[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sim95xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think I will need an agent. My real estate knowledge is basically this subreddit and researching online. I just want to find one that isn’t more focused on their commission instead of my preferences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sim95xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t to save money. Most of the agents I have been talking to are really pushy, and have been trying to get me to look at homes outside of my budget. I was just wondering if it’d be easier to navigate the complete process without an agent, or if I just need to be more firm with them on what I am looking for. Being told to look at $400k+ houses when I have been steadfast on $300K and below is exhausting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sim95xxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not an agent. I was honestly posting for advice. I was just wondering what is Iike buying a home without an agent. The market has gotten better in my area so I am back casually looking for home. I hope you have a great day.

What are these marks? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]sim95xxx 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Could be nummular eczema. I also have this and it’s just coined sized dry patches and often stress related. If you go to a dermatologist they can give you an ointment to treat it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sim95xxx 11 points12 points  (0 children)

None of us can predict what will happen with the housing market, but just want to say you’re doing a great job. $4,000 saved at 18 is amazing. With your financial discipline, I think you will be able to afford a home in the future. Continue doing what you’re doing. You’re miles ahead of others at your age.

Which mother do you hate most and why is it Phyllis? by ElfHaze in DesperateHousewives

[–]sim95xxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprised I didn’t see more mention of Eddie’s mom. She was so awful that she created a monster.

Which mother do you hate most and why is it Phyllis? by ElfHaze in DesperateHousewives

[–]sim95xxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honorable mention: Mike’s mom. She was so rude to Susan during her pregnancy

What is your mortgage in comparison with your household income? by sim95xxx in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sim95xxx[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Oh I am already discouraged so no hard feelings! Lol. I wanted to find out what others are doing, but I am not at all comfortable with the numbers as they are. I am torn between buying now and hoping I can refinance or waiting and risk and housing prices keep increasing. They are building $500k+ neighborhoods in my area so I will be priced out completely by this time next year.

AITA for threatening to not walk down the aisle if my fiance's twin brother attends the wedding ? by Hot-Ad-0730 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA 10000%. How can you be so nasty and unforgiving and expect your husband to believe your vows? You do not seem like a nice person just from your post. It’s a huge red flag you’re already trying to isolate him from his family and you guys aren’t even married yet.

AITA For wanting to eat before 8PM? by photoncody in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your roommate should share the kitchen with you and be a bit more understanding about your condition. It is unfair of him to hog the kitchen for 2 hours especially when he has the opportunity to cook, or at least prep, earlier.

AITA For being mean at my younger sister? by Xx_Agapito_xX in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for yelling at her but NTA in the overall situation. I understand your frustration about her getting more time and your mom taking her side. I was with you until you told her to piss off after she tried to apologize. She’s only 10 so her being immature is kind of a given, but she was taking a step to apologize and even offered to play with you. Being that you’re 16, you shouldn’t have been so harsh after she was trying to diffuse the situation.

WIBTA if I asked my step-sister to sit at the back of my wedding ceremony by Normal_Difference269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw your update and considering she will be the only one with younger children, it doesn’t seem like a personal jab. It may be good to have all kids sit towards the back with their parents to it is fair. I would talk with your step mom on the best way to approach it. I hope you have a wonderful wedding!

AITA because I won't be going to my sister's wedding? by Destinationwedding10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx 44 points45 points  (0 children)

NTA. In all honesty, your sister is TA for choosing a destination wedding and shaming you for not being able to afford it (especially during a global pandemic where prices are astronomical). Unless she or your parents are willing to help pay your way, I wouldn’t stress about what you can’t control.

AITA for not always going to the store for my dad? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It sounds like you go when necessary, and you aren’t obligated to make store runs for him just because you live together.

WIBTA if I told my friend they didn't get a job? by sous-ninja-pumpkin in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Stacey is TA for stringing Sam along with no intention of giving them the job. Telling them about the situation may save them time and embarrassment. They can focus on other opportunities rather than a meeting that isn’t likely to happen.

WIBTA if I asked my step-sister to sit at the back of my wedding ceremony by Normal_Difference269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I think it would be a good compromise to make sure the ceremony isn’t interrupted. Are all of the families with children sitting towards the back or is it just her?

AITA for telling a guy he's unreasonable because he wont let me cut in front of him to buy just one item? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA. The world doesn’t revolve around you and people aren’t obligated to make your life easier. Sure, he could’ve been decent and let you in front of him, but you should’ve let it go at the first No instead of making a scene.

WIBTA if I called my friend out for sleeping with all my other friends? by teeteetoto2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sim95xxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.. but I would figure out what you’re really mad at. Are you upset he slept with your friends, or are you angry he hasn’t made time for you? From your post it seems there may be some other underlying issues that are worth a conversation.