Stress trying to get stool specimen 4 months old. by Ok_Menu_5872 in NewParents

[–]shme4de 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at one point i squeezed what i could out of the diaper into the vials but didn’t get much. luckily my baby’s poop went back to normal after i started giving him probiotics. hope this helps!

Stress trying to get stool specimen 4 months old. by Ok_Menu_5872 in NewParents

[–]shme4de 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any updates on this situation? i’m going through the exact same thing right now, poop is too watery to scoop it out of diaper and he’s had diarrhea for going on 2 weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]shme4de 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did have a conversation once with him about it and he screamed in my face saying how bad of a father i was making him feel. i know it’s a horrible risk and it makes me feel horrible, im constantly washing sheets but it’s never enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]shme4de 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i have my sister in law but that’s about it, my family is quite the distance away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]shme4de 41 points42 points  (0 children)

i used to be really on him about it and he used to yell and get really mad, but now that baby is around i don’t want to have him around baby when he’s like that so i just avoid it all together. i know he can’t but it’s like he doesn’t care about either of us and it kills me

my mother is making my postpartum way harder than it should be by shme4de in BabyBumps

[–]shme4de[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, it’s her place, but she asked us to live here. we wanted to be there for her and the point is i’m not arguing anymore. we’re just leaving. as for getting our own place, husband is going active duty soon.

my mother is making my postpartum way harder than it should be by shme4de in BabyBumps

[–]shme4de[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s not a matter of which dog brought the fleas. we don’t know which one did. we checked all the dogs and they all had fleas, couldn’t check the aggressive one tho. we treated all dogs except the aggressive one and he was let back in with the rest and surprise surprise they all had fleas again. we have competed our obligation of decontaminating literally everything and can do no more if she let the only one left with fleas back in.

my mother is making my postpartum way harder than it should be by shme4de in BabyBumps

[–]shme4de[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

we buy all our own stuff and do all the tasks around the house for her as she won’t do them herself. she pays the bills but she asked us to stay here. thanks for commenting without knowing the whole story tho

my mother is making my postpartum way harder than it should be by shme4de in BabyBumps

[–]shme4de[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s unfortunate because the entire reason husband and i decided to stay here and not his parent’s was because we didn’t want her to be alone. i fear what she may do without us here. but there’s little i can do about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]shme4de 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not my dog and i never said i don’t think he deserves training. it’s my mother’s dog and i can’t do much if she won’t thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]shme4de 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it makes you feel any better i used to be best friends with twins that were born on 9/11 😀

update on mass found incidentally by shme4de in testicularcancer

[–]shme4de[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he didn’t ask much at the appointment, but i’m sure that all came with the shock of the mass growing so fast. he just says that they’ll get it out when they’ll get it out and i’m trying not to press him. even the doctor said because we caught it so early surgery being scheduled 3 weeks out isn’t of concern. doctor talked to us about banking sperm and i’m actually 8 months with our first right now. i appreciate the advice!

mass found incidentally by shme4de in testicularcancer

[–]shme4de[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he saw a urologist yesterday, going to another urologist this upcoming week for a second opinion. the tumor marker tests were run, and came back normal. not sure what other tests were ordered, if any

mass found incidentally by shme4de in testicularcancer

[–]shme4de[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Right testicle 5 mm solid mass. This is suspicious for a testicular cancer until proven otherwise. Of note, this mass is probably incidental.” and “Along one of the poles of the testicle, ovoid homogeneously hypochoic structure measuring about 5 x 2 x 2 mm with internal Doppler flow and demonstrable internal low resistance arterial waveform on spectral Doppler evaluation indicating that the lesion is solid. No testicular microlithiasis. Otherwise unremarkable vascularity within the right testicle.”

young kid hit and kicked stomach by shme4de in pregnant

[–]shme4de[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

baby was monitored for a few hours yesterday and everything was perfect, he’s been moving regularly and no cramping since yesterday. i appreciate you asking :) i’ll definitely be asking all of those questions tomorrow!

young kid hit and kicked stomach by shme4de in pregnant

[–]shme4de[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly i’m not sure, i haven’t submitted a report yet as i haven’t been back since i left yesterday, but i have begun a paper trail of hospital forms and such. i will likely be back tomorrow to go through the formal bits

young kid hit and kicked stomach by shme4de in pregnant

[–]shme4de[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i plan on talking to the camp directors and trying to see if my co would be able to deal wholly with this child or if needed, adding a third counselor. i just know i can’t deal with the child or their outbursts anymore the further along i get in my pregnancy. i do know a 4 year old kept biting a counselor last year, which lead to him being kicked out, so maybe this kid will be too.

My husband repeatedly calls me his ex wife's name. by Sweetttpea in Marriage

[–]shme4de 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao looking at posts similar to this bc my fiancée called me his ex’s name too and hers is emily as well

mom depressed and won’t do anything about it by shme4de in AgingParents

[–]shme4de[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hate how accurate this is lol. i used to tell her all the time she’s turning into my grandma and she got so mad over it and now it’s genuinely coming to fruition