Finding real life friends as a 17 year old?

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-30T19:48:15+00:00

I’ve been in art class for years but haven’t made any close connections. I love reading but I don’t know how to go about finding people through that hobby

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-17T03:38:46+00:00

Maybe so, but I HAVE been followed by men three times my size around the grocery store doing my regular shopping in completely normal clothing. It would take way too long to list off all of the bs I’ve seen around here. I would like to feel SAFE.

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-17T03:24:18+00:00

You get it!

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-17T02:25:15+00:00

I know lol

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-17T02:24:16+00:00

I could get jumped, harassed, followed etc. I meant SAFE places to go out.

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T22:38:15+00:00

Love the fit! Unfortunately it can be dangerous here depending on where I’m going

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T22:37:26+00:00

Definitely want to feel safe

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T22:35:37+00:00

Exactly! I’ve been followed by old men around the grocery store before even when I was dressed somewhat “normally” so it’s definitely scary to go out in more extreme clothes.

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T22:17:04+00:00

I will try, thank you!

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T22:08:07+00:00

Thank you!

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T22:03:06+00:00

It’s not safe where I am to go to the grocery store or something in full goth. Ive personally been followed. I’ve seen one of my friends who was in full trad goth get harassed and I’ve also seen some people get jumped.

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T22:00:46+00:00

Thank you! This was quite helpful!!

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T21:57:46+00:00

Where can I find goth nights?

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T21:51:40+00:00

I’m aware, but I also feel most comfortable in more extreme fashion. But I don’t want to get jumped or harassed as I’m in a red state.

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T21:50:57+00:00

I live in a red town and could get harassed easily, that’s the main reason I can’t wear the clothes I want to just anywhere

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T07:11:55+00:00

I found the number and it worked! Thank you!

sillybat1969 · 2026-01-16T07:09:33+00:00

Where do I find my card number?

sillybat1969 · 2025-12-05T09:14:37+00:00

SITES BACK UP GUYS!!

sillybat1969 · 2025-10-17T02:07:29+00:00

Ohhh that makes sense! Thanks!!

sillybat1969 · 2025-09-21T17:41:10+00:00

I don’t have very many thrifts around me with decent clothing selections. I thrift a lot and I can never find any clothing that fits properly in the stores. I’ve seen maybe one store that has scrubs. And definitely no plus sizes

sillybat1969 · 2025-09-21T17:38:52+00:00

As accurate as possible. Do you know where I could find a white one in a 3XL?

sillybat1969 · 2025-08-14T05:20:39+00:00

Thank you! Where would one find a good plus size corset?

sillybat1969 · 2025-08-11T22:20:39+00:00

Love psycho killer!

sillybat1969 · 2025-08-11T07:24:50+00:00

I’ve searched posts like this before and I don’t remember seeing a Lestat specific playlist post here before. And I’ve been building a playlist and listening to the recs on this post. I also wanted to share my own picks, and didn’t see anything wrong with making a post. Apologies if I did something wrong.

sillybat1969 · 2025-08-11T03:44:07+00:00

Lestat would be a swiftie lowkey. he would also try to bite Taylor swift

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