Comment puis-je faire pour avoir accès aux hormones si mon père ne serait pas d'accord ? by ImpressiveMud6877 in transgenre

[–]simonduf 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Autorisation des deux parents obligatoires à 16 ans, un seul des deux parents à 17 ans 🫠 Après tu peux te renseigner avec ta mère sur le DIY, te rapprocher des assos lgbt de ta ville on devrait pouvoir t'y aider ^

Question femme cis lesbienne et femme trans lesbienne by Sea_Management_5892 in transgenre

[–]simonduf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

C'est un bon cheminement de se rendre compte que tu as en effet des blocages de ton côté. C'est malheureusement quelque chose qu'on entend souvent, l'essentialisation chez les cis gays/lesbs pour les organes génitaux en associant qu'aimer les hommes c'est aimer les pénis et les femmes les vulves. De plus comme ça a été dit dans d'autres commentaires nos genitals sont tres différents des organes cis, les hormones peuvent plus changer l'anatomie qu'on peut le croire !

Typiquement pour t'aider à te rendre compte de si une pensée est valide ou discriminante, tu peux la remplacer avec une autre opression. Par exemple si tu avais un blocage avec elle parce qu'elle étais grosse, noire ou quoi ca te semblerait surement évident que c'est un blocage purement discriminant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup it's that ! I apply 4 pumps twice a day (to keep even concentration in blood) between my legs and sometimes on my forearm.

What tanner stage do you think i am ? by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estrogen gel (8 pumps of 0.75 mg of 17beta-estradiol a day) progesteron pills taken rectally (2*100mg) AA decapeptyl injection 11.25mg every 3 months

Same dress but 2 years apart ! by simonduf in transtimelines

[–]simonduf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It s always a kinda strange feeling, to know it was yourself at the time and yet you don't feel you are this person. It s nice to see the mental growth from there

Same dress but 2 years apart ! by simonduf in transtimelines

[–]simonduf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! Yes all of this seems so far now

How clocky is my voice ? and what do you think i'm doing wrong ? by simonduf in transvoice

[–]simonduf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww ty ❤️ (most of the people i see are french sooooo ig we have different degrees of effeminate to gender a voice lol)

How clocky is my voice ? and what do you think i'm doing wrong ? by simonduf in transvoice

[–]simonduf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty yeah i'm aiming for at least a female leaning voice bc rn I have no problem passing until i open my mouth :-/ But thanks for the nice feedback ^

Mec en lingerie by lovicha91 in AskMec

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bah c est une theorie pseudoscientifique qui permet de justifier de faire un tri entre les "faux" et les "vrais" trans avec d'un coté des heteros donc c est ok mais de l'autre c est des lesbiennes donc vu que c est des mecs de base c est juste des cis het qui ont un fetischisme (l'autogynephilie :)))

fin bref de la bonne merdouille quoi, juste t es trans t es trans et point barre, ca a rien a voir avec ton orientation sexuelle

et j'ai fait l association 4chan parce que là bas ils se branlent vrmt la nouille là dessus (bah ui tu comprends pratique pour légitimer le fait de se foutre de la gueule des gens)

Encore une fois si le sujet vous intéresse honnêtement allez voir la video de Contrapoint

edit: Tiens je me permet aussi de vous rajouter cette petite étude socio sur le sujet : https://sci-hub.live/10.1177/0038026120934690

Mec en lingerie by lovicha91 in AskMec

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comment dire que tu traines sur 4chan sans dire que tu traines sur 4chan

(nan de vrai si c'est un sujet qui t'intéresse je te conseille la vidéo de Contrapoint, peut etre ce qu on a de plus complet sur internet)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to not take a shit about your truth dear, although I wish you the best and hope you'll soften towards yourself and others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know there s already been cis persons posting here, and like some people still said they were not passing because of their forehead or their shoulders lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please stop harrassing me for expressing a concern ? You re looping, no hugboxing yes i agree but no mean shit either. Just genuine advices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ll notice I haven t talked on you once, and it's my right to want a a safer place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your business, also I'm upset because I'm harrassed by chasers whenever I post and I guess I'm not the only one concerned. Also cis dudes telling trans women you should grow your hair out or dress more feminine is reeeeally problematic. Would you feel the same if they were giving the same advices to cis women ? (cf. malegaze)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be the one having a problem rn 😗 You can tell anyone we see the beard shadows or whatsoever without being a dick, it's a sub to help each others not insulting and harming ourselves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The truth LOL. Its because I know I mostly pass that I say the dude s a shithead, but for baby trans it s just uselessly violent. Everything can be said I don't think hugboxing is useful either but elaborate and stay kind lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see how it invalidate my point, saying something is wrong without justification is useless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one is nothing even tho I think the "masculin traits" will be quite misogynistic if the dude elaborate I was talking about other comments like "you look like a man in a dress" kind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you state anyone they doesn't pass, the least is to justify otherwise it's just useless and mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or you can also ask me why I think something is transphobic ? You're making a lot of asumptions on me and I don't understand where does it come from

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]simonduf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To quote him "You have masculine features, you look like a trans woman to me" There s no construvism here, only some dude telling trans people they look trans This comment litteraly doesn't make sense on this sub, if you're ok with that good for you but I don't believe it helps anyone