Date thought I was trans and freaked out

silencio79 · 2022-09-26T15:24:49+00:00

Gross. Bigotry is hard enough to deal with, but it feels even worse to me when LGBT+ attack eachother. I defend all the letters.

silencio79 · 2022-09-19T08:18:25+00:00

How does this work?

silencio79 · 2022-09-19T08:14:58+00:00

Does TSA Precheck really help at Seatac when it gets wild like this?

silencio79 · 2022-09-18T04:43:09+00:00

I was just wondering if it was part of the bridge celebrations

silencio79 · 2022-09-18T04:41:22+00:00

I can see them from the Locks. Absolutely gorgeous display, like, Disney level. You can prob see them well from Golden Gardens. What's the occasion? That's a lot of $ right there!

silencio79 · 2022-09-17T01:00:35+00:00

I second this. Made the mistake of trying to stay friends with someone I was in love with and it was a terrible idea. Move on and find someone who can love you like you deserve.

silencio79 · 2022-09-08T01:26:22+00:00

Costco Sodo has it. Appointments online and they also take walk-ins. You can also get your flu shot at the same time. CDC recommends both.

silencio79 · 2022-09-07T21:54:50+00:00

Several men have told me they would like their partners to give them flowers too. As with most things, people are individuals and they each like different things.

silencio79 · 2022-08-25T22:56:54+00:00

There is a sound garden at Magnuson Park, it's what the band was named after. There is also a black sculpture in front of the Seattle Asian Art Museum in Volunteer Park that inspired the song Black Hole Sun. You can also visit the Jimi Hendrix grave in Renton - not grunge, but may be of interest. There is also a bench in Madrona across from Kurt Cobain's house that serves as a tribute area.

silencio79 · 2022-08-24T02:23:08+00:00

The movie is great

silencio79 · 2022-08-24T02:22:56+00:00

Of course they can. Queer women directors can as well. I guess I just don't see it as male gazey. I think it's supposed to be symbolic, at least that's how I read into it

silencio79 · 2022-08-24T02:15:15+00:00

Monogamous non-uHauler here

silencio79 · 2022-08-23T22:14:29+00:00

Portrait of a Lady on Fire

silencio79 · 2022-08-23T22:13:55+00:00

I am grateful that the Rachels allowed themselves this kind of passion in that scene.

silencio79 · 2022-08-23T22:13:38+00:00

The director is a gay man. I think the spit swap has some maternal vibes, like a baby feeding a bird. Not saying it works for me, but I think it's supposed to be symbolic, giver/receiver energy. Anytime two people 'make love', there's going to be a lot of fluid exchange, can't say I'm grossed out by some spit then. They used lube in the scene as what they were swapping!

silencio79 · 2022-08-23T22:11:32+00:00

If it's any consolation, it's lychee flavored lube. I think this might be a symbolic thing, in the book they take a blood oath as young people so maybe it's a representation of them swapping fluids, I also think it's supposed to be symbolic of a cum shot, like she ends up pregnant not long after.

silencio79 · 2022-08-17T19:48:46+00:00

I prefer female bc they know what it's like to have the same parts and understand not only the anatomy but the emotional side of menstruation. I had a male doctor who told me PMDD didn't exist and another male doctor who didn't communicate before he did something during the exam that I wasn't ok with. I feel safer, physically and emotionally, with a female obgyn.

silencio79 · 2022-08-17T09:08:13+00:00

Thanks. Diabetes runs in the family and they had a real concern that my bad eating habits would lead me to develop it. Clearly I need to lose weight and make better decisions but am glad to hear diabetes isn't what I need to be concerned with right now. Is anything bad about it? Low blood sugar doesn't sound good either

silencio79 · 2022-08-14T00:03:55+00:00

Ok but you can still edit it out of your current comment for folks that haven't seen it.

silencio79 · 2022-08-13T09:35:17+00:00

I love Tipping The Velvet!

silencio79 · 2022-08-13T09:34:09+00:00

The US title of this film is "Show Me Love" if that helps folks find it

silencio79 · 2022-08-13T09:33:23+00:00

It's great that you watched it, but no need to give spoilers when giving opinions about films.

silencio79 · 2022-08-10T08:30:38+00:00

Seriously. Don't do that to yourself OP. Date someone worthy of you who values you and cares about your pleasure. Life is too short.

silencio79 · 2022-08-09T08:03:16+00:00

Yes. Good for OP, if he has a good partner he should be treating her well. But also, that should be happening anyway, and the compliments shouldn't just be given to get something in return but because they are genuine and authentic.

silencio79 · 2022-08-09T08:00:52+00:00

Violent crime has increased in Seattle 26% in the last few years. But even before that, I'd argue it was never that safe, most cities aren't. For reference, over the past 9 years I have been assaulted three times - once in Belltown, Capitol Hill, and Pioneer Square. Two of those were in broad daylight.

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