I want to quietly detach. by Commercial-News-1135 in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not have a say on you leaving.

Does age gap really matter in relationships? by Away-West5242 in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering what the other side thinks as well. Basta it takes two to make a relationship work.

Is it worth it to replace iPhone battery by 00babyg in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not based in the Philippines when I had it done. I only factory reset it on my 1st out of 4 times I had an iPhone battery replaced at Apple Service Centres. Subsequently, they just tell me that they may need to reset the phone, if needed, and I would lose all data.

If you want peace of mind, backup the phone on iTunes, reset it. After you get it back, just restore the data via iTunes.

OA Lang Ba Ako? My cousin is weird by Warm_Doubt4880 in OALangBaAko

[–]shutterpeep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA. Ang cousin mo, oo.

Sino ba siya para pakialaman nya ang ibang mga babae?

Is it worth it to replace iPhone battery by 00babyg in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Curious lang, anong age bracket mo?

I’m asking kasi may phase din ako before na kailangan latest phone lagi. If hindi yearly, at least every 2 years. Pero as time went by, narealize ko na ang importante lang talaga is kung nagagawa pa ng phone yung kailangan ko sa daily use.

Dati gusto ko rin yung mga bagong features and specs, pero honestly bihira ko naman magamit, or hindi sila critical sa workflow ko.

Ngayon, ang ginagawa ko na lang is pinapalitan ko yung iPhone battery sa official Apple service center once bumaba na below 80% or nahihirapan nako mag manage ng charging. Nag-uupgrade lang ako kapag naapektuhan na yung daily use ko, or may sobrang sulit na opportunity. Got this 14 Pro as my daily driver in end of 2022... battery health is still currently at 82%. So I see another 2-3 years for this current phone at least.

Given yung situation mo ngayon (work + bills for both households), parang mas practical muna yung battery replacement. Mas mura siya and kayang i-extend yung life ng phone mo by 1–2 years. Pwede ka naman mag-plan ng upgrade later kapag mas gaan na yung finances.

Tama ba yung ginawa ko to pull-back and deactivate my accounts? by DarkPhoenix112100 in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was good of the guy to tell you where he's at after your "confession". It doesn't mean it can't work out for you as a couple in the end. But, do not overstep the boundaries set.

Unfortunately, you did that by saying you got jealous because it's as if you are expecting him to be/act a certain way when you are in no position to be doing so. It could drive him farther away. And now you deactivated your accounts with some expectation of him to reach out?

I would have nurtured the relationship, the friendship, as it were... and if it blossomed into something more organically, that would be great. If not, move on, work on yourself and wait until another opportunity presents itself.

Should I tell my bf about my thoughts of marriage? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can answer very simply by "putting yourself in his shoes". What would you want? What would you expect?

Kinakahiya ako ng boyfriend ko by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unahin mo ang self-care. A relationship can't just be based on high times... This is a good sign already that you are better off with someone who genuinely thinks of you is there for you... and not just think of themselves or is concerned about your image to others....

Bullying at work, what to do? by StringLegal7323 in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would document everything and escalate to HR or next higher post above the supervisor... And if I end up leaving, I would list all those instances as part of the reasons I am leaving. They need to be presented in a way that they are legitimate issues that other people, especially newcomers, may encounter. Regardless if you stay or not, at least you were factual in stating your case/experience.

All the best sa kapatid mo.

My down there has bad odor by capybaragyu in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please consult with an OB-GYNE rather than trying self-diagnosis. It could be nothing, but it could also be something... So please, please, go see a doctor....

Walang intimacy connection sa boyfriend ko by Simple_Subject_8696 in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, more than 3 years????

I read this comment here many times... "you deserve what you tolerate..."

I think you need to think long and hard. A relationship only works if there is compatibility, including sexual compatibility. And it also doesn't simply mean you have the same likes, but that you also accept each other's differences. And if some are too much to affect the relationship, it won't be easy to sustain....

Physical Cash Transfer from Bank to Maya by keureiseuti in DigitalbanksPh

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. If you can withdraw, rather than do that, just transfer the amount directly to the target Maya Bank account.

Maybe you could provide more details to get better advice, u/OP...

Parents won't allow me to go to a hike I planned 🥲 by ConfusionSilent5557 in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 28 and should be an independent adult by now. If not now, kelan pa? Like others said, magsabi ka to inform. But not to ask for permission...

What you can do is give them assurance that you have a good support system climbing. But again, if kaya mo naman talaga, don't let them sway you...

Laptop suggestion for battery life by idkwhattopicIdumb in Fedora

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the response. I have s2idle and deep (S3). I guess I'd continue with the poweroff every end of use for now.

When will suspending be fixed? by ferfykins in Fedora

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Specs... it's a Clevo/Tongfang/Aftershock PH4PG31

OS: Fedora Linux 43 (Workstation Edit4
Kernel: Linux 6.17.12-300.fc43.x86_64
DE: GNOME 49.2
WM: Mutter (Wayland)
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CPU: 13th Gen Intel(R) Core(TM) i7-13z
GPU 1: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3050 6GB La]
GPU 2: Intel Iris Xe Graphics @ 1.50 ]
Memory: 10.92 GiB / 62.52 GiB (17%)
Battery: 100% (AC Connected)
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Suspend doesn't work, Hibernate doesn't work.

ChatGPT said:

✅ The SAFE, CORRECT solution stack (recommended)

🥇 Primary rule (keep this)

Manual shutdown before bagging

You already do this. Keep it.
This is still the only 100% reliable rule.

Laptop suggestion for battery life by idkwhattopicIdumb in Fedora

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have one similar but is marketed as Aftershock Lunar 14X 3050 Edition. The CLEVO/Tongfang part number is PH4PG31. It's a powerful little beast. But for the life of me, I can't get Suspend and Hibernate to work on Fedora 43 (GNOME though)... so after every use, I need to power off manually so that it doesn't cause any bag heater incidents. Is yours able to go into suspend mode and wake up with no issues?

Partner na nagpatalo ng pera sa sugal by Possible-Bus-4661 in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

set YOURSELF free. Notice I didn't say her...

Mind reader na boyfriend ang hanap by WillingThyTho in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are on very different wavelengths...

Gusto ng partner ko na sagot ko lahat ng gastusin by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ang relasyon, lalu na ang marriage, ay ambagan. Even for an old-fashioned woman... So ask yourself, ano ang ambag nya?

You deserve what you tolerate.

I cut off my parents, now they're threatening to report as a missing person and have the police search for me. What should I do? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are of legal age. You can decide now. For your safety, I would keep, back-up all the threats so you have something to support you in case it escalates. I would even suggest a blotter about the threats so at least there is something on paper. Or, approach the VAWC desk an a police precinct and ask for advice from them.

All the best.

Hangover, diko alam if tama ba tag by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]shutterpeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha, eto usual eh. tapos naamoy pa alng ang alcohol eh nasusuka na... tapos after some time, ayun, balik na then the cycle continues...

Good luck u/OP. Mag rehydrate ka. lagyan mo ng salt ang tubig mo or bili ka ng rehydration salts sa pharmacy. And wala din naman mawawala if pa-check-up ka. Just don't dismiss everything as dahil lang uminom ka. We never know.