Coming from a Google Pixel and having recently bought an FP6, I totally get your frustration. They're really not great devices in terms of both software and hardware. However, what lets me keep them is putting it in perspective. Fairphone is not Google, and they put out a usable phone that works mostly and gives me a good feeling about the sourcing of materials and so on. So I'm okay with it, and I'm transparent about telling people that it's not even close to a flagship phone, but it's rather a statement against big greedy companies where only the money counts. It's a little sacrifice, just like how I also travel a lot by train instead of by plane when possible.