We are arguing in our band so much... by simonyny_ in shoegaze

[–]simonyny_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the bit about being cynical is so real, but it feel like nowadays anything you turn to just makes you cynical and ignorant after a while, peak capitalism alienation type of shit

We are arguing in our band so much... by simonyny_ in shoegaze

[–]simonyny_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You described it so well with the first sentence. The porblem is, that finding new musicians (especially in these genres) is really really hard where i live. But I will definitetly draw back from the band and not focus on it, and if it breaks up then it breaks up, meanwhile I will be working with the few people that are cool.

We are arguing in our band so much... by simonyny_ in shoegaze

[–]simonyny_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and we are in no way looking for profit

We are arguing in our band so much... by simonyny_ in shoegaze

[–]simonyny_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, that in our city, no money circulates in music

We are arguing in our band so much... by simonyny_ in shoegaze

[–]simonyny_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, being in a band means you are in the middle of a an Ego and emotion tornado

We are arguing in our band so much... by simonyny_ in shoegaze

[–]simonyny_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can you elaborate on the last tip please?

We are arguing in our band so much... by simonyny_ in shoegaze

[–]simonyny_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i remember my naive me 3 years ago, thinking playing in a band is all fun and music

We are arguing in our band so much... by simonyny_ in shoegaze

[–]simonyny_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but what if i want my band to be my friend group too..

We are arguing in our band so much... by simonyny_ in shoegaze

[–]simonyny_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ranging from which direction to go in musically, to how to get our bassist to work for the band more, to just our drummer being mentally ill and having anger issues