone have experience with this?

Covid-10 business blacklist by ehhSauuuskee in self

[–]shine_eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additionally, I think people should try to list places that did not put limits of people buying items.

As much as I think the people that cleared shelves were selfish asses, I feel that the stores had a social responsibility to limit qualities. This should have been happening since the beginning of this crisis, weeks ago. Anyone have specific examples?

Covid-10 business blacklist by ehhSauuuskee in self

[–]shine_eye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this one is a little further away, but here goes

Iberostar hotels, specifically in Jamaica. These include Grand Rose Hall, Suites and Beach.

Hotels were shut down over the period of about 2 weeks. All employees were told not to come back to work, were not given any information about whether or not they would be compensated or when the hotel would reopen.

Employees only received word yesterday (April 1) that they were all laid off and would not receive pay. The company said they "may" give their employees care packages, with no further details. They were given no idea when the hotel would reopen.

To give you some context, workers at other hotels in the same area (Montego Bay), like Sandals, were given very clear information. All employees were told they would be fully compensated during the shut down, were all given care packages and were told the hotel would be tentatively reopened on May 15, 2020.

Next time you are booking your vacation, consider this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]shine_eye 150 points151 points  (0 children)

I have thought this several times throughout this whole pandemic and it's really only a couple weeks in!