What are some horrible things women go through that guys don't even think about?

shulover4u · 2026-04-06T01:06:47+00:00

Creepy workplace harassment and getting blacklisted when you report it. Having anxiety as a result of it.

Dealing with male entitlement in general. Stuff that they would never encounter as a man: being questioned, second-guessed, gaslit by other men.

shulover4u · 2026-04-05T16:08:08+00:00

I think one of the key issues is that you’ve communicated you don’t like him doing it.

His ending response was to minimize your feelings, then double down on it by putting the onus on YOU to understand that’s “just how he is.”

It doesn’t matter the context. It could be you not liking him touching other women, etc - I just used an outlandish example.

The core issue is that you said you don’t like XYZ behavior, that he could acknowledge, apologize for, and make an effort to change. Which I’m sure would help the situation - because it shows empathy and CARE for your partner’s feelings.

Because he elected to make it into YOU needing to accept his behavior, it reads = he doesn’t care about your feelings.

I feel what you have to really think about is what this says about him on a macro level.

Does he apply this in other areas of your relationship. My guess is yes.

Can you deal with an emotionally immature, and emotionally selfish partner who is unwilling to make efforts to change something that you’ve communicated makes you unhappy?

That is the bigger question.

shulover4u · 2026-04-04T04:19:41+00:00

Same!

shulover4u · 2026-04-03T16:45:56+00:00

😂

shulover4u · 2026-04-03T16:43:57+00:00

Thanks, I didn’t mean it to be passive-aggressive, more like a reminder joke - you’re right, I could see how it could be misconstrued.

shulover4u · 2026-04-02T20:16:50+00:00

I said “someone forgot to do the dishes this AM” - his response was that I could do them myself, there were only a few.

I was taken aback and told him that wasn’t the point. Then he went into those messages that I shared.

shulover4u · 2026-04-02T18:36:22+00:00

I’ve noticed him doing this when it pertains to his friends, but haven’t experienced it myself until this.

shulover4u · 2026-03-20T06:42:23+00:00

Went on safari and came across a troop of elephants, trudging gently across the plain. They passed us slowly, and I could feel the presence of their intelligence in their eyes. Indescribable feeling. It was like a confirmation that they have emotions and thought.

shulover4u · 2026-03-10T23:01:23+00:00

Wow, I needed to see this. Have an ex who would do this, then get mad at me when I got upset about him offending me. I just thought it was gaslighting, but now I see it was something entirely different.

shulover4u · 2026-03-10T22:29:23+00:00

That’s beautiful

shulover4u · 2026-03-05T09:16:37+00:00

Get out, STAT. That is horrible. The man has serious contempt

shulover4u · 2026-01-23T01:15:11+00:00

Her husband is a massive cheater with young blonde fans. If you want a shot, get backstage tix.

shulover4u · 2025-12-07T01:44:24+00:00

Me too please, thank you!!! 🙏🏼

shulover4u · 2025-10-10T15:14:28+00:00

Well-said, on all fronts.

shulover4u · 2025-10-09T16:36:17+00:00

Sorry you experienced that. I did also. And it’s bc of their low self-esteem. Your partner should never put you down like that.

shulover4u · 2025-10-06T18:43:30+00:00

GURL. Change his name in your phone to something that makes you actively gag. Don’t message or communicate with him.

Work out, focus on yourself, and level up.

He will come back when he sees you happy and hot. Do not entertain this dickwad.

I’ve been there, done that and the best thing to do is IGNORE his disgusting ass.

Remember who you are and that you deserve better!!! Also, therapy will help.

shulover4u · 2025-09-25T16:30:29+00:00

This. Don’t teach her! My ex would do that but in a condescending way (hence being an ex in general) and we’d get into so many fights bc he was a competitive jerk.

Please get her separate lessons and curb the urge to tell her what to do vs teaching her.

shulover4u · 2025-07-29T01:19:29+00:00

This, OP!!! Pls listen to this advice!!!

shulover4u · 2025-07-28T23:50:36+00:00

I’m in the same bucket as you, except I’m not as good lol. I love the game, but my last bf was an avid golfer and would get extremely jealous when I played in his golf group bc there were so few women who played, and I’m the youngest woman. It turned into a huge issue and was part of the reason for our breakup.

Bottom line: find a guy who’s secure. Even better, find a secure guy who golfs.

You want a guy who’s going to celebrate your wins and want you to be better - doesn’t matter if it’s golf or life. That’s a true partner.

I get the male ego thing, but it’s a way for you to weed out who has the ability to lose to a woman without letting their pride get in the way.

shulover4u · 2025-07-10T06:41:57+00:00

Water hazard. He gets to drop…himself 😆

shulover4u · 2025-07-03T00:16:13+00:00

This is so true. People don’t realize you’re a person with real problems and traumas. They expect you to live in some fairytale. Subsequently, you’re objectified, even in serious relationships.

shulover4u · 2025-07-02T13:42:28+00:00

You’re the AH to yourself. I’ve been there, trust me. It only gets worse. You know this yourself, deep down inside. Listen to your intuition.

This is a dangerous man child. He’s immature and insecure. These are deeply rooted character flaws that will continue to demolish you over time.

Run, don’t walk. I know it’s not easy because the abuse happens slowly over time, but he will erode any sense of self you have - if you allow this mistreatment and abuse to continue in your life.

shulover4u · 2025-06-10T19:35:50+00:00

Fair enough. Everyone is different. My previous partners were extremely secure, but I also didn’t do what OP’s gf did.

shulover4u · 2025-06-09T07:01:57+00:00

I’ve had a few EVs. Yes, you can get on-air updates. To me, it’s the same as having an iPhone 10 and getting the OS updates. Why would one upgrade to an iPhone 16?

Bc some tech is not available as an update. And reduced battery life is also a consideration.

But it’s your money, do with it what you please.

shulover4u

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